Thanksgiving Without the Weight Gain: How to Stay Fit Through the Holidays

Thanksgiving Without the Weight Gain How to Stay Fit Through the Holidays

Thanksgiving is one day, not a week-long excuse. Here’s how to enjoy the food and keep your fitness momentum going strong.

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Stop Using Thanksgiving as an Excuse

Today I want to talk about the holidays. Specifically, Thanksgiving. Because here’s the thing: a lot of people use Thanksgiving as an excuse to completely abandon their fitness goals.

And listen, I get it. Thanksgiving is a food-centric holiday. There’s turkey and stuffing and mashed potatoes and gravy and pie and all the things. And you’re probably thinking “Ashley, are you seriously telling me I can’t enjoy Thanksgiving dinner?”

No. That’s not what I’m saying at all.

You Can Enjoy the Food AND Stay Committed

What I’m saying is that you can enjoy Thanksgiving dinner without using it as an excuse to skip your workouts for an entire week.

Let me break this down for you. Thanksgiving is one day. One. Single. Day.

But somehow, people turn it into a week-long event where they stop working out on Monday “because Thanksgiving is coming” and then they don’t start back up until the following Monday “because they’re still recovering from Thanksgiving.”

That’s ridiculous.

My Thanksgiving Plan

Let me tell you what I plan on doing. Tomorrow morning, before the chaos begins, I intend to get my workout in. I am so used to every single Thursday I do Tabata and I do stretch. And there’s amazing classes online that you can take. And so that’s what I intend to do.

My goal is even if I only work out 30 to 45 minutes, I plan on doing some Tabata rounds and I plan on doing some stretching.

And here’s why. Not only does it set the tone for the day, it reminds me that I’m someone who prioritizes movement and health even on the holidays.

Black Friday at the Gym

And on Black Friday, while everyone else is going to be trying to get to the stores at dawn or maybe going back to work or whatever, I’m going to the gym. I definitely will be going to the gym. I’ll have my Friday routine just like I do every single Friday of Zumba and low-impact cardio.

Because honestly, that’s going to feel more amazing to me than trying to get some amazing deal. And let’s face it, so many of the deals these days are on the computer anyway. You don’t have to go and be one of those doorbusters.

And do we really need $25 off a TV? Absolutely not. What I need is 25 pounds off my waistline.

Enjoy the Food Mindfully

Now, about the food. I’m not saying don’t eat Thanksgiving dinner. Eat the turkey. Eat the stuffing. Have some pie. Enjoy it.

But be mindful. Eat slowly. Pay attention to when you’re full. You don’t have to eat until you’re in a food coma just because it’s Thanksgiving.

And you definitely don’t have to eat every single thing on the table just because it’s there. If you don’t like sweet potato casserole, don’t eat it. If you’re not a big fan of green bean casserole, skip it.

Eat what you love. Enjoy it. And then move on.

The Real Secret

There’s something so satisfying about knowing that you had a good meal and you still kept your fitness goals and your commitment to yourself to get in shape as your top priority.

When you enjoy your Thanksgiving meal and you continue to keep working out, maybe the day of or at least at the very least the day after, you’re energized. You feel good. You don’t have that sluggish, guilty feeling.

Love your people, eat the good food, and then make sure that you are getting right back to the work.


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Full Transcript: Thanksgiving Without the Weight Gain: How to Stay Fit Through the Holidays

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Hey guys, famous Ashley Grant here. Welcome to
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More Movement Please, the podcast about inspiring
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you to move your body more. So tomorrow is Thanksgiving
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and I wanted to talk really quickly about something
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that’s been on my mind and probably yours too.
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With the holidays here, it doesn’t have to mean
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that you destroy your weight loss goals. And
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I know what you’re thinking, but it’s Thanksgiving
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or it’s Christmas. I’m surrounded by family and
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there’s pie everywhere and my gym routine is
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completely thrown off. I hear you. But here’s
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the thing. You can enjoy, absolutely, you can
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enjoy the holidays and stay committed to your
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fitness journey. They’re not. I repeat, they’re
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not mutually exclusive. So let’s talk about tomorrow,
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right? Thanksgiving dinner is going to be amazing.
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And you should enjoy it. But here’s what science
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actually tells us about not overindulging while
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still having a great time. First, I want you
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to eat breakfast. I know far too many people
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who will not eat breakfast the day of Thanksgiving.
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In fact, it used to be a thing that my husband
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was really adamant about. He’s like, well, I
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don’t want to do breakfast and I don’t want to
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do lunch because we’re going to have Thanksgiving
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dinner and I want to be really, really hungry
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for it. And it’s tempting. It really is tempting
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to save all those calories for the big meal.
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But research shows that arriving whenever you’re
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starving leads to overeating. What you should
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do instead is have a really good breakfast to
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keep your blood sugar stable and then stay hydrated.
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That’s number two, right? In fact, you should
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be doing that all day. Stay hydrated. Because
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what’s funny is we often mistake thirst for hunger.
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So drink water all day, especially right before
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the big meal. And third, and this is a big one,
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I want you to use the plate method. Fill half
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of your plate with vegetables first, and then
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a quarter protein, hello turkey, and a quarter
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with those delicious carbs and sides. Notice
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I didn’t say don’t have the carbs and sides.
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I want you to have it. I want you to have that
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stuffing and the mashed potatoes and all the
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delicious things, but you just have to be mindful
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about your portions. And the biggest thing while
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you’re eating is eat slowly. If you’re mindless
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about your eating, before you know it, you’re
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shoveling in a crap ton of food and you may already
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have been full, but you kept going. If you keep
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going, even after you’re full, you’re just going
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to overstuff yourself and make yourself sick,
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right? So I know it’s going to be hard, but I
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want you to like put down your fork between bites.
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It takes about 20 minutes for your brain to register
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that you’re full. Savor the flavors. Give your
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body time to tell you when it’s satisfied. And
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not stuffed. So, it’s going to be difficult,
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right? It’s going to be hard. I get it. I totally
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get it. Because you start talking to Aunt Sharon
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and before you know it, you have just shoveled
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in a whole bunch of mashed potatoes and stuffing
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and all the good things. And your brain hasn’t
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quite caught up to the fact that, hey, you might
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already be full. Now, let me tell you what I
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plan on doing. Tomorrow morning, before the chaos
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begins, I intend to get my workout in. I am so
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used to every single Thursday, I do Tabata and
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I do stretch. And there’s amazing classes online
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that you can take. And so that’s what I intend
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to do. My goal is even if I only work out 30
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to 45 minutes, I plan on doing some Tabata rounds
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and I plan on doing some stretching. And here’s
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why. Not only does it set the tone for the day,
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it reminds me that I’m someone who prioritizes
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movement and health even on the holidays. And
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on Black Friday, while everyone else is going
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to be trying to get to the stores at dawn or
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maybe going back to work or whatever, I’m going
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to the gym. I definitely will be going to the
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gym. I’ll have my Friday routine just like I
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do every single Friday of Zumba and low -impact
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cardio because, honestly, that’s going to feel
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more amazing to me than trying to get some amazing
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deal. And let’s face it, so many of the deals
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these days are on the computer anyway. You don’t
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have to go and be one of those doorbusters. And
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do we really need $25 off a TV? Absolutely not.
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What I need is 25 pounds off my waistline. So
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that’s what I intend to do. And I encourage you
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to consider doing that for yourself as well,
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because there’s something so satisfying about
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knowing that you had a good meal and you still
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kept your fitness goals and your commitment to
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yourself to get in shape as your top priority.
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So when you enjoy your Thanksgiving meal, And
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you continue to keep working out maybe the day
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of, or at least at the very least, the day after.
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You’re energized. You’ve got extra fuel in your
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system. And you’re proving to yourself that one
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day of celebration doesn’t have to derail everything
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you’re working for. And listen, Thanksgiving
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is just the beginning. I know. We’re heading
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into the full holiday season. You know, Christmas
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parties and cookie exchanges and New Year’s celebrations.
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There’s sweets. There’s treats. And they’re everywhere.
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And here’s my plan. And maybe it’ll work for
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you too. So I’m just sharing it with you in case
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you possibly want to use it. I fully intend to
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enjoy my mom’s peanut butter chocolate candy.
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I fully intend to have some cookies at the cookie
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party, the cookie swap that I’m having with some
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gym buddies. I even plan on having some pie.
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But I’m also going to make sure that I am moving
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my body consistently every single day, staying
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active and not use the holiday as an excuse to
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completely abandon everything that I’ve worked
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so hard in the last few months for. Here’s the
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thing. This episode is intended to remind you
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that the holidays are about joy. They’re about
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gratitude and they’re about connection. I don’t
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want you to feel guilty. about the holidays.
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But I also don’t want you to overindulge. At
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the same time, if you over -restrict yourself,
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that’s what’s going to lead to the binging. So
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don’t feel guilt if you want to try your cousin’s
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banana pudding pie. Don’t feel guilt if you’re
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really wanting a couple bites of that sweet potato
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casserole. Have it. By all means, have it. But
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just make sure that you are not overindulging,
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you’re being mindful about what you’re consuming,
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and Work out even on the days that you have family
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things going on. Wake up earlier if you need
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to. I mean, I know that sounds like the same
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old things that gym bros say all the time, right?
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But at the same time, if you just give yourself
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an extra 15 minutes, it could be what you need
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to stay on track. So wake up earlier. Do a quick
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body weight circuit in the guest room. Take a
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family walk after dinner. Movement, it doesn’t
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have to be perfect, but it does have to happen.
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if you want to stay committed to your fitness
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goals. You’ve got this. I hope you enjoy your
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Thanksgiving. I want you to know that I am so
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thankful that you’re listening to this, and I
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hope that you are moving your body more. Love
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your people, eat the good food, and then make
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sure that you are getting right back to the work.
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Onwards and upwards, my friends. Have you worked
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out today?

Running Late? Go to the Gym Anyway

Running Late? Go to the Gym Anyway

Being late isn’t an excuse. Here’s why showing up 15 minutes late is better than not showing up at all, and what this really teaches your brain.

