Money Mistakes to Avoid in Your 40s and 50s

Avoid common money mistakes in your 40s and 50s. Learn to cut non-essential spending, pay off debt, and prioritize retirement savings.

The following is a guest post from my bloggy friend Teri Silver. Interested in having a guest post on my website? Click here for my guest post submission form.

TLDR: Your 40s and 50s aren’t the time to YOLO your way through expenses. Ditch the impulse buys, tackle that debt, diversify your investments, and yes – put your retirement before your kids’ college fund.

Stop Making These Money Mistakes Before It’s Too Late

Time doesn’t stop; as we age, money, security, and the ability to have a comfortable retirement become more important for living a stress-free life. Avoiding money mistakes in your 40s and 50s will help put a solid plan in place – for now and later.

Non-essential Spending

In your 20s and 30s, spending money on clothes, cars, travel, décor, dining out, and whatever else strikes your fancy is part of the “freedom” of being an adult. But by the time you hit age 40 and beyond, it pays to be more money-conscious. Although your income may be in the six figures, do you really need all that extra stuff? Cut back on non-essential spending. The money you save on tchotchkes you just don’t need can go toward saving for the future.

As we age, the “empty nester” phase of life is tempting. Now that the baby birds have flown the coop, you have more discretionary income to spend on hobbies and luxury items. But don’t go overboard on things you don’t need.

Of course, some things for the house are important, such as buying a new lawn mower (hint: the best time is now), upgrading a furnace, new windows, and plumbing. But that funky statue for the foyer? Just say no.

Downsizing

Reducing your living space is a money-saver, especially after the kids have moved out of the house. Down-sizing helps to free up more money for retirement saving. Large homes are expensive to maintain.

Don’t Ignore Debt

Closing your eyes to the sometimes-overwhelming balances on your credit cards can come back to haunt you. Ignoring debt – especially if the interest rate is more than 7 percent – can affect your credit score (which can have negative consequences down the road). The bottom line?  Make a priority to pay off debt, even if it’s a little at a time. Then, avoid using credit unless you know you can pay the bill (in full) at the end of the month.

Don’t Forget to Diversify Your Portfolio

If you play the stock market, have an IRA, annuities, or assorted mutual funds (or any other kind of investments), relying on one source of passive income is a mistake, especially in our ever-changing economy.  Consider engaging a financial planner for advice on investments, savings, and diversifying your portfolio. Conservative investments protect your savings. 

While you’re at it, don’t forget to review insurance policies at least once a year. Go through all your financial documents, such as wills, trusts, beneficiaries, and guardianships. Life changes. Don’t let important details slip by the goalie.

Your Kids are Important, but …

So is your retirement plan. Providing for your kids’ higher education is admirable, but that’s what student loans are for. Unless you have a paid-off house or something to generate a solid stream of retirement income, your ability to live comfortably would be at risk if you don’t prioritize your own future.

Supporting Other Adults

It may sound rather callous, but adult kids and other family members and friends are responsible for their own choices and finances. Covering debts, expenses, and living costs for adults – even if they’re your own children – will drain your money reserves, and you’ll likely NOT get that money back.

Health Care Costs

As we age, our health care costs go up. With higher premiums, more doctor visits, and the uncertainty of life, planning for long-term healthcare is essential … don’t underestimate your own potential lifespan.

Staying in the financial loop helps to avoid those money mistakes. With various podcasts out there, you can catch up on all the financial news during your commutes to and from work.

Avoiding money mistakes will shore up your financial future. And the biggest mistake? Not having the mindset to save money.

Editor’s Note: Full transparency here – I wanted to share this guest post featuring these money mistakes because I’m actively working on fixing some of them myself. After years of focusing on building my business and personal brand, I realized my retirement planning has been on the back burner for way too long. I’m currently working to get my investments diversified, paying down debt more aggressively, and honestly? I’m learning to say “no” to impulse purchases that don’t align with my long-term goals. If you’re in the same boat, you’re not alone. We’re all figuring this out together, one smart money decision at a time.

About the Author

Teri Silver is a journalist and outdoor enthusiast. She and her husband live on 5 acres with a vast lawn, three gardens, a farm, a pond, many trees, and a lot of yard work! The best parts of the year are summer and fall when home-grown veggies are on the dinner table.

If It’s Not in the Calendar, It Doesn’t Exist

If It's Not in the Calendar, It Doesn't Exist

Want to know the secret to never missing a workout? Put it in your calendar. Here’s why treating exercise like an appointment transforms everything.

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My Cousin Laughs at My Calendar Obsession. But It’s Why I Never Miss the Gym.

My cousin makes fun of me constantly. She thinks my calendar obsession is ridiculous.

But you know what? It’s the reason I show up to the gym every single day.

If it’s not in my calendar, it doesn’t exist. That’s my rule. And maybe it should be yours too.

Why Calendars Actually Work

Every single thing I do goes in my calendar. Doctor’s appointments. Meetings. Phone calls. And yes, every single workout.

Maybe you’re like me. Maybe you need that visual reminder. Maybe you need to see it written down to make it real.

Or maybe you think this sounds excessive. Either way, hear me out.

Sunday Night Planning

Every Sunday night, I sit down and look at my week. And I add every single gym class I plan to attend.

Monday mornings? Zumba and low-impact cardio. Tuesday? Low-impact cardio and toning, plus cardio drumming with the stability ball. Thursday? Tabata and stretch.

If there’s not a class I’m attending but I still want to work out, that goes in too. A walk. A home workout. Something.

Because if it’s not scheduled, it’s not happening.

My Weekly Schedule

Here’s what my typical week looks like:

Monday: Zumba and low-impact cardio
Tuesday: Low-impact cardio and toning, plus cardio drumming
Wednesday: Active recovery day – stretch and walk
Thursday: Tabata and stretch
Friday: Zumba and low-impact cardio and toning
Saturday: Zumba and low-impact cardio and toning
Sunday: Active recovery day – stretch and walk

Do I stick to this perfectly every week? Not always. But having it scheduled means I’m way more likely to show up than if I just wing it.

The Power of Stretch Classes

Can we talk about stretching for a second? Because y’all, I’m obsessed.

Second to Zumba, stretching might be my favorite thing. There’s something about it that makes me feel like I can do more with my body. Like I’m taking care of myself in a way that matters.

If you’re not stretching every day, or at least every few days, you’re missing out. I’ll link my favorite YouTube stretching playlist in the show notes because I cannot state enough how much I love stretches.

The “I Work From Home” Excuse

I work from home. And I get it. Some of you are thinking, “Well, it’s easy for you. You have time because you work from home.”

But here’s the thing. Working from home makes it EASIER to skip workouts, not harder. It’s incredibly easy to fill my day with everything except exercise.

That’s exactly why the calendar matters. I’ve actively chosen to put these workouts in my schedule. They’re appointments. They’re non-negotiable.

You Have Options

Most of the classes I take are taught by one instructor. But she also teaches evening classes. And there are other instructors too.

If you’re in Richmond, Kentucky like me, there are classes you can take. If you’re in Walla Walla, Washington or anywhere else, there are classes you can take too. Online or in-person. With equipment or without.

Pilates classes. Bodyweight classes. Weightlifting classes. Spin classes. Dance fitness classes. Zumba-inspired classes.

The options are everywhere. You just have to look.

Make It an Appointment

Here’s what I need you to understand. There’s something powerful about knowing a workout is an appointment. Not a “maybe if I feel like it.” Not a “we’ll see how the day goes.”

An appointment. Something non-negotiable. Something you have to show up for.

When you put it in your mindset that “I have this upcoming workout that I intend to do,” you make the plan to do it. And plans are more likely to happen than vague intentions.

Your Action Step

Get yourself a calendar. Or if you already use one, start using it differently.

Add specific dates and times when you will commit to yourself. When you will do the workouts. When you will start moving your body more.

Figure out what your week looks like and start adding in classes. It doesn’t matter where you live. It doesn’t matter if you go to a gym or work out at home. It doesn’t matter if you take classes or just walk.

What matters is that you schedule it. You make dates with yourself.

You Can Do This

Only you can do this for yourself. Nobody else can work out for you.

So make the commitment to yourself. Embrace the power of the calendar. Make these dates with yourself non-negotiable.

You deserve this. You must commit to yourself. Please just take care of yourself.

Get it drilled into your head: Make these dates with yourself. Make the commitments.

You can do this. I believe in you.


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Full Transcript – If It’s Not in the Calendar, It Doesn’t Exist: Why Scheduling Your Workouts Changes Everything