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The “I’m Running Late” Excuse Stops Today

I’m early to the gym today. Like, actually early. Twelve whole minutes early.

But that’s not always the case. Lately, I’ve been rolling in five, ten, sometimes fifteen minutes late to class. And I used to let that be a reason not to go at all.

You know the feeling. You’re running behind. The class has already started. Walking in late feels awkward. So you tell yourself, “Well, it’s already started. I’ll just go tomorrow.”

Tomorrow never comes.

Stop Training Your Brain to Accept Excuses

Here’s what I’ve learned. Every time you give your brain an excuse to skip something, you’re training it that excuses are acceptable.

When you’re five minutes late and you decide to skip the gym, you’re teaching yourself that things need to be perfect to show up. When your morning doesn’t go exactly as planned and you bail on your commitment, you’re reinforcing that it’s okay to quit when things get inconvenient.

And that’s a dangerous pattern.

The Commitment Breakdown

Being committed to something means showing up even when it’s not convenient. Even when it’s not perfect. Even when you’re running late.

Every time you chip away at your commitments, every time you break down those walls of dedication, you weaken the whole structure. At some point, it’s not a commitment anymore. It’s just something you say you’ll do “someday.”

Someday I’ll be on time. Someday I’ll start going to the gym again. Someday never comes if you keep accepting excuses.

A Little Workout Beats No Workout

Let’s be practical here. If you show up fifteen minutes late to a forty-five minute class, you still get thirty minutes of movement. That’s thirty minutes more than you’d get sitting at home.

And here’s the thing. If you only get twenty minutes of class time, you can stay after. Use the dumbbells. Hit the bike. Try the stair climber. There are options.

Getting a little bit of a workout is infinitely better than getting no workout at all.

What Walking In Late Actually Teaches You

When you walk into class late, you’re proving something important to yourself. You’re proving that your commitment matters more than your comfort. You’re showing yourself that you don’t need perfect circumstances to follow through.

You’re teaching your brain: I said I was going to do this, so I’m doing it. Even if it’s not ideal. Even if it’s awkward. Even if I missed the warmup.

That’s powerful.

Show Up for Yourself

If you’re running late this morning and you’re thinking about skipping the gym, don’t. Go anyway.

Just get those ten, fifteen, twenty, twenty-five minutes of workout in. Because you’re not just exercising your body. You’re exercising your commitment muscle.

You’re showing your brain: I still intend to do this. Yeah, I slipped up on timing. But I’m committed. I still want to work out. I still want to show up for myself every day.

Choosing Yourself

A couple days ago, I posted on Facebook that in 2025, I started choosing myself again. There’s this amazing book by James Altucher called Choose Yourself. I highly recommend it.

But the point is this: In 2025, I started choosing myself again. And in 2026, I’m doubling down on it.

I really hope you’ll do the same thing. Choose yourself. Show up for yourself. Commit to yourself.

If you want to get in shape, make it happen. Only you can.

The Bottom Line

Being late isn’t a valid excuse to skip your workout. It’s just an inconvenience. And inconveniences are tests of your commitment.

Will you let a few minutes derail your entire day? Or will you show up anyway and prove to yourself that you’re serious?

The choice is yours. But I know which one will get you closer to your goals.


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Full Transcript: Running Late? Go to the Gym Anyway

00:00:13
What’s up you guys? Famous Ashley Grant here
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and welcome to More Movement Please. I don’t
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know about you guys, but I’m still riding the
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high from last week’s amazing interview series
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that went live from Rhonda Good, my fabulous
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instructor. If you haven’t heard the series,
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I highly, highly, highly recommend you check
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it out. I’ll leave some links in the show notes
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to the three -part series. It was so good. It
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was raw. It was real. It was vulnerable. And
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it’s what everybody needs to hear if they’re
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considering starting their workout journey. And
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so I highly recommend that if you haven’t heard
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that yet, you go check it out. But today what
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I want to talk about is running late. And the
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funny thing is, today I’m actually on time. Not
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just on time, but I’m early. Today I woke up
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early. I woke up… ready and raring to go. And
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because of that, I’m getting to the gym a full
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12 minutes early. There have been days though,
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especially lately where I’ve been getting to
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the gym five, 10 minutes late. And I used to
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allow that to be an excuse to not go to the gym.
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And I know that’s one of those things where when
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you feel like you’re running late and you feel
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like you’re going to walk into a class that’s
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optional. you don’t want to walk in. You just
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feel like, okay, well, this was just a sign or
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a reason that I shouldn’t be going into the gym
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because you don’t want to be that person that
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walks in late. If you listened to any of my previous
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episodes, you already know what I’m going to
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say. You should go anyway. If you are serious
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about working out, go anyway. Because every time
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you give your brain excuses to do something different,
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you’re training your brain that it’s okay. So
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those days that I’m running late, if I allow
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myself to just stay home or talk myself out of
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going to the gym, that means every time something’s
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not going exactly perfectly to plan, I’m training
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my mindset that it’s okay. I’m allowed to skip
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the gym. And the thing about being committed
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to something is whenever you Pick away at those
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commitments when you break down those walls of
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being committed to something. At some point,
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it’s no longer a commitment. It’s just something
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that you say will be your someday. Someday I’ll
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be on time. Someday I’ll start going to the gym
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again. And I don’t want that for you. I want
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you to show up anyway, even if you’re 15, 20
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minutes late. Getting a little bit of a workout
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is better than getting no workout at all. And
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here’s the thing. If you are running a little
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bit late and you get into gym class and you only
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get about 20 minutes of workout, well, you could
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stay a little bit longer and maybe work on some
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dumbbells, maybe use the bike machine, maybe
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use the stair climber or some other thing. So
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basically, the main point of this is I just want
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to encourage you that if you’re running late
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this morning and you’re like, man, I’m going
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to be a couple minutes late to the gym, maybe
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I should just forget about it. And go do something
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else. Instead, go to the gym anyway. Just get
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those 10, 15, 20, 25 minutes of workout in. Because
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at least then you’re showing your brain and teaching
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your brain. I still intend to do this. Yeah,
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today I slipped up a little bit. But I am committed.
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I still want to work out. I still want to show
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up for myself every day. Because… When you
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are making commitments to yourself and you’re
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putting yourself first, that’s when the magic
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happens, y ‘all. A couple days ago, I posted
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on Facebook that in 2025, I started choosing
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myself again. There’s this amazing book by James
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Altucher. It’s called Choose Yourself. I highly
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recommend it. I’ll leave a link in the show notes.
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It’s really good. But in 2025, I started choosing
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myself again. And in 2026, I’m doubling down
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on this. And friends, I really hope that you’ll
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do the same thing. Choose yourself. Show up for
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yourself. Commit to yourself. If you want to
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get in shape, make it happen. Only you can. Onwards
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and upwards, my friends. Have you worked out
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today?

Sitting Equals Dying: From Couch to Habit in 21 Days

Sitting Equals Dying - From Couch to Habit in 21 Days Rhonda Goode Header

Build a fitness habit in 21 days. Practical dos and don’ts for starting your fitness life, breaking plateaus, and making the gym feel like peace.

If Exercise Feels Like Punishment, You’re in the Wrong Place

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The Science of 21 Days

Want to know the secret to making fitness stick? Do it for 21 days straight. That’s it. That’s the magic number.

It’s just science.

If you do anything for 21 days, it becomes a habit.

There are entire books about it. After those three weeks, your body and mind expect it.

It becomes part of your routine instead of something you have to force yourself to do.

So Rhonda Goode’s challenge is simple: try working out for 21 days in a row and see if you stop. Chances are, you won’t want to.

When You Hit a Plateau (And You Will)

Your body gets used to everything you do when you work out. At some point, you’re going to stop seeing results. It happens to everyone.

So what do you do about it?

Switch Your Workout Time

This is the best thing you can do, but also the hardest. Working out at a different time of day can shock your system into responding again.

The problem? People get stuck in their routines. Especially retired people who have their coffee at exactly 7:45 every morning.

Rhonda admits she’s the same way. She does NOT like her routine messed with.

But sometimes breaking that routine is exactly what your body needs.

Try Different Activities

Instead of going to the gym every single time, take a hike. Do something difficult outside that you would never do otherwise. The change in activity can restart your progress.

Your body doesn’t know the difference between a tough hike and your regular workout. It just knows you’re doing something different.

Change Your Eating Schedule

This sounds crazy, but it works. If you’re always carb-heavy at lunch, switch it to dinner.

If you always eat a salad at lunch, try having it at night instead.

When you switch up what your body is used to, whether that’s food or working out, you’ll often drop weight. Not always, but a lot of times. It’s weird, but it’s true.

The Cheat Meal Strategy (That Rhonda Doesn’t Use)

Some people who’ve been working out forever swear by having a cheat meal on the weekend where they eat complete garbage. And you know what? They often notice they drop weight after.

Rhonda doesn’t do this because she doesn’t enjoy it. But she admits it works for some people.

Any kind of change that switches up what your body is used to can trigger weight loss.

Remember: You’re Going to Fluctuate

Everybody’s weight fluctuates. That’s normal. Don’t freak out about it.

Real Talk About Starting from Zero

So you’re overweight. You have health issues. You’re intimidated. Maybe you haven’t worked out in years. Or ever. What’s step one?

Just Go to the Gym

This sounds really intimidating, but here’s the truth: unless you’re going to one of those hardcore muscle gyms, most gyms are filled with pretty average-looking folks.

You’re not walking into a room full of Instagram models. You’re walking into a room with regular people who are working on themselves.

When you walk in, people around you are going to introduce themselves. They’ll tell you what equipment you need if the instructor isn’t there yet. They’ll say, “Just do what you can.”

And that’s the truth. Whatever you do when you start is better than sitting on the couch at home.

It Has to Be for You

This is critical. You have to be determined that you’re doing this for YOU. Not for your spouse. Not for your kids. Not because your doctor told you to.

When you’re doing it for someone else, it doesn’t work. Period.

Rhonda’s Three Non-Negotiable DO’s

1. Go to the Gym in Comfortable Clothes

Wear clothes you’re comfortable sweating in. Comfortable moving in. That’s it.

Don’t worry about what you look like. Nobody’s there to look cute. People are there to work.

And don’t worry about what you look like in the mirror. If you’re in a class, no one’s looking at you but you. Everyone else is looking at the instructor.

You’re not the focus. You may think you’re the focus, especially if you’re new, but you’re really not.

2. Take Water and Be Prepared to Sweat

Some people naturally don’t sweat. Rhonda thinks those people are weird and is kind of envious of them. But most people are going to sweat.

Bring water. You don’t want to get dehydrated and lightheaded while you’re working out. It happens, especially to people just starting who’ve never done this before.

3. Focus on the Small Things You Can Change First

Everyone has a really bad habit. Or several. What’s yours?

  • Nachos every night in the toaster oven?
  • Bowl of ice cream before bed?
  • Mountain Dew all day?
  • Fast food for lunch every day?

Start there. Don’t try to overhaul your entire diet at once.

Rhonda once talked to someone who was pre-diabetic and in their 30s. They were coming to the gym but not seeing results. When asked about their habits, they admitted to having nachos every night.

Rhonda’s advice? Maybe try nachos three times a week instead of seven. Pick your days. Drop it back slowly.

If you’re not willing to make any changes, you’re probably not going to see any results. You’ve got to make small steps.

Rhonda’s Three Non-Negotiable DON’Ts

1. Don’t Drink Your Calories

This is huge. Stop drinking regular soda. Stop drinking sweet tea by the gallon. Stop with the fancy coffee drinks that are basically milkshakes.

Rhonda used to drink Mountain Dew. A lot of it. She gave it up completely. That one change made a massive difference.

If you must have soda, switch to diet. Yes, it’s still not great for you. But it’s better than drinking 200+ calories every time you’re thirsty.

2. Don’t Eat Fast Food Every Day

You don’t have to never eat fast food again. But you can’t have it every single day and expect to see results.

If you’re eating fast food for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, that’s a problem. Pick one meal to eat at home. Start there.

3. Don’t Make Excuses

The biggest don’t of all? Don’t make excuses.

  • “I’ll start in January.”
  • “I don’t have time.”
  • “The gym is too expensive.”
  • “I’m too tired.”
  • “I have bad knees.”

These are all excuses. And Rhonda has ZERO patience for them.

What About Bad Knees and Joint Issues?

Rhonda hears this all the time. “I have bad knees, so I can’t work out.”

Her response? No. You can still work out. You just have to modify.

Can’t do jumping jacks? Fine.

Do something else.

There are always modifications.

The problem isn’t your knees.

The problem is using your knees as an excuse not to try at all.

The Gym Doesn’t Have to Be Expensive

People say the gym is just another expense, especially now with everything costing more. And yes, it is an expense.

But most people can find that money in their budget by giving up something. Maybe it’s not Starbucks. Maybe it’s cutting back on fast food or subscription services you don’t use.

Gyms don’t have to be expensive. The YMCA has financial aid assistance. Planet Fitness is $10 a month. You can find options.

And it’s definitely not about the prettiest facility or the newest equipment. Some CrossFit places charge $120-$150 a month, which Rhonda thinks is insane.

Try Before You Commit

Get a day pass. Try some places out. Walk in and see if it’s your thing. If it’s not, you haven’t signed a contract or joined a membership you have to cancel.

Most people find that group fitness is far more satisfying than trying to do things alone. There’s something about working out with others that keeps you accountable and motivated.

Sitting Is Slowly Killing You

Here’s the hard truth: sitting equals dying.

If you’re sitting all the time and not using your body, eventually you’re not going to be able to use it. It doesn’t matter what age you are. Use it or lose it is real.

Your body is designed to move. When you don’t move it, things start shutting down. Muscles atrophy. Joints stiffen. Balance gets worse. Energy drops.

Then one day you can’t get up from a chair without help. You can’t walk from your bedroom to the car. You’ve become a prisoner in your own body.

The Mindset Shift: From Punishment to Peace

For someone who sees exercise as punishment or a chore, how do you shift to seeing it as peace?

Rhonda’s answer is brutally simple: you’re in the wrong place.

If exercise isn’t fun, you’re doing it wrong. Period.

Now, it’s not always fun during the actual process. Sometimes you’re sweating and struggling and wondering why you thought this was a good idea.

But if it’s a chore and you’re not having fun? If you dread it every time? You’re in the wrong place.

The Gym Should Feel Like Church

The gym should feel like the place where you come in and have the most peace. You’re focusing on you. You’re working on yourself. And you’re having fun because of the people around you.

Even people you don’t necessarily love become part of your gym family because you all have the same goal.

If you’re not getting any enjoyment out of what you’re doing, then you’re doing the wrong thing or you’re at the wrong place. Find another group. Find another activity.

Life’s too short to force yourself to do a workout you hate. There are too many options out there.

Parting Wisdom from Rhonda

Start. Just start doing something.

If you don’t know where to start, talk to someone. Ask around. Find someone who can point you in the right direction.

Most people can find the money for a gym membership by giving up something else. And gyms don’t have to be expensive.

Get a day pass. Try places out. See what feels right.

And remember: for most people, group fitness is way more satisfying than trying to go it alone.

Action Items to Get Started Today

  1. Commit to 21 days straight. Pick a start date and do something active for 21 days in a row. Make it a habit.
  2. Identify your worst food habit. What’s your thing? Start working on that one thing first.
  3. Stop drinking your calories immediately. This is the easiest change to make with the biggest impact.
  4. Get a day pass to a local gym. Don’t commit to anything yet. Just walk in and see how it feels.
  5. Try a group fitness class. Even if it terrifies you. Most people find this more motivating than working out alone.
  6. Stop making excuses. Write down your top three excuses and then challenge each one. Are they real obstacles or just fears?
  7. Find your community. Look for people who have similar goals and will hold you accountable.
  8. Remember: you’re choosing your future. Every day you sit is a day you’re not investing in your later years.

When Exercise Becomes Peace

Rhonda’s students have fun in her classes. They laugh. They chat. They support each other. They show up even after 12-hour shifts because they know they’ll feel better after.

That’s what fitness should be. Not punishment. Not a chore you have to force yourself through. But a place of peace. A place where you focus on yourself. A place where you’re building your future one workout at a time.

Key Takeaways

  • 21 days is all it takes to build a habit
  • Plateaus are normal; switch things up to break through
  • Starting is for you and no one else
  • Wear comfortable clothes and bring water
  • Focus on small changes first, especially with food
  • Stop drinking calories, eating daily fast food, and making excuses
  • The gym doesn’t have to be expensive
  • Group fitness beats solo workouts for most people
  • Sitting all the time will eventually make you unable to move
  • If exercise feels like punishment, you’re in the wrong place
  • The gym should feel like church – a place of peace and community

One Final Word

If you’ve been sitting on the couch thinking “I should probably start moving more,” this is your sign.

You don’t need expensive equipment. You don’t need to look a certain way. You don’t need a perfect diet plan.

You just need to start. Get a day pass. Try some places. Find where you feel comfortable.

Give it 21 days. Build the habit. Find your people. Focus on small changes.

And remember: sitting equals dying. Moving equals living.

Which one are you going to choose?


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A Prisoner in Her Own Body: Why I’ll Never Stop Moving

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Watching her mother become a prisoner in her own body changed everything. Why Rhonda built a fitness army and will never stop moving.

The Last Two Years: Why Watching Her Mother’s Decline Fuels Every Workout

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The Image That Haunts Her

Rhonda Goode’s mother spent the last two years of her life unable to walk from her chair to the car. The car was parked right at the bottom of the steps. Just three or four steps away. Through one small room.

She couldn’t do it.

She became a prisoner in her own body. And then a prisoner in her own home.

What “Housebound” Really Means

For almost two years, Rhonda’s mother couldn’t leave the house at all. Not for doctor’s appointments. Not for family gatherings. Not for anything. She eventually couldn’t even make it to the bathroom, so they had to set up a porta potty inside the house.

At the end, there were bed sores from sitting all the time. She dislocated her shoulder trying to clean herself after using the bathroom. Her stomach was so large it would almost touch the floor when she sat in her recliner. She had no stomach muscles left at all.

She needed a lift chair just to stand up.

Drugged Out on Medication

Between all the medications for all her ailments, Rhonda’s mother was often out of it. Sometimes Rhonda would bring her food and couldn’t even get her awake enough to eat. Her blood sugar would drop so low that she was completely unresponsive.

One time it was 54. Rhonda had to call EMS because she couldn’t get her mother to even acknowledge she was there.

Rhonda explains this is what happens when you try to manage everything with medication instead of addressing the root causes.

First comes the high blood pressure medication. Then the diabetes pills. Then the insulin. Then more insulin. Then all the side effects from all the medications.

It compounds until you’re drugged out of your mind.

Living Longer But Not Better

Here’s the thing that shocked Rhonda. Her mother lived longer than most of her family.

Her father died at 69. Her uncle at 65. Almost all her mother’s cousins died younger.

Her mother was the weakest of all of them health-wise. But she was also the most stubborn.

That stubborn streak probably kept her alive. But alive doesn’t mean living.

The Last Six Months

The final six months brought mental decline on top of everything else. Her mother’s mind started to go.

But before that? Her mind was mostly okay.

She was mentally aware enough to know she was trapped. She knew she couldn’t leave. She knew she couldn’t do anything.

Can you imagine being mentally present but completely unable to control your own body? Unable to make choices about your own life?

We all have days where we don’t want to leave the house. But to not have the choice at all? That’s a different story.

Why This Drives Everything Rhonda Does

Dying doesn’t scare Rhonda. She’s made peace with that.

What terrifies her is living like her mother did.

Being dependent on others for everything. Having your entire life built around medications. Feeling terrible all the time. Having no energy. Being physically incapable of doing basic tasks.