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What’s up you guys, famous Ashley Grant here
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and welcome to More Movement Please, the podcast
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where I try to inspire you to move your body
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more. Today I wanna talk about the importance
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and the power of a calendar. Now, my cousin,
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if she hears this, she’s gonna be laughing at
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me because she is forever making fun of me for
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my obsession with my calendar. The truth is that
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whenever it comes to my calendar, I kind of get
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a little bit obsessive. Every single thing I
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do has to go on my calendar. And the reason why
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is because if it’s not in calendar, it doesn’t
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exist. Maybe you’re like me. Maybe you’re not.
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Maybe this will help you. Maybe it won’t. But
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just sharing with what I’m going through in hopes
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that maybe it can help somebody. So every single
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week at the beginning of the week on Sunday,
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I take a look at what’s going on for the week.
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And I add into my calendar all of the… gym
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classes that I want to attend for the week. And
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if there’s not a gym class that I’m going to
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attend, but I still want to do a workout, I put
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that in there too. And the reason why is because
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I know that if it’s not in the calendar, it’s
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not going to happen. So on Monday mornings, I
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know that I will be doing Zumba and low impact
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cardio. So every Sunday night, that’s what goes
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on my calendar for the week. On Tuesdays, I know
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that I will be doing low impact cardio and toning.
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And then I’ll be doing the cardio drumming with
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the stability ball. Wednesdays are typically
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going to be my active recovery day and on that
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day I will do a walk or I’ll do a stretch class.
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Most of the times lately I’ve been doing both.
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But I at least try to do the stretch class because
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the stretch class is gold, y ‘all. I’m obsessed
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with stretching because it just feels so good
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on my body. And if you’re not doing some sort
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of a stretch every day or at least every few
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days, I highly, highly, highly recommend it.
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I will include a link in the show notes to my
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favorite playlist on YouTube for stretching because,
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y ‘all, I cannot state enough just how much I
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love stretches. Second to Zumba, I think it might
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be my favorite thing. I do love Tabata, don’t
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get me wrong, but something about stretch just
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makes me feel like I can do more with my body.
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So I highly recommend that. So on Thursdays,
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I generally will do Tabata and guess what? Another
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stretch class because again, I love stretching.
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Fridays are usually Zumba and then low impact
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cardio and toning. And then Saturday, I repeat
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that with Zumba and low impact cardio and toning.
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Occasionally on Sundays, I will try to get into
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a Zumba class. But if nothing else, that’s another
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active recovery day where I make sure to do stretches.
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And I try to walk as often as I can. I mean,
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I do have two little doggies. And so I’m constantly
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trying to walk them. Their names are Bailey’s
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and Kalua. You should check them out on Instagram.
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They’re the Pampered Pomchies. But I try to make
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sure that I… walk them as much as possible
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as well. So every single day I’m moving my body
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like that is that is my goal. That is what I
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love to do. I move my body as much as I can.
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And the thing is, I work from home. And so I
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get it. Some of you may be listening to this
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going, well, it’s easy for you. You can do it
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because you work from home. But at the same time,
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it’s that I actively have chosen to put these
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things in my calendar because it’s very easy,
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especially working from home, to fill up my day
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with everything but working out. The thing is,
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the gal that teaches most of the classes that
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I take, I mean, like 95 % of the classes I take,
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she also does evening classes. And if you don’t
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like her style, there’s other people that teach
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gym classes as well. If you’re listening to this
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from Richmond, Kentucky, I mean, come on, you
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can still find some kind of a class to take.
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If you’re not taking classes in Richmond, Kentucky,
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maybe you’re listening to this in, I don’t know,
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Walla Walla, Washington, you can find classes
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to do as well. I’ll leave some links in the show
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notes to some of my favorite online classes.
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There’s so many different classes you can take
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from no equipment classes to Pilates to body
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weight classes to weightlifting classes. I’ve
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even found ones for spin. I’ve found some that
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are pretty awesome for dance fitness. They’re
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not necessarily Zumba, but some of them are Zumba
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inspired. So there’s so many different classes
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that you can take online. I just recommend that
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you figure out what works for you and start moving
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your body more. Like that’s obviously the whole
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theme of this podcast, right? It’s what I keep
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drilling in and saying. But what I will definitely
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say is if you are thinking about doing this,
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put it in your calendar. Like if you’re the type
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of person that has to write down doctor’s appointments
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or if you write down meetings that you have with
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people or anything that you add into your calendar
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as a commitment. add in your workouts there is
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something so powerful about knowing that it is
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an appointment it is something that is not negotiable
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it is something that you have to show up for
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so just putting that in your mindset that hey
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i have this upcoming workout that i intend to
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do and so you make the plan to do it so what
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i want you to do seriously Get yourself a calendar.
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And if you already use a calendar, start adding
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in dates and times that you will commit to yourself.
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You will do the workouts. You will start moving
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your body more because y ‘all only you can do
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this for yourself, right? You can’t have anybody
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else work out for you. So make the commitment
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to yourself. Embrace the power of the calendar.
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Make these dates with yourself. Figure out what
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your week looks like and start adding in classes.
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I don’t care where you live. in the world whether
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it is richmond kentucky like me and you have
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a local gym that you can go to or if you live
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in walla walla washington and you only can take
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classes online i i don’t care where you live
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there are classes available that you can take
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and if you don’t want to take classes then you
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can at least do something where you’re moving
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your body you could be walking you could be doing
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squats you could be um doing wall push -ups or
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or or wall sits or I mean, there’s so many different
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things that you can be doing to be moving your
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body. Bottom line, just get out there, move your
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body, make the dates with yourself. You deserve
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this. You must commit to yourself. Please just
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take care of yourself. I know I keep saying this
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and I’m going to keep saying this every single
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time you guys tune in. That’s what you’re going
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to hear. So just get it drilled into your head.
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Make these dates with yourself. Make the commitments.
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You can do this. I believe in you. Onwards and
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upwards, my friends. Have you worked out today?
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Thank you.


Stop Dieting and Start Listening to Your Body

Stop Dieting and Start Listening to Your Body

I don’t diet. Ever. Here’s why listening to your body beats restrictive eating plans every single time for sustainable results.

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Why I’ll Never Diet Again (And Why You Shouldn’t Either)

Today, I want to talk about diet. Yep, that four-letter word that I can’t stand.

Maybe you’re like me. Maybe you can relate. I can’t stand the idea of dieting. I don’t like the idea of restricting myself from anything. And that’s not to say that I’m the type of person that just wants to binge all the time. I don’t want to just eat a bunch of crap.

Why Diets Don’t Work for Me

But here’s the thing about diets. They’re temporary. They’re restrictive. And they make you feel like you’re punishing yourself for wanting to be healthy.

That’s not sustainable. That’s not realistic. And that’s definitely not how I want to live my life.

Instead of dieting, I focus on making better choices. I focus on listening to my body. I focus on eating foods that make me feel good, not foods that make me feel guilty.

What This Actually Looks Like

Does that mean I never eat pizza? No. Does that mean I never have dessert? Absolutely not.

What it means is that I pay attention to how food makes me feel. If I eat a huge greasy meal and then feel like garbage for the rest of the day, I remember that. And the next time I’m tempted by that same meal, I ask myself: is it worth feeling terrible later?

Sometimes the answer is yes. Sometimes I want the pizza and I don’t care that I’ll feel sluggish afterward. And that’s okay. Because I’m making a conscious choice, not following some arbitrary diet rules that someone else made up.

The Problem with Restriction

The problem with diets is that they’re all about restriction. Don’t eat this. Don’t eat that. Count your calories. Measure your portions. Track everything.

And for some people, that works. But for me? It just makes me want to rebel. It makes me want to eat all the things I’m not supposed to eat just because someone told me I can’t have them.

So instead, I give myself permission to eat whatever I want. But I also give myself the responsibility to pay attention to how it makes me feel.

Making Sustainable Changes

I focus on adding things to my diet rather than taking things away. I try to drink more water. I try to eat more vegetables. I try to make sure I’m getting enough protein to support my workouts.

But I don’t stress about it. I don’t beat myself up if I have a day where I eat like garbage. Because tomorrow is a new day, and I can make better choices then.

This isn’t a diet. This is a lifestyle change. And lifestyle changes are sustainable. Diets are not.

Food Is Fuel, But It’s Also Enjoyment

Food is fuel for your body. But it’s also something to be enjoyed. It’s a social experience. It’s comfort. It’s culture. It’s tradition.

And I refuse to give all of that up just to fit into someone else’s idea of what healthy eating should look like.

So no, I’m not on a diet. And I’m never going to be on a diet. But I am making better choices. I am listening to my body. And I am living my life in a way that feels sustainable and healthy for me.

That’s what matters.


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Full Transcript- Stop Dieting and Start Listening to Your Body

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What’s up, you guys? Famous Ashton Grant here,
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and welcome to More Movement, Please. Today,
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I want to talk about diet. Yep, that four -letter
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word that I can’t stand. Maybe you’re like me.
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Maybe you can relate. I can’t stand the idea
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of dieting. I don’t like the idea of restricting
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myself from anything. And that’s not to say that
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I’m the type of person that just wants to binge
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all the time. I don’t want to just eat a bunch
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of crap. But I don’t want to change what I’m
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eating. to the point that I start feeling like
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I’m restricted, which could lead me to binging.
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That said, whenever I started working out as
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much as I am now, I was unable to eat and drink
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the way that I was before getting serious. And
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that’s not because I was intentionally restricting
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myself. It’s because my body started craving
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certain things. And here’s what I mean by that.
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That first week that I was going from two or
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three hours of fitness a week to that first week
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of doing that 19 classes, I reached for water
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more than I ever have in my whole life. I needed
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all the water because I was sweating so much
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from all the working out. Makes sense, right?
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So I constantly was needing more water. As a
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result, I wasn’t wanting soda as much, not just
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because I wanted more hydration, but also because
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anytime I would drink soda, it felt bad. Like
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it just wasn’t enjoyable in the way that it used
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to be. So even though I’m a soda girly, I wasn’t
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enjoying the experience of drinking soda. The
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other interesting thing that happened is that
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when I started working out as much as I was,
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am. When I started working out more, I was unable
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to eat the same portions that I was eating previously.
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I was catching myself getting so full that I
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could not eat another bite. I don’t know if it
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was because my body was shocked from suddenly
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working out as much as I had been, or if it was
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because my body was going, hey, you’ve been eating
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too much and you should stop. So what naturally
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started to happen is that I was not finishing
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my meals. And as a result, I started changing
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the recipes that I was doing or that I had been
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making to have smaller portions. And this wasn’t
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like I was, again, I was not trying to restrict
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myself. It was simply the fact that I literally
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felt if I ate another bite of certain foods,
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I was going to be sick. And so we’re now. more
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than a hundred days in to this wild fitness journey.
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And I don’t want to say that it has leveled out
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because that’s simply not true. I’m still not
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able to eat the portion sizes that I was previously,
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but I am noticing that I am able to eat just
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a little bit more, but I’m choosing not to. And
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it’s not because I don’t want it. I mean, there
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are times I’m not going to lie. I will just sit
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there and eat the entire meal. even though I’m
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stuffed and even though I don’t want any more,
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because there is something to be said for if
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you really love a meal, go all in, right? But
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I don’t recommend that. And I’m sure any person
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that’s listening to this, if you’re a nutritionist
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or you’re a physical trainer, you’re probably
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like cringing at the fact that I literally just
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said there are some times that I will stuff myself.
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The thing is, though, it’s not that I’m… trying
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to advocate for it. I know when I make that decision
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what I’m doing. And yes, I pay for it. I feel
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the pain of the fact that I overstuffed myself.
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So in truth, no, I’ve not dieted per se, but
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I have naturally changed the way that I’m eating.
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And the funny thing is, not only am I changing
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the portion sizes, I am catching myself reaching
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for healthier options because I can feel a difference
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in my performance when I do. And this isn’t about
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again, I want to I just want to make this abundantly
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clear. It’s not about restriction. It’s about
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I am feeling that my body is craving different
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things now. And so I’m reaching for those. And
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to me, that’s a much healthier way of going about
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changing what you’re consuming than to sit there
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and say, oh, well, I have to be in a calorie
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deficit of 500 calories so I can’t have. X, Y,
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or Z. I feel like if you’re going to change what
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you’re eating or change your portions, then it
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should be because your body is telling you to,
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not because you’re telling your body to. Does
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that make sense? I hope that makes sense. Because
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I feel a difference whenever I’m reaching for
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certain things. So I’ve caught myself. going,
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no, I don’t want this cookie. What I actually
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want is a banana because if I eat the banana,
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I can feel the potassium. I can feel it’s better
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in my system than I would feel after eating that
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cookie. And so I guess what I want to do today
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is challenge you not to think of things as dieting.
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Think of it as what does your body need? Because
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if you actually start listening to your body,
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it’s kind of amazing how it will literally tell
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you what you do and do not want. The reality
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is that I can catch myself going, oh, I really
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want to have, you know, let’s just call it a
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candy bar or a bag of chips or something like
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that. My body literally will go absolutely not
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after like the first or second bite sometimes.
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And it’s not because I want to restrict myself,
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but it’s because I don’t feel good whenever I
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consume it. And why would you do something to
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yourself that you’re not enjoying? Right. Although
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then then again, some of you might be listening
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to this going, well, I hate squats. So I guess
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I should stop doing that. It doesn’t feel good,
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but it’s good for you. Right. So you should still
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do the squats. But maybe if you eat a candy bar
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and you feel like, wow, that candy bar did not
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make me feel good. How about don’t eat that candy
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bar? You know, that’s kind of how I’m feeling
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right now. I just wanted to share these thoughts.
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The big thing to me is if you are going to try
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to lose weight. Yes, of course. Doctors will
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probably tell you like, hey, you need to limit
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the amount of calories you’re consuming, need
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to be in a calorie deficit. I understand all
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that. If you really listen to your body, it will
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tell you what you need. And I think you’ll find
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that if you start doing that rather than trying
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to focus on the numbers of calories that you’re
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consuming. you might notice that your body is
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telling you that it wants something that’s healthier
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for you. That’s been my experience. It’s what
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I’ve been feeling and what I just wanted to share
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today. So today, as you’re consuming, you know,
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meals and drinks and whatever it is you normally
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consume, check in with yourself. See how you’re
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feeling as you are consuming these things. Is
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it really worth what you’re consuming? Because
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if you’re not enjoying it, What’s the point?
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I hope this tip helps somebody. I hope it makes
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sense. And onwards and upwards, my friends. Have
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you worked out today?