This is why she’ll never stop moving. Never stop working out. Never stop showing up for herself.

She’s seen exactly what happens when you don’t.

From Working Out for Herself to Teaching Others

Rhonda didn’t set out to become a fitness instructor. She started working out just for herself. But a few years after she began her fitness journey, people started asking her to teach classes.

At first, she said no. Teaching wasn’t her thing. But people kept asking. They wanted what she had. They wanted her energy, her no-nonsense approach, her consistency.

Finally, she said yes.

Building a Fitness Army

Now Rhonda teaches classes where people show up like it’s church. They come even after working 12-hour shifts. Some do two to three hours with her in a row. They choose her over the new, pretty gym in town.

Why? Because they know she’ll be there. No matter what. If they’re working split shifts or switching schedules, they can count on Rhonda showing up.

And here’s what she tells them: you’ll feel better if you show up. Even if you’re exhausted. Even if you think you can’t do it. You’ll still usually feel better after.

The Community That Forms

When people spend time working out together, they become interested in each other’s lives. Accountability builds naturally. If you’re always there and then you’re suddenly gone for three days, people notice.

They check in. Where are you? Is something wrong?

That’s the community Rhonda has built. They’ve watched each other go through really bad stuff. Life happens to everyone. Deaths, divorces, diagnoses, job losses. The fitness community becomes a support system.

People don’t just want to belong. They want commonality. They want to be around others who understand. Who have the same goal. Who know we’re all going to get old.

Age Ain’t Nothin But a Number

Rhonda has a mantra she shares with everyone: No matter what age you walk in the room, there’s somebody in that room who’s 15 years older than you.

Look at them. Look at the shape they’re in. Now think about where you are. If you’re 25 and you see someone at 40. If you’re 40 and you see someone at 70.

How do you want to live when you’re their age?

One of Rhonda’s students, Marilyn, is almost 72. She can lift 20-pound weights.

Genetics play a role, sure. But a lot of it is choosing your own future.

The People Who Changed Their Lives

Some of Rhonda’s students have gotten off blood pressure medication. Others have gotten off diabetes medication. They’ve reversed what they thought was inevitable. They’ve told their pharmacy to suck it.

That’s what keeps Rhonda teaching. Seeing real health improvements. Watching people take back control. Knowing they’re choosing a different path than what their genetics suggested.

The Holidays Shouldn’t Sabotage Your Fitness

When the holidays roll around and people worry about weight gain, Rhonda has a surprisingly balanced take.

Once you stop being addicted to food, once you stop looking at food as a crutch for every emotion, the holidays aren’t as big of a deal. You no longer approach parties and family gatherings like a cow at a trough.

You can have a bite of this. You can enjoy your favorite things. But here’s the key: don’t eat it if you don’t like it. Just because it’s there doesn’t mean you have to eat it. Just because Aunt Sue made it doesn’t mean you’re obligated to eat it.

And if you take a bite of something and it’s not as good as it looked? Throw it away. Don’t finish it out of obligation.

Focus on what you really like. Have some of that. But don’t take a bite of everything just because it’s in front of you.

It’s Okay to Gain a Few Pounds (But…)

Here’s Rhonda’s honest take on holiday weight: it’s okay to gain 3 or 4 pounds during Thanksgiving and Christmas. Really. It’s okay.

But here’s the deal. If you’re at the gym the Wednesday before Thanksgiving, you better be there the Friday after. That weight will come back off. You just have to stay consistent.

The problem isn’t enjoying holiday meals. The problem is when people use the holidays as an excuse to quit entirely. “I’ll start in January” becomes the lie they tell themselves.

When You Have Multiple Family Gatherings

Rhonda remembers when she was newly married and all her grandparents were alive. Six meals between Thanksgiving and Christmas. You had to go to everyone’s house because everyone cooked and everyone would be offended if you didn’t show up.

For Thanksgiving, sometimes they’d split it between Thursday and Friday. For Christmas, they always split between Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. Six big meals. No way around it.

If you’re in that situation with big families and multiple gatherings, you have to make choices. You can’t eat like it’s the last supper at every single one. Pick your favorites. Enjoy them. But be strategic.

Action Items for Your Fitness Life

  1. Ask yourself the hard question: Do you want to be a prisoner in your own body later? If not, what are you doing about it now?
  2. Find your fitness community. Working out alone is hard. Group fitness provides accountability and support.
  3. Show up even when you’re tired. You’ll almost always feel better after. Your fitness community needs you just like you need them.
  4. Look at people older than you who are fit. That can be your future if you choose it.
  5. Break your food addiction. Stop using food to deal with every emotion. Happy, sad, stressed, bored – food doesn’t need to be the answer.
  6. During holidays, eat what you love. Don’t eat out of obligation. Don’t finish things that aren’t delicious. Don’t eat everything just because it’s there.
  7. Stay consistent through the holidays. A few pounds of holiday weight is fine if you get right back to your routine.
  8. Choose your future. Every single day, you’re making choices about what your later years will look like.

Find Your Motivation – Let it Fuel Your Workouts

Watching someone you love decline like Rhonda watched her mother is brutal. But it crystallized something for her. She knows exactly what she doesn’t want. She’s seen it up close for two years.

Being a prisoner in your own body is worse than dying. Having no choices. Depending on others for everything. Being mentally aware but physically incapable. That’s the nightmare.

So Rhonda shows up. Every single day. Not just for herself anymore, but for her fitness army who needs her. Who counts on her. Who’s choosing a different future.

Key Takeaways

  • Being housebound and dependent is a real possibility if you don’t take care of yourself
  • Medication can manage symptoms but doesn’t solve the root problem
  • Finding a fitness community creates natural accountability
  • People will show up even when exhausted if they know you’ll be there
  • Breaking food addiction changes how you approach holidays and gatherings
  • Small holiday weight gain is fine if you stay consistent
  • You’re choosing your future health with every decision you make today
  • Group fitness is more effective than going it alone

Rhonda’s mother’s story is heartbreaking. But it’s also a powerful reminder. Every day you move, you’re investing in your future freedom. Every day you show up, you’re choosing independence over dependence.

That’s why Rhonda will never stop moving. And why she’s building an army of people who won’t either.


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From Food Coma Family Reunions to Fitness Warrior: Breaking the Family Curse

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Learn how Rhonda lost 120 pounds and broke her family’s cycle of diabetes and obesity. Real talk about food addiction and choosing your future.

Food Addiction, Bad Genes, and the Decision That Changed Everything

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The Wake-Up Call at 35

Rhonda Goode walked into a gym on March 31, 2011. She was 35 years old, working a desk job, and felt horrible. But more than that, she was scared of following the path that laid before her.

She had watched her entire family struggle with diabetes and high blood pressure.

Both sides of her family.

Every single one of her mother’s cousins had been diagnosed in their 30s and 40s. First came the high blood pressure. Then diabetes. Then the insulin. Then more insulin. Then the decline.

She refused to follow that path.

A Co-Worker Sparked the Change (But Didn’t Stick Around)

A co-worker convinced Rhonda to join the gym. That friend lasted about four weeks before quitting. But Rhonda kept showing up. Even when nothing looked different physically, she noticed something important. She felt better mentally when she was there.

So she kept going. When she couldn’t sleep at 2am, she’d head to her 24-hour gym and walk on the treadmill. She made a decision that changed everything: she would do this for nobody but herself.

The Driving Force Behind the Change

Rhonda is blunt about her motivation. “I was really determined not to be my mother,” she says. She tells everyone that your driving force usually won’t be your partner or best friend. It has to come from within you.

For her, it was simple math. She was probably going to be here on this earth for a while. The only question was: what condition would she be in?

The Family Pattern She Refused to Continue

Picture this: family reunions where everyone piles their plates as high as they can. The men especially, competing with their fathers to see who can eat more. Going back for seconds, thirds, fourths.

Rhonda has a photo from one of these reunions with her mother. She was 23 years old. Both of them look drugged out, eyes glazed over. They were in a complete food coma. And she was huge.

The scary part? This was normal in her family.

Both Sides Had the Same Story

On her mother’s side: diabetes and high blood pressure across the entire generation. On her father’s side: the exact same thing. Her paternal grandmother lost half a leg to diabetes before dying from cancer. Her father died from cancer but had diabetes the entire time.

Here’s what Rhonda realized. Dying didn’t scare her. Living like that did.

Living where everything is built around the medicines you take. Feeling like garbage all the time. Having no energy. Not being physically active. It compounds on itself. You don’t feel well, so you don’t move. You don’t move, so you don’t feel well. Years go by. You get comfortable in it.

The Reality of Being an Only Child

Rhonda is an only child with no children by choice.

That meant one thing: there’s no one to take care of me.

She needed to do something before it was too late. And she knew it could get too late.

120 Pounds Lost, Five Dress Sizes Down

By 2020, Rhonda had lost 120 pounds and five dress sizes. But the transformation wasn’t just physical.

She started by making movement a habit. That part was actually easier than she expected. Once it became routine, showing up wasn’t the hard part. The hard part? Changing what she ate.

The Food Addiction Not Enough Folks Talk About

Sugar is a drug. Studies show it has some of the same effects as cocaine. And Rhonda was addicted to food, just like most of her family.

She had to address the hard truths: food addiction, family dynamics, unhealthy habits that felt normal. She had to break free from using food as a crutch for every emotion.

Simple Changes That Made the Difference

Rhonda always cooked, but she cooked simple meals. She still does. The changes she made were straightforward but not easy:

  • She gave up Mountain Dew completely
  • She cut back on fast food
  • She started paying attention to what she was actually eating
  • She started moving more

The key? Small steps. Not perfection.

The Daily Chocolate and Carbs Philosophy

Here’s where Rhonda breaks the mold. She eats chocolate every day. She eats carbs every day. She doesn’t endorse cutting out entire food groups or happy foods.

Her approach? Balance and management.

Pasta is her favorite food. She could live on it. But now instead of eating 600-calorie bags of pasta for lunch AND having pasta sides at dinner, she makes choices.

If she’s having pasta for dinner, she’ll have a salad for lunch. If she’s having a baked potato with her salad, she’ll skip the pasta that night.

The Salad Requirements (Yes, Really)

Rhonda eats the same salad every single day for lunch. And she has very specific requirements:

  • Must be a spring mix, preferably 50/50 blend
  • Needs spinach, but also colorful lettuce
  • Cannot be wet (it won’t last the week)
  • Absolutely NO iceberg lettuce (she calls it a cardinal sin)
  • Cherry or cherub tomatoes (ruby reds are best)
  • Cucumbers
  • Sugar snap peas
  • Feta cheese
  • Croutons (but only the fat, puffy, Texas Roadhouse-style ones in garlic butter)
  • Ranch dressing (but not drowning the salad)

She stands in the grocery store examining the plastic bins to make sure the lettuce is colorful enough and not too wet. If it’s not right, she buys multiple containers to mix them.

When people ask how she can eat the same thing every day, she points out that people eat the same burgers and fried chicken from different fast food places without thinking twice about it.

Breaking the “Food Coma” Cycle

A photo of her and her mother in a food coma represents everything Rhonda fought against. It wasn’t just about weight. It was about breaking a generational pattern of:

  • Using food as entertainment
  • Eating to the point of being drugged out
  • Competing to see who can consume the most
  • Accepting poor health as inevitable
  • Letting medication manage everything instead of addressing the root cause

Action Items You Can Start Today

  1. Look at your family health history honestly. What patterns do you see? What trajectory are you on?
  2. Find your real motivation. It can’t be for someone else. It has to be about the quality of life YOU want.
  3. Start moving, even if it’s just walking. The physical activity habit is actually the easier part to build.
  4. Identify your food addiction. What’s your thing? Soda? Fast food? Late-night snacks? Everyone has something.
  5. Make small changes first. Don’t try to overhaul everything at once. Pick one bad habit and work on it.
  6. Stop using food as a drug. Pay attention to when you’re eating because you’re actually hungry versus eating for comfort, celebration, or boredom.
  7. Remember: you’re choosing your future. Every day you make decisions about what condition you’ll be in later.

You Can Change Your Life – Regardless of Genetics

Rhonda’s story isn’t about perfection. She eats chocolate every day. She has pasta regularly. She’s not following some restrictive diet plan.

What she did do was decide that she would not be a prisoner to her genetics. She would not follow the same path as her parents and grandparents. She would show up for herself, day after day, whether anyone else was there or not.

The gym became her non-negotiable. Not because she had to look a certain way. Not because someone was watching. But because she wanted to choose the condition she’d be in for the rest of her life.

That decision 14 years ago changed everything. Not just for her, but for the many people she now inspires and instructs in her fitness classes.

FAQs About Episode 7: From Food Coma Family Reunions to Fitness Warrior – Breaking the Family Curse

Q: How much weight did Rhonda lose and how long did it take?
A: Rhonda lost 120 pounds and five dress sizes over approximately 9 years (from joining the gym in 2011 to her 2020 update).

Q: Did Rhonda use weight loss pills, surgery, or supplements?
A: No. Rhonda is adamantly against pills, patches, shakes, and surgery. Her approach was “eat less, move more, stay away from pharma.”

Q: What was Rhonda’s main motivation for losing weight?
A: She was determined not to follow the same path as her family. Both sides had diabetes and high blood pressure, diagnosed in their 30s and 40s. She decided to change her trajectory before it was too late.

Q: Does Rhonda really eat chocolate and carbs every day?
A: Yes. Rhonda eats chocolate daily and regularly enjoys pasta, her favorite food. She doesn’t believe in cutting out entire food groups or “happy foods.”

Q: What does Rhonda eat for lunch every day?
A: She eats the same salad daily: spring mix (50/50 blend), cherry tomatoes, cucumbers, sugar snap peas, feta cheese, Texas Roadhouse-style croutons, and ranch dressing. No iceberg lettuce allowed.

Q: How does Rhonda balance eating foods she loves while losing weight?
A: She manages portions and makes trade-offs. If she’s having pasta for dinner, she’ll have a salad for lunch. If she has a baked potato with her salad, she’ll skip pasta that night.

Q: Why does Rhonda say the scale is a liar?
A: The scale moves slowly and can be disappointing. She recommends tracking measurements and how clothes fit instead, as your body shifts and changes even when the scale doesn’t move much.

Q: What’s the difference between motivation and discipline according to Rhonda?
A: Motivation fades when the newness wears off. Discipline is what keeps you showing up even when you don’t feel like it. Everyone feels better after working out, even on bad days.

Q: When did Rhonda start her fitness journey?
A: She joined the gym on March 31, 2011, at age 35, after a coworker convinced her to go (though the coworker quit after four weeks).

Q: What family health patterns was Rhonda trying to avoid?
A: On both sides of her family, relatives were diagnosed with high blood pressure and diabetes in their 30s-40s, leading to insulin dependence, declining health, and serious complications like her grandmother losing half a leg to diabetes.

Key Takeaways

  • Your family health history doesn’t have to be your destiny
  • The motivation has to come from within you
  • Physical activity becomes easier once it’s a habit
  • Changing your diet is harder than starting to move
  • You can still eat foods you love and see results
  • Small, sustainable changes work better than extreme restrictions
  • Dying isn’t the scary part. Living in poor health is.

The generational curse? Rhonda broke it. And if she can do it, so can you.


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No Excuses – Working Out When It’s Cold Outside

No Excuses - Working Out When It's Cold Outside

Cold weather is just another excuse. Here’s how to stop letting the temperature control your fitness goals and keep moving anyway.

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Cold Weather Kept Me Out of Shape for Years. Here’s How I Finally Stopped Letting It Win.

What’s up, you guys? I am coming at you live from my car, which is where I said I’m going to be recording most of these episodes. But the exciting thing about today’s recording is that I’m recording with a brand new lavalier mic.

And the reason I’m so excited about that is because it has better sounding audio. Using that in tandem with Adobe podcast, it’s just going to be so much better for the quality.

Why I Upgraded My Equipment

The main reason that I finally pulled the trigger and purchased these lovely lavalier mics is because you guys, I finally had the chance to interview my instructor. This is the gal that I told y’all that I wanted to interview in the very first episode. I said that if I was going to start interviewing guests, I wanted to interview her.

And I’ve done that now. We sat down, we had an amazing conversation, and I cannot wait for you guys to hear it. But I’m not dropping that episode for at least another two or three more episodes because I want to make sure that I get some more content out there first.

But Let’s Talk About the Cold

Today what I really want to talk about is something that I’ve been seeing a lot on social media lately. People are using the cold weather as an excuse not to work out.

And I get it. It’s cold. It’s miserable. Getting out of your warm bed when it’s freezing outside is not fun. Walking to your car in the cold, driving to the gym in the cold, all of that sucks.

But here’s the thing: the gym is heated. Your living room where you could do a YouTube workout is heated. The mall where you could walk laps is heated.

Stop Letting Weather Control You

The weather is just another excuse. And I’m saying this as someone who used to use every excuse in the book not to work out.

Too hot? Can’t work out. Too cold? Can’t work out. Raining? Definitely can’t work out. Snowing? Are you kidding me?

But the truth is, the weather doesn’t actually stop you from working out. It’s just uncomfortable. And yeah, I know, being uncomfortable sucks. But you know what else sucks? Staying out of shape because you let the weather control your life for six months out of the year.

Your Options When It’s Cold

If you don’t want to drive to the gym when it’s cold, fine. Do a home workout. There are thousands of free workout videos on YouTube. You don’t need equipment. You don’t need anything except the commitment to yourself that you’re going to move your body.

If you really want to go to the gym but you’re dreading the cold commute, bundle up. Warm up your car. Make it as comfortable as possible. And then just go.

Because here’s what I’ve learned: the discomfort of being cold for the 10 minutes it takes you to get from your house to the gym is nothing compared to the regret you’ll feel later for skipping your workout.

The Real Question

The real question is: are you going to let a little cold weather be the reason you don’t reach your goals?

I hope not. I really hope not.


YouTube Classes

Stretch Classes: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLDPNeMw4rQKrP845UF9B3rqZXFx2TYGnV&si=foZXqQktrZCE0jcW

Standing Pilates Classes: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLDPNeMw4rQKo2vd20Ar-Q4hz-Kt5smQix&si=VS-lijfNt6Tqo2Uy

Beginner Dance Fitness Classes: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFgZ1gLrErM8lMbkzXNFcdiVz6ukQGr-L&si=XfNaLpEF63sXeoMH


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Full Transcript – No Excuses: Working Out When It’s Cold Outside