Two Futures, Same Person – The Real Cost of Skipping Your Workouts

Two Futures, Same Person - The Real Cost of Skipping Your Workouts

Two timelines. Same person. One choice repeated daily. Which future are you building? The one where you hurt now or hurt later?

Listen to the episode here…

Two Versions of Your Future Self Are Waiting. Which One Are You Choosing Right Now?

Today, I want to talk about the movie Sliding Doors. Have you ever seen that movie? It has Gwyneth Paltrow in it, and it’s where her entire life splits into two completely different timelines based on whether she catches a train or misses it by just a few seconds.

And today, I kind of want to do my own version of this, where I talk to you guys about a decision you’re facing right now at this very moment. It’s a decision that seems small, but it can echo through your entire future.

The Question That Changes Everything

The question is simple: Would you rather hurt now or hurt later?

Would you rather feel the burn of a workout today or the pain of a doctor’s office visit years from now?

So let’s watch what happens. Same person, two completely different lives, all because of one choice.

Timeline A: You Show Up

Picture this. It’s a regular Tuesday morning and you’re standing in your living room at 6:30 in the morning. Your workout clothes are laid out. Your alarm just went off, but you’re tired. Like really, really tired.

This is where our timeline splits.

In Timeline A, you drag yourself up. You’re not thrilled about it. Your muscles protest as you start your warmup. Five minutes in, you’re wondering why you do this to yourself. Ten minutes in, you’re sweating. Fifteen minutes in, okay, you’re actually feeling pretty good. And 30 minutes later, you’re done. You’re sweaty. Your legs are shaky, but you feel alive.

Fast forward a month. You’re still going. You’re not every day, but you’re doing it most days. You’ve stopped needing three alarms. Your back doesn’t hurt as much when you get out of bed. Weird, right?

Now fast forward six months. You’re carrying groceries up the stairs and you realize you’re not even breathing that hard. When did that happen? You catch a reflection in a window and you do a double take. You stand differently now. You’re taller somehow. You feel taller. You feel stronger.

Twenty Years Later in Timeline A

Now let’s fast forward five years. You’re playing with your kids or your grandkids or maybe your dog and you’re running. You’re actually running. You’re laughing. You’re not thinking about your body at all. It just works.

Maybe you book a hiking trip. You say yes to that pickup basketball game. Or you lift your suitcase into the overhead bin without even a second thought.

Now let’s fast forward 20 years. You’re watching people your age struggling to get up from chairs. They’re popping pills for blood pressure, cholesterol. They’re taking insulin shots. They’re canceling plans because they’re too tired, or their back is out again.

But not you. You’re planning a backpacking trip. Your doctor keeps using words like “remarkable” at your checkups. You have some aches, sure. You’re human. But they’re normal. They’re the normal wear and tear of a life lived, not the breakdown of a body that’s been neglected.

Timeline B: You Hit Snooze

But let’s rewind. Back to that Tuesday morning. This time, in Timeline B, you hit snooze. Just five more minutes. Then ten. Then you’re rushing to get ready for work. “I’ll go tomorrow,” you tell yourself.

Tomorrow comes. You’re tired again. “Wednesday,” you promise. Wednesday you have plans. Thursday there’s that thing. Friday, well, it’s Friday. You’ll start fresh on Monday.

Monday never quite comes.

Fast forward a month. You’re the same weight. Actually, maybe a little heavier. You’re still getting winded on the stairs.

Six months later? You’re avoiding mirrors. Your clothes are getting tighter. You’re so much stiffer and you’re so much more tired.

Twenty Years Later in Timeline B

And now let’s fast forward 20 years. You’re on four medications. Your knees are shot. The doctor says you might need knee replacements. You can’t play with your dog the way you used to. Hell, you can’t even travel the way you dreamed.

You’re not living. You’re managing. You’re just surviving. You’re managing pain. You’re managing conditions. You’re managing limitations.

And then you think back to that Tuesday morning 20 years ago and you wonder: what if?

Both Timelines Involve Pain

Here’s the truth about these two timelines. They both hurt.

In Timeline A, you hurt for 30 minutes a day, maybe 45 minutes a day. Your muscles burn. You get sore. You feel uncomfortable. But then it’s over. It passes and it gets easier. Eventually, it doesn’t hurt as much, if at all. In fact, it feels good. When your workouts are complete, you feel better.

But in Timeline B, you hurt all the time. Your back hurts. Your knees hurt. Your joints hurt. Getting out of bed hurts. The hurt doesn’t pass. It accumulates. It compounds. It becomes your new normal.

Your Sliding Door Is Still Open

Same person, same genetics. The only difference? One choice made over and over and over again.

The beautiful thing about this story is unlike the movie, your sliding door isn’t closed yet. If you’re still breathing, you’re standing at that train station right now. You’re above ground.

You have the option to step into Timeline A today. Not tomorrow. Not Monday. Not after the holidays. Not January 1st. Today.

Will it be easy? No. Will it hurt a little? Yes.

But I’m going to tell you something, and it’s so important and I need you to hear it. The hurt is temporary. And it’s going to feel better over time. Sure, you’re going to be sore.

But like Rhonda said in the interview that we did, wouldn’t you rather hurt from working your body and let it break down from working than to let it break down from sitting in a chair?

Choose Your Hurt

The hurt of neglect, that hurt is forever.

So I’m asking you right now: would you rather hurt now or hurt later?

Your body is going to require something from you either way. It’s either going to require the effort of sweat and a little discomfort now, or it’s going to require medications and doctor visits and limitations later.

I want you to choose your hurt. Think about this. Think about the choices that you’re making every single day.

You have the choice every morning when you wake up to either go work out or just not. If you choose to not work out, you’re going to hurt later.

So choose your hurt. Choose your hard.


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Full Transcript – Two Futures, Same Person: The Real Cost of Skipping Your Workouts

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What’s up, you guys? Famous Ashley Grant here,
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and welcome to More Movement, Please, the podcast
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about inspiring people to move their bodies more.
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Today, I want to talk about the movie Sliding
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Doors. Have you ever seen that movie? It has
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Gwyneth Paltrow in it, and it’s where her entire
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life, it splits into two completely different
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timelines based on whether she catches a train
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or misses it by just a few seconds. And today,
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I kind of want to do my own version of this,
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where I talk to you guys about, instead of trains
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and relationships, a decision you’re facing right
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now at this very moment. And it’s a decision
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that seems small, but it can echo through your
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entire future. And so the question is simple.
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Would you rather hurt now or hurt later? Would
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you rather feel the burn of a workout today or
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the pain of a doctor’s office visit years from
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now? So let’s watch what happens. Same person,
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two completely different lives, all because of
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one choice. So picture this. It’s a regular Tuesday
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morning and you’re standing in your living room
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at 630 in the morning. Your workout clothes,
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they’re laid out. Your alarm just went off, but
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you’re tired, like really, really tired. And
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this is where our timeline splits. In timeline
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A. You drag yourself up. You’re not thrilled
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about it. Your muscles protest as you start your
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warmup. Five minutes in, you’re wondering why
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you do this to yourself. 10 minutes in, you’re
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sweating. 15 minutes in, okay, you’re actually
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feeling pretty good. And 30 minutes later, you’re
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done. You’re sweaty. Your legs are shaky, but
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you feel alive. Fast forward a month. You’re
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still going. You’re not every day, but you’re
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doing it most days. You’ve stopped needing three
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alarms. Your back doesn’t hurt as much when you
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get out of bed. Weird, right? Now fast forward
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six months. You’re carrying groceries up the
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stairs and you realize you’re not even breathing
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that hard. When did that happen? You catch a
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reflection in a window and you do a double take.
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You stand differently now. You’re taller somehow.
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You feel taller. You feel stronger. Now let’s
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fast forward five years. You’re playing with
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your kids or your grandkids or maybe your dog
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and you’re running. You’re actually running.
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You’re laughing. You’re not thinking about your
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body at all. It just works. Maybe you book a
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hiking trip, you say yes to that pickup basketball
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game, or you lift your suitcase into the overhead
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bin without even a second thought. Now let’s
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fast forward 20 years. You’re watching people
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your age, they’re struggling to get up from chairs,
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they’re popping pills for blood pressure, cholesterol,
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they’re taking insulin shots, they’re canceling
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plans because they’re too tired, or their back
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is out again. But not you, you’re planning backpack
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trip. Your doctor keeps using words like remarkable
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at your checkups. You have some aches, sure,
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you’re human. but they’re normal, and they’re
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the normal wear and tear of a life lived, not
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the breakdown of a body that’s been neglected.
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Now let’s look at timeline B, the snooze button,
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right? Let’s rewind back to that Tuesday, that
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6 .30 a .m. alarm goes off, and you hit snooze.
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Just this once, you’ll start tomorrow. You promise
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yourself you’ll start tomorrow. A month later,
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tomorrow never came. You meant to start, you
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really did. But work, it got busy. And you were
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tired. You’re always so tired. And you’re back.
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Well, it still hurts. And actually, you feel
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like it might be getting worse. Six months later,
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those stairs at work, you get winded going up
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them. You’re out of breath by the second floor.
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You avoid them anytime you can. You tell yourself,
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it’s no big deal. Everyone gets older, right?
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And you buy new pants. Well, because the old
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ones don’t fit. They just are too tight. And
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you tell yourself that you’ll deal with it later.
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Now let’s fast forward five years. Later has
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arrived. Your doctor’s using words like pre -diabetic
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and blood pressure concerns and we need to talk
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about your cholesterol. Maybe she’s recommending
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you start exercising. You nod and you agree.
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But the idea of starting now, well, it feels
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impossible. You’re so much heavier than you were
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five years ago. You’re so much stiffer and you’re
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so much more tired. And now let’s fast forward
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20 years. You’re on four medications. Your knees,
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they’re shot. The doctor, she says that you might
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need knee replacements. You can’t play with your
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dog the way you used to. Hell, you can’t even
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travel the way you dreamed. You’re not living.
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You’re managing. You’re just surviving. You’re
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managing pain. You’re managing conditions. You’re
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managing limitations. And then you think back
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to that Tuesday morning 20 years ago and you
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wonder, what if? Here’s the truth about these
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two timelines. They both hurt. In timeline A.
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You hurt for 30 minutes a day, maybe 45 minutes
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a day. Your muscles burn. You get sore. You feel
00:04:39
uncomfortable. But then it’s over. It passes
00:04:42
and it gets easier. Eventually, it doesn’t hurt
00:04:45
as much, if at all. In fact, it feels good. When
00:04:49
your workouts are complete, you feel better.
00:04:51
But in timeline B, you hurt all the time. Your
00:04:55
back hurts. Your knees hurt. Your joints hurt.
00:04:58
Getting out of bed hurts. The hurt doesn’t pass.
00:05:02
It accumulates. It compounds. It becomes your
00:05:06
new normal. Same person, same genetics. The only
00:05:11
difference? One choice made over and over and
00:05:14
over again. The beautiful thing about this story
00:05:19
is unlike the movie, your sliding door, it’s
00:05:22
not closed yet. If you’re still breathing, you’re
00:05:25
standing at that train station right now. You’re
00:05:28
above ground. You have the option to step into
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Timeline A today. Not tomorrow. Not Monday. Not
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after the holidays. Not January 1st. Today. Will
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it be easy? No. Will it hurt a little? Yes. But
00:05:44
I’m going to tell you something, and it’s so
00:05:46
important and I need you to hear it. The hurt
00:05:49
is temporary. And it’s going to feel better over
00:05:52
time. Sure, you’re going to be sore. But… Like
00:05:56
Rhonda said in the interview that we did, wouldn’t
00:05:59
you rather hurt from working your body and let
00:06:03
it break down from working than to let it break
00:06:06
down to sitting in a chair? The hurt of neglect,
00:06:10
that hurt is forever. So I’m asking you right
00:06:15
now, would you rather hurt now or hurt later?
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Your body is going to require something from
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you either way. It’s either going to require
00:06:23
the effort of sweat and a little discomfort now,
00:06:25
or it’s going to require medications and doctor
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visits and limitations later. I want you to choose
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your heart. Think about this. Think about the
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choices that you’re making every single day.
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You have the choice every morning when you wake
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up to either go work out or just not. If you
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choose to not work out, you’re going to hurt
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later. So choose your hurt. Choose your hard.
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Onwards and upwards, my friends. Have you worked
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out today?