00:00:13
What’s up, you guys? Famous Ashley Grant here,
00:00:15
and welcome to More Movement, Please. I am coming
00:00:17
at you live from my car, which is where I said
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I’m going to be recording most of these episodes.
00:00:23
But the exciting thing about today’s recording
00:00:25
is that I’m recording with a brand new lavalier
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mic. And the reason I’m so excited about that
00:00:30
is because it has better sounding audio. I don’t
00:00:33
know if you can notice, but if you’re an audiophile
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like I am, you’ll probably be able to tell that
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there is a little bit better sound. It’s a little
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crisper. It’s a little… it’s a little better.
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And using that in tandem with Adobe podcast,
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it’s just going to be so much better for the
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quality. And I’m just excited about it. The main
00:00:52
reason that I finally pulled the trigger and
00:00:54
purchased these lovely lavalier mics is because
00:00:58
you guys, I finally had the chance to interview
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my instructor. This is the gal that I told y
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‘all that I wanted to interview in the very first
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episode. I said that if I was going to start
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interviewing guests, I wanted to interview her.
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And I’ve done that now. It was a fantastic interview.
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It was so good. She dropped so many amazing knowledge
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bonds. She shared so much amazing education,
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some of the best content that I have heard, any
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fitness. person of ever say and even better than
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most of the TikTok creators and fitness people
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that I follow online she shared some amazing
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amazing truth bombs and I can’t wait to share
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them all with you so that will be dropping soon
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it is not ready yet but I’m super freaking stoked
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that she even gave me the time of day to interview
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her because I know she is not the type of person
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that likes spotlight let alone being mic’d up
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and interviewed but that is coming soon but that
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is not the point of today’s episode Today, what
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I want to talk to you guys about is going to
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the gym when it’s cold or when there’s weather
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problems. So one of the things that happened
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this week is that on Monday, it dropped to 26
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degrees in Richmond, Kentucky. It may have actually
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been colder, but whenever I woke up, that’s what
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the temperature outside said. It said it was
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26 degrees and it was actually snowing the night
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before. And the truth is that… Throughout most
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of Monday, it was also snowing. We had snow showers
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and it’s very early in the season for this to
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happen. But an interesting thing occurred because
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of the fact that we had snow showers. And that’s
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that a lot of people did not show up to class.
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I cracked the joke as soon as I walked in. What
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is everybody scared of the cold? Because there
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were so many people that I’m used to seeing at
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the gym that did not actually attend. The instructor
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and I kind of had a little bit of a back and
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forth about the fact that sometimes what she
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notices is whenever it starts to get cold, people
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stop showing up to the gym. So what should you
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do if you’re feeling the same way that it’s too
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cold and you don’t want to go to the gym? Well,
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if you heard my last episode where I basically
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gave you a little bit of tough love and said
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you should go anyway, I’m going to say it again.
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You should go anyway. However. I do understand
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that there’s going to come a point where the
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roads are going to be too slick or, you know,
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there’s going to be snow on the ground and people
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aren’t going to want to drive. If that happens,
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this is what you should do. Are you ready for
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this? It’s simple advice and I really hope you’ll
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take it. Go to YouTube. I have to tell you, I
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have been taking fitness classes on YouTube for
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the better part of the last three months and
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I’m taking them on Wednesdays and Sundays. I’m
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mainly taking the stretch classes and they have
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been amazing. I can’t even explain to you how
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wonderful it has been to be able to move my body
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even whenever I cannot get to the gym. Because
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the reality is you should not have an excuse
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in this day and age. If you have access to the
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internet, you have access to classes. And on
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Tuesdays and Thursdays, what I used to do is
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if I could not do the Matt Pilates class, I would
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do a standing Pilates class on YouTube. I would
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look them up. I have some amazing videos that
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I, that are my go -tos that I have a playlist
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for, and I will happily share those in the show
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notes as well. But basically when I can’t get
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to the gym, but I know I want to work out, I
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go to YouTube and I know that might seem a little
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bit like a cop -out, but there’s some actually
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really good content on there. And I. I would
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happily share these videos that I’ve been watching
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and using with y ‘all. Because there should be
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no excuse, right? There should be no excuse for
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not working out. If you want to get in shape,
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if you want to stay in shape, you cannot use
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the weather outside as your reason for not moving.
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So the whole idea of this entire podcast, this
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whole movement, is that I want a movement of
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movement, right? And so I want to make it easier
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for everybody to move more. And if you want me
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to be your accountability, I would love to do
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that. Hit me up. I’m on. Instagram, I’m on Facebook,
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I’m on all the socials at Famous Ashley Grant.
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And if I’m not at Famous Ashley Grant, you can
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still search Famous Ashley Grant and you will
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find me on any of the social media profiles that
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I have. I’m on Pinterest, I’m on X, all the things.
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And if you hit me up and you say, hey, Ashley,
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I want to be an accountability buddy. I will
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send you an email every single Monday, just like
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I’m doing with some of my other friends, basically
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saying, have you worked out today? And I will
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also say, what are you doing this week to move
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your body more? Just that little bit of accountability,
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just that little bit of a nudge of someone saying,
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hey, I’m watching you. It might be all you need
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to just finally move more. And I really want
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that for you. So if you’re interested. Hit me
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up. There’s no cost for this. I’m not charging
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or anything like that. The whole goal is simply
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to get you to move more. So hit me up on all
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the socials. That’s basically all I’ve got for
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you today is that I want you to not let the weather
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be your excuse for why you don’t move. And if
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you’re looking for an accountability, I would
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love to be the person that holds you accountable
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and makes you move your body more. So. I really
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appreciate you guys even listening to these episodes.
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I hope that they’re helpful. And I can’t wait
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for you to listen to the interview I did with
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Rhonda. Like I said, it will be dropping in three
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episodes because it was just so jam -packed with
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so much good stuff. And I don’t want to overwhelm
00:06:29
anybody. And I just really hope that you guys
00:06:32
get inspired to start moving more. So onwards
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and upwards, my friends. Have you worked out
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today?

What to Do When You Don’t Want to Hit the Gym

What to Do When You Don't Want to Hit the Gym

Don’t want to go to the gym today? Here’s what you should do anyway. (Spoiler: it’s exactly what you think, but you need to hear it.)

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What to Do on Days You’d Rather Cry Than Go to the Gym (It’s Not What You Think)

Today I want to talk about what to do on the days that you don’t want to go to the gym. Even if you have made it a habit, even if you have made it something that you do every single day, there are going to be days that you’re going to wake up and you’re going to be like “God, I just don’t want to go to the gym today.”

So what should you do on those days?

The Answer You Already Know

I have the answer for you. And I know you might be surprised by this, but this is what you should do on the days you don’t want to go to the gym.

Go anyway.

I know. Can you believe it? It’s just groundbreaking information. You can’t even believe the fact that I just said that, I’m sure.

Why This Actually Matters

But the reality is, if you are trying to be serious, if you are trying to lose weight, if you are trying to get stronger, trying to get healthier, trying to make it a habit, you cannot cancel this date with yourself.

You have to get up and put in the work.

And it sucks. I get it. I really do. There have been days that I have not wanted to go at all. I’ve either had a headache or my stomach was hurting or insert, honestly, insert excuse here.

Because that’s what it is, isn’t it?

The Two Days I Actually Couldn’t Go

Now, I will tell you that during my 100 days of fitness, there were two days that I literally could not go to the gym. But it was because I was in so much pain that I physically could not move. And it wasn’t like I was trying to give myself an out.

The funny thing is, on both of those days, I got up and got dressed. Even though I didn’t want to go to the gym and I didn’t feel like it, I actually got up and got dressed and was gonna go. Hell, one of the days, I went to the gym and then turned around and had to come back home because I was in so much physical pain.

But the point is, I made the commitment to go even though I didn’t want to go.

The Feeling After You Go

And the days that you don’t want to go and you work out anyway? You’re gonna feel so much better, so much prouder of yourself for the fact that you went anyway.

I’ve never heard anybody say that they regretted working out. Sure, I’ve heard people say that they regretted going too high on their weights. I’ve heard people say that they regretted overdoing it or that they did something in their workout that was stupid or that they shouldn’t have done that led to injury or some other issue.

But I’ve never heard anybody say that they regretted actually putting the time into themselves, taking the time to take care of themselves.

Show Up for Yourself

So even on the days that you’re like “ugh, I don’t want to go,” go anyway. Because you know that if you don’t, the people that you’ve been working out with, they’re going to wonder where you are. And that’s a good thing, at least for me.

I know some people don’t want to be around anybody when they’re working out. And that’s fine. But that’s the whole thing is you’ve got to figure out what works best for you and then commit to it and then keep showing up, keep putting in the reps, even on the days you don’t feel like it.


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Full Transcript: What to Do When You Don’t Want to Hit the Gym

00:00:14
What’s up you guys? Famous Ashley Grant here.
00:00:16
Welcome to More Movement Please. Today I want
00:00:18
to talk about what to do on the days that you
00:00:20
don’t want to go to the gym. Even if you have
00:00:23
made it a habit, even if you have made it something
00:00:26
that you do every single day, there are going
00:00:29
to be days that you’re going to wake up and you’re
00:00:31
going to be like, God, I just don’t want to go
00:00:33
to the gym today. So what should you do on those
00:00:35
days? I have the answer for you. And I know You
00:00:40
might be surprised by this, but this is what
00:00:42
you should do on the days you don’t want to go
00:00:43
to the gym. Go anyway. I know. Can you believe
00:00:47
it? It’s just groundbreaking information. You
00:00:49
can’t even believe the fact that I just said
00:00:52
that, I’m sure. But the reality is, if you are
00:00:55
trying to be serious, if you are trying to lose
00:00:58
weight, if you are trying to get stronger, trying
00:01:01
to get healthier, trying to make it a habit,
00:01:03
you cannot cancel this date with yourself. You
00:01:07
have to get up and put in the work. And it sucks.
00:01:10
I get it. I really do. There have been days that
00:01:13
I have not wanted to go at all. I’ve either had
00:01:15
a headache or my stomach was hurting or insert,
00:01:19
honestly, insert excuse here. Because that’s
00:01:22
what it is, isn’t it? Now, I will tell you that
00:01:24
during my 100 days of fitness, there were two
00:01:26
days that I literally could not go to the gym.
00:01:30
But it was because I was in so much pain that
00:01:35
I physically could not move. And it wasn’t like
00:01:37
I was trying to give myself an out. The funny
00:01:40
thing is, on both of those days, I got up and
00:01:42
got dressed. Even though I didn’t want to go
00:01:43
to the gym and I didn’t feel like it, I actually
00:01:45
got up and got dressed and was gonna go. Hell,
00:01:48
one of the days, I went to the gym and then turned
00:01:51
around and had to come back home because I was
00:01:52
in so much physical pain. But the point is, I
00:01:55
made the commitment to go even though I didn’t
00:01:58
want to go. And the days that you don’t want
00:02:02
to go and you work out anyway, you’re gonna feel
00:02:05
so much better, so much prouder of yourself for
00:02:07
the fact that you went anyway. I’ve never heard
00:02:10
anybody say that they regretted working out.
00:02:13
Sure, I’ve heard people say that they regretted
00:02:15
going too high on their weights. I’ve heard people
00:02:17
say that they regretted overdoing it or that
00:02:20
they did something in their workout that was
00:02:22
stupid or that they shouldn’t have done that
00:02:24
led to injury or some other issue. But I’ve never
00:02:28
heard anybody say that they regretted actually
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putting the time into themselves, taking the
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time to take care of themselves. So if you are
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hoping to increase your fitness increase the
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amount of times that you are putting in the reps
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you got to commit to it and I know this has been
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a running theme that I’ve been talking about
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for a while but it’s so true and the funny thing
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is the more you do it the more you will become
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it’ll it’ll become ingrained in you it’ll become
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second nature you’ll feel weird on the days that
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you don’t go because those two days that I could
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not go to the gym They felt weird, man. Yeah,
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okay, I was hovered over in pain and trying to
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get better. But I really missed being around
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the gym. I missed being with my people that I
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was working out with. And that’s the other thing.
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You’ve got to find your groove, your thing that
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you love to do. For me, it’s group fitness. I
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have to be working out with other people. Something
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about torturing yourself with other people in
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the room. makes it that much better and that
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much easier for you to commit and stick around
00:03:34
and keep doing it and keep showing up. Because
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you know that if you don’t, the people that you’ve
00:03:40
been working out with, they’re going to wonder
00:03:41
where you are. And that’s a good thing, at least
00:03:43
for me. I know some people, they don’t want to
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be around anybody when they’re working out. And
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that’s fine. But that’s the whole thing is you’ve
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got to figure out what works best for you and
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then commit to it and then keep showing up, keep
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putting in the reps, even on the days you don’t
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feel like it. That’s what I got for you today.
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I hope you enjoyed this quick little episode.
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Onwards and upwards, my friends. Have you worked
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out today?