Tips for Losing Weight During the Holiday Season

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Expert tips for staying fit during the holidays. Enjoy Thanksgiving and Christmas meals without guilt while maintaining your weight loss goals.

Lose Weight During the Holiday Season: Expert Strategies That Actually Work

The holiday season is here, and if you’re worried about losing your fitness momentum between Thanksgiving dinner and New Year’s Eve, you’re not alone. Every year, millions of people face the same dilemma: How do you enjoy the holidays without undoing months of hard work?

The good news? You don’t have to choose between celebrating with loved ones and staying committed to your health goals. The key is having a solid strategy that allows you to enjoy holiday meals while keeping your fitness routine intact.

In one of this week’s episodes of More Movement Please, I tackled this exact challenge. 

I shared my personal plan for navigating Thanksgiving and the entire holiday season, including science-backed tips on mindful eating, the plate method, and why working out on Thanksgiving (and Christmas!) morning sets the tone for the entire day.

If you haven’t listened yet, check it out here:

You can stay on track without sacrificing the joy of the season.

To give you even more expert guidance, I reached out to fitness professionals, nutritionists, and health experts for their top tips on maintaining your progress through the holidays.

Here’s what they had to say:

Stay Strong and Active Through Holiday Season

I spend each day with patients wanting better mobility, a stronger physique, and healthy lifestyle practices. As a physiotherapist, I examine the mechanics involved in muscle, joints, and metabolism. I also act as a fitness and recovery coach, aligning my patients’ lifestyle with their desired aims. Small changes in people’s movement, stress, and eating habits have proven effective, and the holiday seasons make this even easier.

1. Keep Your Body Moving

Light exercises help maintain comfortable joints and stable energy.

I teach patients to do simple warm-ups to increase synovial fluid (the liquid that keeps your joints smooth) and to boost muscle oxygen.

A brief walk before and after consuming large meals enables the body to utilize the nutrients rather than store them.

2. Build Your Plate Around Protein

Protein has an appetite-suppressing effect and safeguards lean tissue.

Turkey, eggs, beans, and/or yogurt work to regulate hunger and metabolism.

This is a thing I’ve told almost all my clients, and it applies in all cases where you need a successful diet and training regime. 

3. Apply the 80/20 Rule

Mainly, your diet all day long can include healthy foods.

Roughly 20% can include the fun holiday treats like pie, stuffing, and other treats.

There’s no guilt involved. Just balance. I use this approach with my athletic clients and my non-athletic clients because it’s effective.

4. Listen to Your Body Signals

Eat slowly.

Your body also offers you interoceptive signals, indicating when you’re full.

These signals become easier to detect when eating slowly.

5. Boost Your NEAT

NEAT is the acronym for “non-exercise activity thermogenesis,” referring to the calories that are expended during [unintentional exercise]

Small things help too, like walking the dog, assisting with clean-up, stretching, and standing up.

6. Prioritize Recovery 

Good sleeping habits regulate the hormones, called leptin and ghrelin, that control the sensation of hunger. 

Reducing stress helps prevent overeating due to emotions. . 

7. Keep in Mind That One Meal Doesn’t Change Everything 

Individuals experience excessive worries over one holiday meal. 

All the better progress you make, all the better you will become. 

Enjoy the food. Enjoy the time with your family. Get back on your routine the next day.

Alex Lee, Co-Founder, Physiotherapist and Fitness & Recovery Expert, Saunny

Master Damage Control with Strategic Time Management

The top tip I give for navigating the holidays and avoiding guilt is to completely abandon the idea of “perfect performance” and focus only on “operational damage control.” The chaos is inevitable, but your system must be resilient enough to handle the inevitable input shock without breaking the whole process.

My strategy is the 90/10 Rule applied to time, not food. You have to accept that your meals will be messy and non-compliant for a few days. The operational mandate is to ensure that 90% of your available time—all the hours outside of the actual holiday meals—is dedicated to strict compliance: getting your sleep, controlling liquid calories, and hitting your mandatory movement targets.

This works because it changes the focus from guilt over eating to competence in execution. You enjoy the meal without anxiety because you know your system is working flawlessly the rest of the time. It proves that resilience isn’t found in avoiding the problem; it’s found in designing a process strong enough to absorb the problem without compromising the overall mission.

Flavia Estrada, Business Owner, Co-Wear LLC

Shift Focus from Food to Family Connections

Look, the holidays can bring up a lot of food guilt. I’ve seen it. The trick is to notice why you feel that way and tell that all-or-nothing voice in your head to take a hike. One big meal doesn’t erase your progress. At Interactive Counselling, we work on shifting focus to the people around the table, not just the food on it. That’s what makes the season feel less stressful and more like a holiday.

Amy Mosset, CEO, Interactive Counselling

Use The Plate Method to Balance Holiday Meals

I tell my clients to focus on the ‘plate method’ during holiday meals – fill half your plate with vegetables, a quarter with lean protein, and a quarter with your favorite holiday treats. This way, you’re nourishing your body first while still enjoying what makes the holidays special. I learned this from my own journey with emotional eating in my twenties – when I stopped labeling foods as ‘good’ or ‘bad’ and started thinking about balance, everything changed for me.

Livia Esterhazy, Owner, The Thrive Collective

Start with Protein to Control Holiday Cravings

As a family health physician, I tell patients that holidays don’t slow progress; a lack of strategy does. I suggest a PROTEIN-FIRST PLATE approach: Begin meals with lean proteins like turkey, chicken, fish or plant sources for vegans and vegetarians to help increase fullness and decrease calorie consumption by 15-20%.

It’s also great to incorporate high-fiber side dishes, such as roasted vegetables or salads, for more fullness. I also advocate for small, realistic habits rather than restrictions. A small amount of protein, such as Greek yogurt or a hard-boiled egg, is recommended before Thanksgiving dinner, so you don’t arrive “starving” and kind of indulge in everything you see on the table. That both crushes cravings and allows you to enjoy holiday food without overeating.

Dr. Geny Augustine, Family Medicine Physician, Solace Health

Aim for Maintenance Over Holiday Season Perfection

When my clients ask about holiday weight loss, I tell them the goal is maintenance, not perfection. Most people only gain about a pound over the season, but they keep it.

My first rule is: don’t save up all day. That just makes you arrive starving and more likely to binge.

Second rule: build your plate like a workout warm-up with protein and veggies, then add the fun foods.

Third, decide what’s worth it before you walk in. Enjoy your grandma’s pie, skip the stuff you don’t really love, and move on without guilt.

Dong Wang, Founder, Vanswe Fitness

Think in Weeks Not Days for Results

In the gym, we talk about consistency, not punishment. The same applies at Thanksgiving. One big meal won’t ruin your progress; staying “off” for six weeks will.

I ask people to think in weeks, not days. If most days look solid, you can relax at the table and still move toward your goals.

My simple holiday rules:

Lifting or walking the morning of significant events helps mood and appetite.

One plate, sit down, slow bites.

Go straight back to your routine at the next meal, no make-up punishment workouts.

Ryan Beattie, Director of Business Development, UK SARMs

Maintain Weight and Enjoy the Holiday Season

While it might be popular to try and lose weight around the holidays in order to fit into a special outfit, etc., it’s more realistic to focus on maintaining our weight during the holiday season. With that shift in mindset we can better enjoy the holiday season. 

The number one thing I tell folks around the holidays is to remember that the holiday itself, or a specific event, is just one day. And it’s what we do most of the time vs some of the time that makes the biggest difference. On the day of the holiday or event, make sure to have a balanced breakfast and mid-day meal (if the event is in the evening) that includes lean protein, high fiber carbohydrates and colorful fruits and veggies. 

These foods will keep your energy balanced and appetite satiated throughout the day. When it comes time for the holiday meal or event, take a mindful approach to filling your plate. Observe the offerings first, by sight, smell (even sound depending what’s being served!), before filling your plate. 

Serve yourself with intention and know that you can always refill your plate again if you’re truly hungry. Finally, allow yourself to experience the joy of the holidays, as stressing about what you are eating can be more problematic than eating the food itself!

Andrea Rumschlag, Registered Dietitian Nutritionist & Nutrition Coach, Rise & Reign Nutrition

Practice Moderation and Prioritize Regular Exercise Daily

It is entirely possible to navigate the holiday season without derailing your health and weight goals. Moderation is key. For instance, if you know you will be enjoying a luscious dinner meal and want to really enjoy it, eat lightly for the remainder of the day while also drinking a lot of water. The other key is exercise [is] specifically making time for it. While it’s tempting to skip workouts when there’s so much merriment to be had, it’s better for your body if you don’t.

Thank you so much for your consideration. If you quote me, please credit me as “food writer and cookbook author Sarah Walker Caron, who blogs at SarahsCucinaBella.com.

Sarah Walker Caron, Food Writer and Cookbook Author, Sarah’s Cucina Bella

Embrace Mindful Eating to Eliminate Food Guilt

Eating mindfully is perhaps the most consistent way to eat and enjoy holiday food and still support your goal of losing weight. Rather than attempting to limit what you can eat or try to skip your favourite traditional foods, the mindful approach will help you appreciate your time at the table. As you slow down, as you notice the flavour, as you take time to appreciate each bite, you will naturally eat less without feeling like you are being deprived.

A final benefit of mindful eating is that it gets rid of the “good” food versus “bad” food mentality. When no foods are “off-limits,” people are less likely to go back and forth between strict control and overeating. The ability to savour and enjoy all of your holiday dishes with mindfulness allows you to eliminate the guilt associated with enjoying your holiday food, which also lends itself to developing healthy long-term eating habits.

Ultimately, the holiday season is about enjoyment, and mindful eating helps you find that balance. Mindful eating permits you to enjoy the traditions of the holiday season while still aligning with your goals. Mindful eating creates a positive experience around the holiday table, rather than creating an opportunity to correct yourself or compensate later.

Blen Tesfu, MD, Welzo

Holidays Don’t Have to Derail Progress

The message is clear: the holidays don’t have to derail your progress. Whether you call it the 80/20 rule, damage control, or simply focusing on consistency over perfection, the strategy is the same. One meal, or even one day, won’t undo your hard work. What matters is what you do most of the time, not some of the time.

So this holiday season, enjoy your mom’s peanut butter chocolate candy, savor that slice of pie, and embrace the time with family and friends. Just make sure you’re also honoring your commitment to yourself by staying active, eating mindfully, and getting right back to your routine the next day. 

Wake up on Thanksgiving morning and get that workout in. Take a family walk after dinner. Build your plate with intention, starting with protein and vegetables before adding the treats you really want.

Most importantly, let go of the guilt. The holidays are about joy, gratitude, and connection. When you approach them with balance rather than restriction, you’ll discover that you can have it all: the celebration, the progress, and the peace of mind that comes from staying true to your goals.

Now get out there and move your body. You’ve got this.

Thanksgiving Without the Weight Gain: How to Stay Fit Through the Holidays

Thanksgiving Without the Weight Gain How to Stay Fit Through the Holidays

Thanksgiving is one day, not a week-long excuse. Here’s how to enjoy the food and keep your fitness momentum going strong.

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Stop Using Thanksgiving as an Excuse

Today I want to talk about the holidays. Specifically, Thanksgiving. Because here’s the thing: a lot of people use Thanksgiving as an excuse to completely abandon their fitness goals.

And listen, I get it. Thanksgiving is a food-centric holiday. There’s turkey and stuffing and mashed potatoes and gravy and pie and all the things. And you’re probably thinking “Ashley, are you seriously telling me I can’t enjoy Thanksgiving dinner?”

No. That’s not what I’m saying at all.

You Can Enjoy the Food AND Stay Committed

What I’m saying is that you can enjoy Thanksgiving dinner without using it as an excuse to skip your workouts for an entire week.

Let me break this down for you. Thanksgiving is one day. One. Single. Day.

But somehow, people turn it into a week-long event where they stop working out on Monday “because Thanksgiving is coming” and then they don’t start back up until the following Monday “because they’re still recovering from Thanksgiving.”

That’s ridiculous.

My Thanksgiving Plan

Let me tell you what I plan on doing. Tomorrow morning, before the chaos begins, I intend to get my workout in. I am so used to every single Thursday I do Tabata and I do stretch. And there’s amazing classes online that you can take. And so that’s what I intend to do.

My goal is even if I only work out 30 to 45 minutes, I plan on doing some Tabata rounds and I plan on doing some stretching.

And here’s why. Not only does it set the tone for the day, it reminds me that I’m someone who prioritizes movement and health even on the holidays.

Black Friday at the Gym

And on Black Friday, while everyone else is going to be trying to get to the stores at dawn or maybe going back to work or whatever, I’m going to the gym. I definitely will be going to the gym. I’ll have my Friday routine just like I do every single Friday of Zumba and low-impact cardio.

Because honestly, that’s going to feel more amazing to me than trying to get some amazing deal. And let’s face it, so many of the deals these days are on the computer anyway. You don’t have to go and be one of those doorbusters.

And do we really need $25 off a TV? Absolutely not. What I need is 25 pounds off my waistline.

Enjoy the Food Mindfully

Now, about the food. I’m not saying don’t eat Thanksgiving dinner. Eat the turkey. Eat the stuffing. Have some pie. Enjoy it.

But be mindful. Eat slowly. Pay attention to when you’re full. You don’t have to eat until you’re in a food coma just because it’s Thanksgiving.

And you definitely don’t have to eat every single thing on the table just because it’s there. If you don’t like sweet potato casserole, don’t eat it. If you’re not a big fan of green bean casserole, skip it.

Eat what you love. Enjoy it. And then move on.

The Real Secret

There’s something so satisfying about knowing that you had a good meal and you still kept your fitness goals and your commitment to yourself to get in shape as your top priority.

When you enjoy your Thanksgiving meal and you continue to keep working out, maybe the day of or at least at the very least the day after, you’re energized. You feel good. You don’t have that sluggish, guilty feeling.

Love your people, eat the good food, and then make sure that you are getting right back to the work.


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Full Transcript: Thanksgiving Without the Weight Gain: How to Stay Fit Through the Holidays

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Hey guys, famous Ashley Grant here. Welcome to
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More Movement Please, the podcast about inspiring
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you to move your body more. So tomorrow is Thanksgiving
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and I wanted to talk really quickly about something
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that’s been on my mind and probably yours too.
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With the holidays here, it doesn’t have to mean
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that you destroy your weight loss goals. And
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I know what you’re thinking, but it’s Thanksgiving
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or it’s Christmas. I’m surrounded by family and
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there’s pie everywhere and my gym routine is
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completely thrown off. I hear you. But here’s
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the thing. You can enjoy, absolutely, you can
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enjoy the holidays and stay committed to your
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fitness journey. They’re not. I repeat, they’re
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not mutually exclusive. So let’s talk about tomorrow,
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right? Thanksgiving dinner is going to be amazing.
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And you should enjoy it. But here’s what science
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actually tells us about not overindulging while
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still having a great time. First, I want you
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to eat breakfast. I know far too many people
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who will not eat breakfast the day of Thanksgiving.
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In fact, it used to be a thing that my husband
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was really adamant about. He’s like, well, I
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don’t want to do breakfast and I don’t want to
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do lunch because we’re going to have Thanksgiving
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dinner and I want to be really, really hungry
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for it. And it’s tempting. It really is tempting
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to save all those calories for the big meal.
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But research shows that arriving whenever you’re
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starving leads to overeating. What you should
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do instead is have a really good breakfast to
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keep your blood sugar stable and then stay hydrated.
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That’s number two, right? In fact, you should
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be doing that all day. Stay hydrated. Because
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what’s funny is we often mistake thirst for hunger.
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So drink water all day, especially right before
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the big meal. And third, and this is a big one,
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I want you to use the plate method. Fill half
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of your plate with vegetables first, and then
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a quarter protein, hello turkey, and a quarter
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with those delicious carbs and sides. Notice
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I didn’t say don’t have the carbs and sides.
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I want you to have it. I want you to have that
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stuffing and the mashed potatoes and all the
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delicious things, but you just have to be mindful
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about your portions. And the biggest thing while
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you’re eating is eat slowly. If you’re mindless
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about your eating, before you know it, you’re
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shoveling in a crap ton of food and you may already
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have been full, but you kept going. If you keep
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going, even after you’re full, you’re just going
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to overstuff yourself and make yourself sick,
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right? So I know it’s going to be hard, but I
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want you to like put down your fork between bites.
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It takes about 20 minutes for your brain to register
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that you’re full. Savor the flavors. Give your
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body time to tell you when it’s satisfied. And
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not stuffed. So, it’s going to be difficult,
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right? It’s going to be hard. I get it. I totally
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get it. Because you start talking to Aunt Sharon
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and before you know it, you have just shoveled
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in a whole bunch of mashed potatoes and stuffing
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and all the good things. And your brain hasn’t
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quite caught up to the fact that, hey, you might
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already be full. Now, let me tell you what I
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plan on doing. Tomorrow morning, before the chaos
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begins, I intend to get my workout in. I am so
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used to every single Thursday, I do Tabata and
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I do stretch. And there’s amazing classes online
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that you can take. And so that’s what I intend
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to do. My goal is even if I only work out 30
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to 45 minutes, I plan on doing some Tabata rounds
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and I plan on doing some stretching. And here’s
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why. Not only does it set the tone for the day,
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it reminds me that I’m someone who prioritizes
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movement and health even on the holidays. And
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on Black Friday, while everyone else is going
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to be trying to get to the stores at dawn or
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maybe going back to work or whatever, I’m going
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to the gym. I definitely will be going to the
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gym. I’ll have my Friday routine just like I
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do every single Friday of Zumba and low -impact
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cardio because, honestly, that’s going to feel
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more amazing to me than trying to get some amazing
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deal. And let’s face it, so many of the deals
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these days are on the computer anyway. You don’t
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have to go and be one of those doorbusters. And
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do we really need $25 off a TV? Absolutely not.
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What I need is 25 pounds off my waistline. So
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that’s what I intend to do. And I encourage you
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to consider doing that for yourself as well,
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because there’s something so satisfying about
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knowing that you had a good meal and you still
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kept your fitness goals and your commitment to
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yourself to get in shape as your top priority.
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So when you enjoy your Thanksgiving meal, And
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you continue to keep working out maybe the day
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of, or at least at the very least, the day after.
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You’re energized. You’ve got extra fuel in your
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system. And you’re proving to yourself that one
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day of celebration doesn’t have to derail everything
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you’re working for. And listen, Thanksgiving
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is just the beginning. I know. We’re heading
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into the full holiday season. You know, Christmas
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parties and cookie exchanges and New Year’s celebrations.
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There’s sweets. There’s treats. And they’re everywhere.
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And here’s my plan. And maybe it’ll work for
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you too. So I’m just sharing it with you in case
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you possibly want to use it. I fully intend to
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enjoy my mom’s peanut butter chocolate candy.
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I fully intend to have some cookies at the cookie
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party, the cookie swap that I’m having with some
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gym buddies. I even plan on having some pie.
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But I’m also going to make sure that I am moving
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my body consistently every single day, staying
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active and not use the holiday as an excuse to
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completely abandon everything that I’ve worked
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so hard in the last few months for. Here’s the
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thing. This episode is intended to remind you
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that the holidays are about joy. They’re about
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gratitude and they’re about connection. I don’t
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want you to feel guilty. about the holidays.
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But I also don’t want you to overindulge. At
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the same time, if you over -restrict yourself,
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that’s what’s going to lead to the binging. So
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don’t feel guilt if you want to try your cousin’s
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banana pudding pie. Don’t feel guilt if you’re
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really wanting a couple bites of that sweet potato
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casserole. Have it. By all means, have it. But
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just make sure that you are not overindulging,
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you’re being mindful about what you’re consuming,
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and Work out even on the days that you have family
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things going on. Wake up earlier if you need
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to. I mean, I know that sounds like the same
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old things that gym bros say all the time, right?
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But at the same time, if you just give yourself
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an extra 15 minutes, it could be what you need
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to stay on track. So wake up earlier. Do a quick
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body weight circuit in the guest room. Take a
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family walk after dinner. Movement, it doesn’t
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have to be perfect, but it does have to happen.
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if you want to stay committed to your fitness
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goals. You’ve got this. I hope you enjoy your
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Thanksgiving. I want you to know that I am so
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thankful that you’re listening to this, and I
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hope that you are moving your body more. Love
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your people, eat the good food, and then make
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sure that you are getting right back to the work.
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Onwards and upwards, my friends. Have you worked
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out today?