Why I Don’t Believe in Total Rest Days Anymore

Why I Don't Believe in Total Rest Days Anymore

I work out 7 days a week and I’ve never felt better. Here’s why active recovery days beat complete rest days every single time for me.

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I Haven’t Taken a Complete Rest Day in 115 Days. Here’s Why I Never Will Again.

Today is day 115 of my fitness journey of going maximum effort on fitness. I’m actually on a walk right now, and I wanted to hop on here and talk with you about the importance of active recovery days.

My Seven-Day-a-Week Approach

Anybody who’s following my fitness journey knows that I am working out basically seven days a week at this point. But two of those days I chose as active recovery days.

Now there are some times that I will do some kind of additional exercise. Like I’ve started doing Zumba on Sundays. So technically speaking, I only have one active recovery day. But more often than not, I do Wednesdays and Sundays as my active recovery days.

So why is this important? Why is it important to have an active recovery day? And these are the lighter days where you’re not really going as hard as you normally would. So why are they important?

What Active Recovery Actually Means

Well, number one, they help prevent injury. When you’re constantly pushing your body hard every single day with no break, you increase your risk of overuse injuries. Your muscles need time to repair and rebuild, but that doesn’t mean you need to be completely sedentary.

Number two, they maintain momentum. This is huge for me. If I took a complete rest day where I did nothing at all, I know myself. I’d start making excuses. “Oh, well, I took yesterday off, so what’s one more day?” Before you know it, one day becomes two, becomes three, becomes a week.

Active recovery keeps me in the habit of moving my body daily without putting excessive strain on it.

My Active Recovery Activities

On my active recovery days, I usually go for walks. Sometimes it’s a 30-minute walk, sometimes it’s longer, depending on how I’m feeling. I might do some gentle stretching or yoga.

The key is that I’m still moving. I’m still honoring my commitment to myself to move my body every single day, but I’m doing it in a way that allows my muscles to recover from the harder workouts.

Listen to Your Body

Now, I’m not saying everyone needs to work out seven days a week. Some people absolutely need those complete rest days. But for me, keeping some kind of movement going every single day works better for my mindset and my goals.

The important thing is that you figure out what works for you and your body. Pay attention to how you feel. If you’re exhausted and your body is screaming at you to rest, then rest. But if you’re like me and you feel better maintaining that daily habit, then active recovery might be the way to go.

Onwards and upwards, my friends. Have you worked out today?


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Full Transcript: Why I Don’t Believe in Total Rest Days Anymore

00:00:13
What’s up you guys? Famous Ashley Grant here
00:00:14
and welcome to More Movement Please. Today is
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day 115 of my fitness journey of going maximum
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effort on fitness and I’m actually on a walk
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right now and so I wanted to just kind of hop
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on here and… and talk with you guys about the
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importance of active recovery days. Because anybody
00:00:32
who’s following my fitness journey, you know
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that I am working out basically seven days a
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week at this point. But two of those days I chose
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as active recovery days. Now there are some times
00:00:42
that I will do… some kind of additional exercise.
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Like I’ve started doing Zumba on Sundays. And
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so technically speaking, I only have one active
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recovery day. But more often than not, I do Wednesdays
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and Sundays as my active recovery days. And so
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why is this important, right? Why is it important
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to have an active recovery day? And these are
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the lighter days where… you’re not really going
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as hard as you normally would. So why are they
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important? Well, blood flow and waste removal
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is the big one. When you do light movement like
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walking or gentle yoga, you increase circulation
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without stressing your muscles. And it also delivers
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fresh nutrients and oxygen. to recovering tissues.
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And it’s way more effective than just sitting
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on the couch, because if you’re going to be recovering,
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it doesn’t mean you can’t move. You still can
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move. So when you still are moving, you’re preventing
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stiffness, but you’re not adding strain. So after
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intense workouts, muscles, they can get tight
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and your joints can feel stiff. But gentle movement
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and stretching, that’s what keeps everything
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mobile, and it reduces that locked up feeling.
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But unlike another hard workout, it doesn’t require
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a lot. additional damage that needs repair. So
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the other reason that active recovery days are
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so important to me is the mental recovery, right?
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That’s huge. When you’re training as many days
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a week as I am, it can be mentally draining.
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And this is especially true if it’s intense.
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Like some of the exercises I do, some of the
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classes I attend, they are pretty intense. And
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these active recovery days that I’m doing, they’re
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letting me stay in my routine and keep building
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momentum, but they’re not adding pressure. They’re
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not adding intensity. But it’s a psychological
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break while still doing something positive for
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my body. And the other thing is it keeps my nervous
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system from getting fried. So high intensity
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training, it taxes your central nervous system,
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right? Active recovery days, they give it a break
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while you’re maintaining movement patterns and
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staying active. So when you’re working out as
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much as I am. You got to make sure you add in
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recovery days. But again, they don’t have to
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mean that you’re not moving. So whether you’re
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doing stretching or walking or light yoga or
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something, you’re still doing low impact and
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you’re still promoting mobility, but you’re also
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aiding recovery without adding that significant
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stress. So if you are working out a bunch of
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days, I encourage you to consider adding in active
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recovery as well. Just see how it feels. And
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that’s the tip I’ve got for you today. I hope
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you enjoyed this quick little episode about,
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well, active recovery. And I hope it encourages
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you to start adding active recovery days to your
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workout routine. So with that in mind, onwards
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and upwards, my friends, have you worked out
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today?

Stop Half-Assing Your Fitness – Why All-In Commitment Changes Everything

Stop Half-Assing Your Fitness - Why All-In Commitment Changes Everything

I failed at fitness for 18 months because I half-assed it. Here’s why going all-in is the only way to actually see results.

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I Wasted 18 Months Half-Assing My Fitness. Here’s What Finally Worked.

Back in August 2023, I joined the local Y here in Richmond, Kentucky. The goal was to finally start working out again after several years of inactivity. Like a ridiculous amount of years. A good 12 years.

I decided that whenever I joined, I was going to really, really work out. That was the plan.

Unfortunately, I didn’t commit fully. And that is why I failed so miserably.

The Problem with Half-Commitment

That’s what I want to talk about today. If you’re going to commit, you better go all in. You’ve got to commit for real.

And what I mean by that is this: Don’t half-ass it. Don’t just say “I’m going to start working out.”

When I first joined the gym, I would go occasionally. Maybe once or twice a week if I was lucky. Sometimes I’d go three times in a week and feel like I was absolutely killing it.

But I wasn’t doing enough. And I knew that deep down. I really did. I knew that if I really wanted to make a change, I had to do more. But I just wasn’t ready yet.

What If You’re Never Ready?

The problem is, what if I had never been ready? What if I had never made the decision that “okay, it’s time, I’m going to get serious?”

I think about that sometimes and it scares me.

Because the truth is, just in 150 days, my body has changed so much that it’s kind of breathtaking.

The Transformation Is Real

When I think about the fact that today in my Zumba class I was able to do the jumping jacks… When I think about the fact that I got through the full two classes without completely getting winded…

Yeah, sure, your heart rate goes up and things hurt while you’re moving. But it’s nowhere near the pain I was feeling the same time last year.

I’m driving home right now and I’m seeing all the snow on the ground and just thinking about how last year the very thought of walking through the snow… I was doing everything I could to avoid the gym. If it would snow, I was like “okay, that’s a good excuse. I don’t have to go to the gym today.”

But today when it was snowing, I was like “oh man, I really hope they clear the roads so that I can get out and go to the gym.”

This Feeling? I Want It for You

It’s wild to me thinking about just how much has changed in a year, how much better I feel this Christmas than I did last Christmas.

And I want that for you. I say this in a lot of episodes. I really want that for you. I want you to feel this transformation for yourself because it’s truly life-changing.

I mean, I know that’s such a trope, right? It’s such a thing that everybody says. But when you’re experiencing it, when you’re going through it, when you are feeling the changes that are happening in your body, it just feels so good.

I can’t even believe how excited I was to be in as much pain as I was this morning. To be whimpering about doing leg movements and ball squeezes and lifting my arms with big weights.

It’s such a fun experience knowing that I’m doing this. I’m putting in the work.

Your Challenge

I challenge you today: go all in. If you’re thinking about working out, if you’re thinking about changing your body, if you’re thinking about finally getting physically fit, just go all in.