How to MacGyver Your Podcast: Create Compelling Content Without the Big Budget

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Remember MacGyver? The 80s action hero who could solve any problem with a Swiss Army knife and duct tape? Turns out, his approach to problem-solving is exactly what you need for your podcast.

You don’t need fancy equipment. You don’t need a huge budget. You just need to think like MacGyver.

The Problem Most Podcasters Face

Here’s what stops most people from launching or growing their podcast: they think they need more. More money. Better equipment. More time. Fancier software.

But the most successful podcasters? They work with what they have. They get creative. They MacGyver their way through challenges.

This episode breaks down three frameworks from the classic TV series that will completely change how you approach content creation.

Framework #1: The Swiss Army Knife Method

MacGyver’s most iconic tool wasn’t some high-tech gadget. It was a simple Swiss Army knife. One tool, multiple functions.

Your podcast should work the same way.

Stop Creating Content From Scratch Every Time

Let’s say you record a 30-minute interview about sustainable business practices. Most podcasters will publish it and move on. That’s leaving so much value on the table.

Here’s what you can do with that ONE episode:

  • Pull short audio clips for Instagram and TikTok
  • Create quote graphics with audio snippets for LinkedIn
  • Turn it into a YouTube video with simple visuals
  • Write a blog post from the transcript (RSS.com gives you free transcripts with every paid plan)
  • Extract key insights for your email newsletter
  • Create Twitter threads with the best quotes
  • Make audiogram snippets for social media

One episode. Multiple platforms. Maximum reach.

The Magic of Tools Like Cast Magic

There’s a tool called Cast Magic that takes this concept even further. You upload your episode, and it gives you content in multiple formats using your actual words. Not generic AI output. Your voice. Your style.

This isn’t about working harder. It’s about working smarter.

Start Small and Expand

You don’t have to do all of this at once. Start with your primary platform. Then gradually expand as your capacity grows.

The key insight: stop thinking of every piece of content as one and done. Ask yourself, “How can this one thing serve multiple purposes across multiple channels?”

That’s true podcasting resourcefulness.

Framework #2: The Duct Tape Principle

MacGyver famously used duct tape to connect different objects and create solutions greater than the sum of their parts. He’d patch things, bind things, attach things. Simple but powerful.

Your podcast needs the same kind of connections.

Connect Unexpected Topics

The most downloaded and shared podcast episodes combine unexpected elements. When you connect your business expertise with cultural references, current events, personal stories, or seemingly unrelated fields, you create content that stands out.

Think about it: right now, you’re learning about podcasting through the lens of an 80s TV show about a secret agent. That’s more memorable than another “10 Tips to Start Your Podcast” article.

Real Examples That Work

Here are podcasters who nailed the duct tape principle:

  • A financial advisor who explains investment concepts through cooking analogies
  • A fitness coach who structures content around the hero’s story
  • A software company that breaks down technical concepts using superhero movie references

When everyone in your industry sounds the same, these creative connections become your differentiator.

Make Sure Your Connections Are Authentic

Don’t just throw random references into your content for the sake of being different. MacGyver didn’t use duct tape for decoration. He used it to solve real problems.

Your connections should enhance understanding and provide genuine value. Not just serve as a gimmick.

Look beyond your immediate industry for inspiration. What personal interests, cultural touchpoints, or unexpected knowledge areas could you connect to your core expertise?

Framework #3: The MacGyver Mindset

Here’s what made MacGyver truly exceptional: his mindset. When faced with impossible situations, he never complained about not having the right equipment.

He asked: “What can I do with what’s available right now?”

Resourcefulness Beats Resources

The most consistent content creators aren’t the ones with the biggest budgets or the most advanced equipment. They’re the ones with resourcefulness hardwired into their approach.

MacGyver never complained about not having a gun or high-tech gadgets. He assessed what he had and created solutions others couldn’t imagine.

This exact mindset separates successful content creators from those who constantly find reasons they can’t produce valuable content.

Practical Examples of the MacGyver Mindset

Scenario 1: You don’t have professional recording equipment.

MacGyver solution: Use your smartphone and a simple lavalier mic. Find quiet spaces. Use free editing apps. Focus on authentic delivery. Launch now instead of waiting for perfect conditions.

Scenario 2: You don’t have time to record long-form interviews every week.

MacGyver solution: Repurpose customer questions into quick expert tip episodes. Record voice memos during downtime. Host monthly live Q&A sessions instead of forcing an unsustainable schedule.

Stop Focusing on What You Don’t Have

In nearly every situation, there are more options than initially apparent if you’re willing to think differently.

Start inventorying what you DO have:

  • Your knowledge
  • Your experiences
  • Your tools (look in your Swiss Army knife)
  • Your relationships
  • Platforms already available to you

How can you combine them creatively to deliver value to your audience?

That’s the true MacGyver approach to podcasting.

The MacGyver Method Formula

When you combine all three frameworks, you get what I call the MacGyver Method of Podcasting:

Versatility + Unexpected Connections + Resourceful Mindset = Sustainable Podcast Success

This formula works because it:

  • Emphasizes creativity over consumption of resources
  • Builds a distinctive, recognizable approach
  • Creates sustainable systems rather than one-off efforts
  • Prioritizes solving audience problems over perfection

And here’s the best part: it works regardless of your industry, your budget size, or your technical expertise.

Your Lab Homework: 3 Experiments to Try This Week

Ready to put these principles into practice? Here are three experiments you can run right now.

Experiment #1: The Swiss Army Knife Audit

  1. Take your most successful piece of content
  2. List all the key insights, quotes, and valuable segments it contains
  3. Identify at least three different formats or platforms where you could repurpose these elements
  4. Create an adaptation plan with specific actions for each format
  5. Track engagement across different formats to see what performs best

You might discover that TikTok doesn’t work for you, but LinkedIn is gold. Now you know where to focus your energy.

Experiment #2: The Duct Tape Connection Challenge

  1. Identify a core concept you regularly discuss
  2. List 5-10 interests, hobbies, or cultural references you’re familiar with
  3. Choose one connection that feels energizing and authentic
  4. Plan and record an episode that explains your expertise through this unexpected connection
  5. Pay attention to listener reactions, especially feedback that mentions this creative approach

You might resonate with your audience in a way you never have before.

Experiment #3: The MacGyver Resource Inventory

  1. List the top three resource constraints you face (time, budget, skills, etc.)
  2. For each constraint, brainstorm three MacGyver solutions that work around it or leverage the limitation
  3. Choose ONE solution to implement this week
  4. Document the process and results
  5. Reflect on how the constraint actually led to a creative approach you wouldn’t have considered otherwise

Remember: the most powerful transformations happen when we embrace our constraints rather than fight against them.

The Bottom Line

You don’t need perfect conditions to create a successful podcast. You need the MacGyver mindset.

Start with what you have. Get creative with your content. Make unexpected connections. And watch how resourcefulness transforms your approach.

Just like MacGyver never let limited resources stop him from saving the day, you don’t have to let budget or time constraints stop you from creating valuable content for your audience.

Your Swiss Army knife is waiting. What will you create with it?


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Running Late? Go to the Gym Anyway

Running Late? Go to the Gym Anyway

Being late isn’t an excuse. Here’s why showing up 15 minutes late is better than not showing up at all, and what this really teaches your brain.

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The “I’m Running Late” Excuse Stops Today

I’m early to the gym today. Like, actually early. Twelve whole minutes early.

But that’s not always the case. Lately, I’ve been rolling in five, ten, sometimes fifteen minutes late to class. And I used to let that be a reason not to go at all.

You know the feeling. You’re running behind. The class has already started. Walking in late feels awkward. So you tell yourself, “Well, it’s already started. I’ll just go tomorrow.”

Tomorrow never comes.

Stop Training Your Brain to Accept Excuses

Here’s what I’ve learned. Every time you give your brain an excuse to skip something, you’re training it that excuses are acceptable.

When you’re five minutes late and you decide to skip the gym, you’re teaching yourself that things need to be perfect to show up. When your morning doesn’t go exactly as planned and you bail on your commitment, you’re reinforcing that it’s okay to quit when things get inconvenient.

And that’s a dangerous pattern.

The Commitment Breakdown

Being committed to something means showing up even when it’s not convenient. Even when it’s not perfect. Even when you’re running late.

Every time you chip away at your commitments, every time you break down those walls of dedication, you weaken the whole structure. At some point, it’s not a commitment anymore. It’s just something you say you’ll do “someday.”

Someday I’ll be on time. Someday I’ll start going to the gym again. Someday never comes if you keep accepting excuses.

A Little Workout Beats No Workout

Let’s be practical here. If you show up fifteen minutes late to a forty-five minute class, you still get thirty minutes of movement. That’s thirty minutes more than you’d get sitting at home.

And here’s the thing. If you only get twenty minutes of class time, you can stay after. Use the dumbbells. Hit the bike. Try the stair climber. There are options.

Getting a little bit of a workout is infinitely better than getting no workout at all.

What Walking In Late Actually Teaches You

When you walk into class late, you’re proving something important to yourself. You’re proving that your commitment matters more than your comfort. You’re showing yourself that you don’t need perfect circumstances to follow through.

You’re teaching your brain: I said I was going to do this, so I’m doing it. Even if it’s not ideal. Even if it’s awkward. Even if I missed the warmup.

That’s powerful.

Show Up for Yourself

If you’re running late this morning and you’re thinking about skipping the gym, don’t. Go anyway.

Just get those ten, fifteen, twenty, twenty-five minutes of workout in. Because you’re not just exercising your body. You’re exercising your commitment muscle.

You’re showing your brain: I still intend to do this. Yeah, I slipped up on timing. But I’m committed. I still want to work out. I still want to show up for myself every day.

Choosing Yourself

A couple days ago, I posted on Facebook that in 2025, I started choosing myself again. There’s this amazing book by James Altucher called Choose Yourself. I highly recommend it.

But the point is this: In 2025, I started choosing myself again. And in 2026, I’m doubling down on it.

I really hope you’ll do the same thing. Choose yourself. Show up for yourself. Commit to yourself.

If you want to get in shape, make it happen. Only you can.

The Bottom Line

Being late isn’t a valid excuse to skip your workout. It’s just an inconvenience. And inconveniences are tests of your commitment.

Will you let a few minutes derail your entire day? Or will you show up anyway and prove to yourself that you’re serious?

The choice is yours. But I know which one will get you closer to your goals.


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Full Transcript: Running Late? Go to the Gym Anyway

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What’s up you guys? Famous Ashley Grant here
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and welcome to More Movement Please. I don’t
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know about you guys, but I’m still riding the
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high from last week’s amazing interview series
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that went live from Rhonda Good, my fabulous
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instructor. If you haven’t heard the series,
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I highly, highly, highly recommend you check
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it out. I’ll leave some links in the show notes
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to the three -part series. It was so good. It
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was raw. It was real. It was vulnerable. And
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it’s what everybody needs to hear if they’re
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considering starting their workout journey. And
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so I highly recommend that if you haven’t heard
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that yet, you go check it out. But today what
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I want to talk about is running late. And the
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funny thing is, today I’m actually on time. Not
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just on time, but I’m early. Today I woke up
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early. I woke up… ready and raring to go. And
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because of that, I’m getting to the gym a full
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12 minutes early. There have been days though,
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especially lately where I’ve been getting to
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the gym five, 10 minutes late. And I used to
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allow that to be an excuse to not go to the gym.
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And I know that’s one of those things where when
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you feel like you’re running late and you feel
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like you’re going to walk into a class that’s
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optional. you don’t want to walk in. You just
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feel like, okay, well, this was just a sign or
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a reason that I shouldn’t be going into the gym
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because you don’t want to be that person that
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walks in late. If you listened to any of my previous
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episodes, you already know what I’m going to
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say. You should go anyway. If you are serious
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about working out, go anyway. Because every time
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you give your brain excuses to do something different,
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you’re training your brain that it’s okay. So
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those days that I’m running late, if I allow
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myself to just stay home or talk myself out of
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going to the gym, that means every time something’s
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not going exactly perfectly to plan, I’m training
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my mindset that it’s okay. I’m allowed to skip
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the gym. And the thing about being committed
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to something is whenever you Pick away at those
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commitments when you break down those walls of
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being committed to something. At some point,
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it’s no longer a commitment. It’s just something
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that you say will be your someday. Someday I’ll
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be on time. Someday I’ll start going to the gym
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again. And I don’t want that for you. I want
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you to show up anyway, even if you’re 15, 20
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minutes late. Getting a little bit of a workout
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is better than getting no workout at all. And
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here’s the thing. If you are running a little
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bit late and you get into gym class and you only
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get about 20 minutes of workout, well, you could
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stay a little bit longer and maybe work on some
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dumbbells, maybe use the bike machine, maybe
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use the stair climber or some other thing. So
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basically, the main point of this is I just want
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to encourage you that if you’re running late
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this morning and you’re like, man, I’m going
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to be a couple minutes late to the gym, maybe
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I should just forget about it. And go do something
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else. Instead, go to the gym anyway. Just get
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those 10, 15, 20, 25 minutes of workout in. Because
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at least then you’re showing your brain and teaching
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your brain. I still intend to do this. Yeah,
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today I slipped up a little bit. But I am committed.
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I still want to work out. I still want to show
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up for myself every day. Because… When you
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are making commitments to yourself and you’re
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putting yourself first, that’s when the magic
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happens, y ‘all. A couple days ago, I posted
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on Facebook that in 2025, I started choosing
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myself again. There’s this amazing book by James
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Altucher. It’s called Choose Yourself. I highly
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recommend it. I’ll leave a link in the show notes.
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It’s really good. But in 2025, I started choosing
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myself again. And in 2026, I’m doubling down
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on this. And friends, I really hope that you’ll
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do the same thing. Choose yourself. Show up for
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yourself. Commit to yourself. If you want to
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get in shape, make it happen. Only you can. Onwards
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and upwards, my friends. Have you worked out
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today?

Sitting Equals Dying: From Couch to Habit in 21 Days

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Build a fitness habit in 21 days. Practical dos and don’ts for starting your fitness life, breaking plateaus, and making the gym feel like peace.

If Exercise Feels Like Punishment, You’re in the Wrong Place

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The Science of 21 Days

Want to know the secret to making fitness stick? Do it for 21 days straight. That’s it. That’s the magic number.

It’s just science.

If you do anything for 21 days, it becomes a habit.

There are entire books about it. After those three weeks, your body and mind expect it.

It becomes part of your routine instead of something you have to force yourself to do.

So Rhonda Goode’s challenge is simple: try working out for 21 days in a row and see if you stop. Chances are, you won’t want to.

When You Hit a Plateau (And You Will)

Your body gets used to everything you do when you work out. At some point, you’re going to stop seeing results. It happens to everyone.

So what do you do about it?

Switch Your Workout Time

This is the best thing you can do, but also the hardest. Working out at a different time of day can shock your system into responding again.

The problem? People get stuck in their routines. Especially retired people who have their coffee at exactly 7:45 every morning.

Rhonda admits she’s the same way. She does NOT like her routine messed with.

But sometimes breaking that routine is exactly what your body needs.

Try Different Activities

Instead of going to the gym every single time, take a hike. Do something difficult outside that you would never do otherwise. The change in activity can restart your progress.

Your body doesn’t know the difference between a tough hike and your regular workout. It just knows you’re doing something different.

Change Your Eating Schedule

This sounds crazy, but it works. If you’re always carb-heavy at lunch, switch it to dinner.

If you always eat a salad at lunch, try having it at night instead.

When you switch up what your body is used to, whether that’s food or working out, you’ll often drop weight. Not always, but a lot of times. It’s weird, but it’s true.

The Cheat Meal Strategy (That Rhonda Doesn’t Use)

Some people who’ve been working out forever swear by having a cheat meal on the weekend where they eat complete garbage. And you know what? They often notice they drop weight after.

Rhonda doesn’t do this because she doesn’t enjoy it. But she admits it works for some people.

Any kind of change that switches up what your body is used to can trigger weight loss.

Remember: You’re Going to Fluctuate

Everybody’s weight fluctuates. That’s normal. Don’t freak out about it.

Real Talk About Starting from Zero

So you’re overweight. You have health issues. You’re intimidated. Maybe you haven’t worked out in years. Or ever. What’s step one?

Just Go to the Gym

This sounds really intimidating, but here’s the truth: unless you’re going to one of those hardcore muscle gyms, most gyms are filled with pretty average-looking folks.

You’re not walking into a room full of Instagram models. You’re walking into a room with regular people who are working on themselves.

When you walk in, people around you are going to introduce themselves. They’ll tell you what equipment you need if the instructor isn’t there yet. They’ll say, “Just do what you can.”

And that’s the truth. Whatever you do when you start is better than sitting on the couch at home.

It Has to Be for You

This is critical. You have to be determined that you’re doing this for YOU. Not for your spouse. Not for your kids. Not because your doctor told you to.

When you’re doing it for someone else, it doesn’t work. Period.

Rhonda’s Three Non-Negotiable DO’s

1. Go to the Gym in Comfortable Clothes

Wear clothes you’re comfortable sweating in. Comfortable moving in. That’s it.

Don’t worry about what you look like. Nobody’s there to look cute. People are there to work.

And don’t worry about what you look like in the mirror. If you’re in a class, no one’s looking at you but you. Everyone else is looking at the instructor.

You’re not the focus. You may think you’re the focus, especially if you’re new, but you’re really not.

2. Take Water and Be Prepared to Sweat

Some people naturally don’t sweat. Rhonda thinks those people are weird and is kind of envious of them. But most people are going to sweat.

Bring water. You don’t want to get dehydrated and lightheaded while you’re working out. It happens, especially to people just starting who’ve never done this before.

3. Focus on the Small Things You Can Change First

Everyone has a really bad habit. Or several. What’s yours?

  • Nachos every night in the toaster oven?
  • Bowl of ice cream before bed?
  • Mountain Dew all day?
  • Fast food for lunch every day?

Start there. Don’t try to overhaul your entire diet at once.

Rhonda once talked to someone who was pre-diabetic and in their 30s. They were coming to the gym but not seeing results. When asked about their habits, they admitted to having nachos every night.

Rhonda’s advice? Maybe try nachos three times a week instead of seven. Pick your days. Drop it back slowly.

If you’re not willing to make any changes, you’re probably not going to see any results. You’ve got to make small steps.

Rhonda’s Three Non-Negotiable DON’Ts

1. Don’t Drink Your Calories

This is huge. Stop drinking regular soda. Stop drinking sweet tea by the gallon. Stop with the fancy coffee drinks that are basically milkshakes.

Rhonda used to drink Mountain Dew. A lot of it. She gave it up completely. That one change made a massive difference.

If you must have soda, switch to diet. Yes, it’s still not great for you. But it’s better than drinking 200+ calories every time you’re thirsty.

2. Don’t Eat Fast Food Every Day

You don’t have to never eat fast food again. But you can’t have it every single day and expect to see results.

If you’re eating fast food for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, that’s a problem. Pick one meal to eat at home. Start there.

3. Don’t Make Excuses

The biggest don’t of all? Don’t make excuses.

  • “I’ll start in January.”
  • “I don’t have time.”
  • “The gym is too expensive.”
  • “I’m too tired.”
  • “I have bad knees.”

These are all excuses. And Rhonda has ZERO patience for them.

What About Bad Knees and Joint Issues?

Rhonda hears this all the time. “I have bad knees, so I can’t work out.”

Her response? No. You can still work out. You just have to modify.

Can’t do jumping jacks? Fine.

Do something else.

There are always modifications.

The problem isn’t your knees.

The problem is using your knees as an excuse not to try at all.

The Gym Doesn’t Have to Be Expensive

People say the gym is just another expense, especially now with everything costing more. And yes, it is an expense.

But most people can find that money in their budget by giving up something. Maybe it’s not Starbucks. Maybe it’s cutting back on fast food or subscription services you don’t use.

Gyms don’t have to be expensive. The YMCA has financial aid assistance. Planet Fitness is $10 a month. You can find options.

And it’s definitely not about the prettiest facility or the newest equipment. Some CrossFit places charge $120-$150 a month, which Rhonda thinks is insane.

Try Before You Commit

Get a day pass. Try some places out. Walk in and see if it’s your thing. If it’s not, you haven’t signed a contract or joined a membership you have to cancel.

Most people find that group fitness is far more satisfying than trying to do things alone. There’s something about working out with others that keeps you accountable and motivated.

Sitting Is Slowly Killing You

Here’s the hard truth: sitting equals dying.

If you’re sitting all the time and not using your body, eventually you’re not going to be able to use it. It doesn’t matter what age you are. Use it or lose it is real.

Your body is designed to move. When you don’t move it, things start shutting down. Muscles atrophy. Joints stiffen. Balance gets worse. Energy drops.

Then one day you can’t get up from a chair without help. You can’t walk from your bedroom to the car. You’ve become a prisoner in your own body.

The Mindset Shift: From Punishment to Peace

For someone who sees exercise as punishment or a chore, how do you shift to seeing it as peace?

Rhonda’s answer is brutally simple: you’re in the wrong place.

If exercise isn’t fun, you’re doing it wrong. Period.

Now, it’s not always fun during the actual process. Sometimes you’re sweating and struggling and wondering why you thought this was a good idea.

But if it’s a chore and you’re not having fun? If you dread it every time? You’re in the wrong place.

The Gym Should Feel Like Church

The gym should feel like the place where you come in and have the most peace. You’re focusing on you. You’re working on yourself. And you’re having fun because of the people around you.

Even people you don’t necessarily love become part of your gym family because you all have the same goal.

If you’re not getting any enjoyment out of what you’re doing, then you’re doing the wrong thing or you’re at the wrong place. Find another group. Find another activity.

Life’s too short to force yourself to do a workout you hate. There are too many options out there.