Commit to it. Don’t half-ass it. Get serious.

You can do this, and I believe in you.

Onwards and upwards, my friends. Have you worked out today?


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Full Transcript of Stop Half-Assing Your Fitness – Why All-In Commitment Changes Everything

00:00:13
Welcome to More Movement Please. I’m famous Ashley
00:00:15
Grant and today I want to talk about the importance
00:00:18
of commitment. So back in August 2023 I joined
00:00:25
the local Y here in Richmond, Kentucky and the
00:00:28
goal was to finally start working out again and
00:00:32
this is after several years of inactivity like
00:00:35
a redonkulous amount of years. I’d say a good
00:00:38
12 years and I decided that, you know, whenever
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I joined, I was going to really, really work
00:00:48
out like that was the plan. Unfortunately, I
00:00:52
didn’t commit fully. And that is why I failed
00:00:55
so miserably. And so that’s kind of what I want
00:00:58
to talk about as the point of today’s episode
00:01:02
is that if you’re going to commit, you better
00:01:05
go all in. You’ve got to commit for real. And
00:01:08
what I mean by that is. Don’t half -ass it. Don’t
00:01:12
just say, I’m going to start working out. Put
00:01:15
more to it than that. You need to say how many
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times you’re going to work out, how regularly
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you’re going to be doing it. You need to start
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thinking about it as a lifestyle change, not
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a challenge. And whenever I did my 100 days of
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fitness, That was one of the things that kept
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coming up is people were like, OK, so once 100
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days is over, you’re going to stop, right? You’re
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going to calm down, right? You’re not going to
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keep going to the gym as much as you are. And
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the thing is, no, that wasn’t the plan. It wasn’t
00:01:44
the plan at all. This wasn’t a challenge I was
00:01:47
doing. Yes, I was challenging myself, but it
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wasn’t a, OK, I’m going to do this. And then
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at the end of 100 days, I’m good. That’s not
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how fitness works. It’s a lifestyle change. And
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so. I had to go all in to mean it. I had to go
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all in to build the habit. I had to go all in
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to finally make the changes that my body was
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needing and to make it an addiction, honestly.
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If I had just done what I have previously done
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in years past and just said, oh, I’m going to
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start working out, that doesn’t put any skin
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in the game. Yeah, sure, I was paying for a gym
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membership, but… The whole point of doing the
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accountability posts and telling people that
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I was really getting serious and constantly updating
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my Instagram feed with whether or not I was working
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out was because I knew that if I didn’t go all
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in, I’d be all out. Because it’s too easy to
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give up. It’s too easy to quit. The thing is,
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when I start thinking back on all the times that
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I… actually did something in my life. It’s
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when I really made the decision. It’s when I
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drew the line in the sand, when I got serious.
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And so that’s what I want to encourage you to
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do. I want you to get serious. If you are considering
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working out and starting a lifestyle change of
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being healthy and getting fit, you can’t half
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-ass it. So go all in. I dare you. See what you’re
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capable of. See what you can handle. I bet you
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if you go all in and you commit, you’ll be surprised
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by just how much you really can do. I know I
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am. I’m really surprised by all I can do. And
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I’m loving every minute of it. I want more. And
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that’s the fun thing about when you start getting
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serious about fitness. It starts to become fun.
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You get these amazing endorphins. And it’s more
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than just endorphins. You feel like you’re accomplishing
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something. You’re watching your body change in
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the mirror. Now, grant you, I’m not going to
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lie. I talked about this recently on my Instagram
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posts. I do have a little bit of body dysmorphia.
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I still see that fatty. I do. I still see the
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fatty. But I’m trying to recognize that, well,
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my pants are fitting better. I’m trying to…
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pay attention to the changes that I can’t necessarily
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see, but that I can feel. And that’s helping
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me. And I don’t know if that will help you or
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not, but it’s definitely helping me to start
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focusing on more on the inches and the pant sizes.
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Because like I said, when I look in the mirror,
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I’m still seeing the fatty, but I’m going to
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keep showing up because now I’m addicted. Now
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it’s a lifestyle change. Now it’s something that
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I am a fitness person. That feels really fun
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to say. And the truth is, previously, I would
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have never said those words. I never would have
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said I was into fitness. I would have said I
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was into, you know, traveling or going out to
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eat or whatever. And those things are still true.
00:04:43
But to be able to also now say I’m into fitness,
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it feels really good. And I want that for everybody.
00:04:52
I want everyone to start committing to more movement
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because when you move your body, it just feels
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better. Yeah, you might feel sore in the moment
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or you might have some soreness after you exercise.
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But it feels so much better than the pain that
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I would feel whenever I’d take a flight of stairs.
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It feels so much better than the pain I would
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feel, the discomfort I would feel getting winded,
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going from the Kroger parking lot to the Kroger
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front door or even walking around the store.
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It’s insane how different I feel. And I want
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that for you, too. So. I challenge you today,
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go all in. If you’re thinking about working out,
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if you’re thinking about changing your body,
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if you’re thinking about finally getting physically
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fit, just go all in. Commit to it. Don’t half
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-ass it. Get serious. You can do this, and I
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believe in you. Onwards and upwards, my friends.
00:05:46
Have you worked out today?

The Night-Before Rule – Why Your Gym Success Starts the Evening Before

The Night-Before Rule - Why Your Gym Success Starts the Evening Before

The slightest inconvenience can derail your workout. Here’s the simple night-before trick that keeps me consistent at the gym.

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Why Your Morning Starts the Night Before (And Why This Changes Everything for Gym-Goers)

I know this sounds like standard advice that everyone gives. But now that I’m actually in the thick of things and going to the gym regularly, I see just how important it is.

The Chaos of Unprepared Mornings

The days I don’t have my clothes ready and my recovery drinks already in the fridge and everything ready to go? Those are the most hectic mornings ever.

And here’s the thing. I’m already motivated. I already want to go to the gym, regardless of whether I have all my things together. But when you’re looking for those reasons to say “oh, I can just wait until next time” or “I’ll just do it another day,” the slightest inconvenience can totally screw you up.

Why This Simple Step Matters So Much

If you’re considering starting to work out and you want to start tomorrow, tonight before you go to bed, make sure all the things you need to work out tomorrow are ready to go.

Put it into your calendar. Plan this date with yourself. This important appointment that you need to keep so you can start taking better care of your health.

It’s not rocket science. But it works.

The Power of Removing Friction

When your workout clothes are laid out, when your water bottle is filled, when your pre-workout snack is ready, when your gym bag is by the door… you remove every little excuse your brain will try to throw at you in the morning.

Those tiny moments of resistance? They add up. They give your tired brain just enough ammunition to talk you out of going.

But when everything is ready? You just get up and go.

Make It Non-Negotiable

Treat your workout like you treat an important meeting. You wouldn’t show up to a work meeting unprepared, would you? Apply that same energy to your commitment to yourself.

Your health deserves the same level of planning and respect you give to everything else in your life.

Hopefully this tip helps someone, and I hope that you will start working out if you haven’t already. I wish you the absolute best.

Onwards and upwards, my friends. Have you worked out today?


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Full Transcript for The Night-Before Rule – Why Your Gym Success Starts the Evening Before

00:00:12
Welcome to More Movement, Please. This is famous
00:00:14
Ashley Grant. And today I want to talk about
00:00:16
the importance of preparing to go to the gym
00:00:19
the night before. Now, I know this is standard
00:00:22
advice that people give all the time. But now
00:00:25
that I’m actually in the thick of things and
00:00:27
going to the gym more regularly, I see just how
00:00:31
important it is. The days that I don’t have my
00:00:34
clothes ready and my recovery drinks already
00:00:38
in the fridge and everything ready to go. are
00:00:41
the most hectic mornings of ever. And I can see
00:00:44
how when someone is trying to get themselves
00:00:48
motivated to go work out, the slightest inconvenience
00:00:52
can just make you throw in the towel and say,
00:00:54
you know what, screw it. I’m not going today.
00:00:56
I’ll go another day. But if you put just a little
00:01:00
bit of planning in, it’s so worth it. And I’m
00:01:04
the type of person that I don’t really like to
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plan ahead. have fought against that as long
00:01:10
as I can remember. But the truth is, I have had
00:01:13
no choice but to start doing that. I plan a lot,
00:01:18
like more than I ever have in my whole life.
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I put every single exercise that I plan to do
00:01:23
for the week into the calendar. And I do my best
00:01:27
the night before to make sure everything I need
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for the gym days is ready to go. For example,
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this morning, It’s been a very hectic morning
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because I could not find the shirt that I wanted
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to wear to the gym because I’ve learned that
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there are certain outfits that I can’t really
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wear anymore without feeling constricted and
00:01:45
having difficulty with my workouts. So it…
00:01:48
light bulb moment, right? As soon as I was looking
00:01:51
for this shirt, I was getting upset with myself,
00:01:53
realizing that I should have already had it ready
00:01:55
to go. And so it just kind of reinforced the
00:01:58
importance of it to me. Now, grant you, the difference
00:02:02
here is I’ve been doing this more than 100 days.
00:02:04
And so I’m already motivated, already wanting
00:02:06
to go to the go to the gym, regardless of whether
00:02:08
or not I had all my things together. But when
00:02:11
you’re looking for those reasons to, oh, I can
00:02:14
just wait until next time, or we’ll just do it
00:02:16
another day. the slightest inconvenience can
00:02:19
totally screw you up. So if you’re considering
00:02:22
starting to work out and you want to start tomorrow,
00:02:24
tonight, before you go to bed, make sure all
00:02:27
the things you need to work out tomorrow are
00:02:29
ready to go. And make sure you put it into your
00:02:32
calendar to plan this date with yourself, this
00:02:35
important appointment that you need to keep so
00:02:37
you can start taking better care of your health.
00:02:39
So hopefully this tip helps someone and I hope
00:02:42
that you will start working out if you haven’t
00:02:43
already. I wish you the absolute best. So onwards
00:02:48
and upwards, my friends. Have you worked out
00:02:49
today?