Parting Wisdom from Rhonda

Start. Just start doing something.

If you don’t know where to start, talk to someone. Ask around. Find someone who can point you in the right direction.

Most people can find the money for a gym membership by giving up something else. And gyms don’t have to be expensive.

Get a day pass. Try places out. See what feels right.

And remember: for most people, group fitness is way more satisfying than trying to go it alone.

Action Items to Get Started Today

  1. Commit to 21 days straight. Pick a start date and do something active for 21 days in a row. Make it a habit.
  2. Identify your worst food habit. What’s your thing? Start working on that one thing first.
  3. Stop drinking your calories immediately. This is the easiest change to make with the biggest impact.
  4. Get a day pass to a local gym. Don’t commit to anything yet. Just walk in and see how it feels.
  5. Try a group fitness class. Even if it terrifies you. Most people find this more motivating than working out alone.
  6. Stop making excuses. Write down your top three excuses and then challenge each one. Are they real obstacles or just fears?
  7. Find your community. Look for people who have similar goals and will hold you accountable.
  8. Remember: you’re choosing your future. Every day you sit is a day you’re not investing in your later years.

When Exercise Becomes Peace

Rhonda’s students have fun in her classes. They laugh. They chat. They support each other. They show up even after 12-hour shifts because they know they’ll feel better after.

That’s what fitness should be. Not punishment. Not a chore you have to force yourself through. But a place of peace. A place where you focus on yourself. A place where you’re building your future one workout at a time.

Key Takeaways

  • 21 days is all it takes to build a habit
  • Plateaus are normal; switch things up to break through
  • Starting is for you and no one else
  • Wear comfortable clothes and bring water
  • Focus on small changes first, especially with food
  • Stop drinking calories, eating daily fast food, and making excuses
  • The gym doesn’t have to be expensive
  • Group fitness beats solo workouts for most people
  • Sitting all the time will eventually make you unable to move
  • If exercise feels like punishment, you’re in the wrong place
  • The gym should feel like church – a place of peace and community

One Final Word

If you’ve been sitting on the couch thinking “I should probably start moving more,” this is your sign.

You don’t need expensive equipment. You don’t need to look a certain way. You don’t need a perfect diet plan.

You just need to start. Get a day pass. Try some places. Find where you feel comfortable.

Give it 21 days. Build the habit. Find your people. Focus on small changes.

And remember: sitting equals dying. Moving equals living.

Which one are you going to choose?


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A Prisoner in Her Own Body: Why I’ll Never Stop Moving

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Watching her mother become a prisoner in her own body changed everything. Why Rhonda built a fitness army and will never stop moving.

The Last Two Years: Why Watching Her Mother’s Decline Fuels Every Workout

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The Image That Haunts Her

Rhonda Goode’s mother spent the last two years of her life unable to walk from her chair to the car. The car was parked right at the bottom of the steps. Just three or four steps away. Through one small room.

She couldn’t do it.

She became a prisoner in her own body. And then a prisoner in her own home.

What “Housebound” Really Means

For almost two years, Rhonda’s mother couldn’t leave the house at all. Not for doctor’s appointments. Not for family gatherings. Not for anything. She eventually couldn’t even make it to the bathroom, so they had to set up a porta potty inside the house.

At the end, there were bed sores from sitting all the time. She dislocated her shoulder trying to clean herself after using the bathroom. Her stomach was so large it would almost touch the floor when she sat in her recliner. She had no stomach muscles left at all.

She needed a lift chair just to stand up.

Drugged Out on Medication

Between all the medications for all her ailments, Rhonda’s mother was often out of it. Sometimes Rhonda would bring her food and couldn’t even get her awake enough to eat. Her blood sugar would drop so low that she was completely unresponsive.

One time it was 54. Rhonda had to call EMS because she couldn’t get her mother to even acknowledge she was there.

Rhonda explains this is what happens when you try to manage everything with medication instead of addressing the root causes.

First comes the high blood pressure medication. Then the diabetes pills. Then the insulin. Then more insulin. Then all the side effects from all the medications.

It compounds until you’re drugged out of your mind.

Living Longer But Not Better

Here’s the thing that shocked Rhonda. Her mother lived longer than most of her family.

Her father died at 69. Her uncle at 65. Almost all her mother’s cousins died younger.

Her mother was the weakest of all of them health-wise. But she was also the most stubborn.

That stubborn streak probably kept her alive. But alive doesn’t mean living.

The Last Six Months

The final six months brought mental decline on top of everything else. Her mother’s mind started to go.

But before that? Her mind was mostly okay.

She was mentally aware enough to know she was trapped. She knew she couldn’t leave. She knew she couldn’t do anything.

Can you imagine being mentally present but completely unable to control your own body? Unable to make choices about your own life?

We all have days where we don’t want to leave the house. But to not have the choice at all? That’s a different story.

Why This Drives Everything Rhonda Does

Dying doesn’t scare Rhonda. She’s made peace with that.

What terrifies her is living like her mother did.

Being dependent on others for everything. Having your entire life built around medications. Feeling terrible all the time. Having no energy. Being physically incapable of doing basic tasks.

This is why she’ll never stop moving. Never stop working out. Never stop showing up for herself.

She’s seen exactly what happens when you don’t.

From Working Out for Herself to Teaching Others

Rhonda didn’t set out to become a fitness instructor. She started working out just for herself. But a few years after she began her fitness journey, people started asking her to teach classes.

At first, she said no. Teaching wasn’t her thing. But people kept asking. They wanted what she had. They wanted her energy, her no-nonsense approach, her consistency.

Finally, she said yes.

Building a Fitness Army

Now Rhonda teaches classes where people show up like it’s church. They come even after working 12-hour shifts. Some do two to three hours with her in a row. They choose her over the new, pretty gym in town.

Why? Because they know she’ll be there. No matter what. If they’re working split shifts or switching schedules, they can count on Rhonda showing up.

And here’s what she tells them: you’ll feel better if you show up. Even if you’re exhausted. Even if you think you can’t do it. You’ll still usually feel better after.

The Community That Forms

When people spend time working out together, they become interested in each other’s lives. Accountability builds naturally. If you’re always there and then you’re suddenly gone for three days, people notice.

They check in. Where are you? Is something wrong?

That’s the community Rhonda has built. They’ve watched each other go through really bad stuff. Life happens to everyone. Deaths, divorces, diagnoses, job losses. The fitness community becomes a support system.

People don’t just want to belong. They want commonality. They want to be around others who understand. Who have the same goal. Who know we’re all going to get old.

Age Ain’t Nothin But a Number

Rhonda has a mantra she shares with everyone: No matter what age you walk in the room, there’s somebody in that room who’s 15 years older than you.

Look at them. Look at the shape they’re in. Now think about where you are. If you’re 25 and you see someone at 40. If you’re 40 and you see someone at 70.

How do you want to live when you’re their age?

One of Rhonda’s students, Marilyn, is almost 72. She can lift 20-pound weights.

Genetics play a role, sure. But a lot of it is choosing your own future.

The People Who Changed Their Lives

Some of Rhonda’s students have gotten off blood pressure medication. Others have gotten off diabetes medication. They’ve reversed what they thought was inevitable. They’ve told their pharmacy to suck it.

That’s what keeps Rhonda teaching. Seeing real health improvements. Watching people take back control. Knowing they’re choosing a different path than what their genetics suggested.

The Holidays Shouldn’t Sabotage Your Fitness

When the holidays roll around and people worry about weight gain, Rhonda has a surprisingly balanced take.

Once you stop being addicted to food, once you stop looking at food as a crutch for every emotion, the holidays aren’t as big of a deal. You no longer approach parties and family gatherings like a cow at a trough.

You can have a bite of this. You can enjoy your favorite things. But here’s the key: don’t eat it if you don’t like it. Just because it’s there doesn’t mean you have to eat it. Just because Aunt Sue made it doesn’t mean you’re obligated to eat it.

And if you take a bite of something and it’s not as good as it looked? Throw it away. Don’t finish it out of obligation.

Focus on what you really like. Have some of that. But don’t take a bite of everything just because it’s in front of you.

It’s Okay to Gain a Few Pounds (But…)

Here’s Rhonda’s honest take on holiday weight: it’s okay to gain 3 or 4 pounds during Thanksgiving and Christmas. Really. It’s okay.

But here’s the deal. If you’re at the gym the Wednesday before Thanksgiving, you better be there the Friday after. That weight will come back off. You just have to stay consistent.

The problem isn’t enjoying holiday meals. The problem is when people use the holidays as an excuse to quit entirely. “I’ll start in January” becomes the lie they tell themselves.

When You Have Multiple Family Gatherings

Rhonda remembers when she was newly married and all her grandparents were alive. Six meals between Thanksgiving and Christmas. You had to go to everyone’s house because everyone cooked and everyone would be offended if you didn’t show up.

For Thanksgiving, sometimes they’d split it between Thursday and Friday. For Christmas, they always split between Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. Six big meals. No way around it.

If you’re in that situation with big families and multiple gatherings, you have to make choices. You can’t eat like it’s the last supper at every single one. Pick your favorites. Enjoy them. But be strategic.

Action Items for Your Fitness Life

  1. Ask yourself the hard question: Do you want to be a prisoner in your own body later? If not, what are you doing about it now?
  2. Find your fitness community. Working out alone is hard. Group fitness provides accountability and support.
  3. Show up even when you’re tired. You’ll almost always feel better after. Your fitness community needs you just like you need them.
  4. Look at people older than you who are fit. That can be your future if you choose it.
  5. Break your food addiction. Stop using food to deal with every emotion. Happy, sad, stressed, bored – food doesn’t need to be the answer.
  6. During holidays, eat what you love. Don’t eat out of obligation. Don’t finish things that aren’t delicious. Don’t eat everything just because it’s there.
  7. Stay consistent through the holidays. A few pounds of holiday weight is fine if you get right back to your routine.
  8. Choose your future. Every single day, you’re making choices about what your later years will look like.

Find Your Motivation – Let it Fuel Your Workouts

Watching someone you love decline like Rhonda watched her mother is brutal. But it crystallized something for her. She knows exactly what she doesn’t want. She’s seen it up close for two years.

Being a prisoner in your own body is worse than dying. Having no choices. Depending on others for everything. Being mentally aware but physically incapable. That’s the nightmare.

So Rhonda shows up. Every single day. Not just for herself anymore, but for her fitness army who needs her. Who counts on her. Who’s choosing a different future.

Key Takeaways

  • Being housebound and dependent is a real possibility if you don’t take care of yourself
  • Medication can manage symptoms but doesn’t solve the root problem
  • Finding a fitness community creates natural accountability
  • People will show up even when exhausted if they know you’ll be there
  • Breaking food addiction changes how you approach holidays and gatherings
  • Small holiday weight gain is fine if you stay consistent
  • You’re choosing your future health with every decision you make today
  • Group fitness is more effective than going it alone

Rhonda’s mother’s story is heartbreaking. But it’s also a powerful reminder. Every day you move, you’re investing in your future freedom. Every day you show up, you’re choosing independence over dependence.

That’s why Rhonda will never stop moving. And why she’s building an army of people who won’t either.


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