Why Waiting for New Year’s Is Sabotaging Your Goals

Why Waiting for New Year's Is Sabotaging Your Goals

Stop waiting for January 1st to change your life. The “new year, new me” mindset is sabotaging your goals before you even start.

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The New Year’s Resolution Trap (And What to Do Instead)

New year, new me.

You’ve heard it. You’ve probably said it. I’ve said it. And it’s one of the most damaging phrases in fitness.

The Problem with January 1st

Why do we wait for January 1st to start making changes? What’s magical about that date?

Nothing. Absolutely nothing.

Waiting for the new year is just another form of procrastination. It’s giving yourself permission to keep doing what you’ve been doing for another few weeks or months.

And here’s what happens. January 1st comes. You’re fired up. You make all these big changes at once. You go hard for two weeks. Maybe three. Then you burn out. By February, you’re back to your old habits.

The Fad Diet Trap

Every December and January, my Facebook feed fills up with diet challenges and fitness programs. Thirty days of this. Seventy-five days of that. Challenges, challenges, challenges.

These aren’t bad in themselves. But they train your brain to think of fitness as temporary. Something you do for a set period, then stop.

That’s not how lasting change works.

What Actually Creates Change

Lifestyle changes. Small, consistent adjustments that you can maintain forever.

Not a challenge. Not a diet. Not a temporary fix. A new way of living.

You don’t have to overhaul everything overnight. Start with one small change. Park at the back of the parking lot. Take the stairs. Do squats during commercial breaks. Walk for twenty minutes after work.

These sound too simple to matter. But they add up. And more importantly, they stick.

The Problem with All or Nothing

When you try to change everything at once, the changes feel abrupt. They feel restrictive. They feel like punishment.

Then when you inevitably slip up, you feel like you’ve failed. So you give up completely and go back to your old lifestyle.

And when you go back to your old lifestyle, what happens? You gain the weight back. Sometimes more. And you think, “This fitness thing doesn’t work.”

But it’s not fitness that doesn’t work. It’s the all-or-nothing approach.

Baby Steps Beat Big Leaps

Small steps don’t feel as abrupt. They don’t feel as restrictive. They feel like you’re slowly changing your life rather than forcing a complete overhaul.

Maybe week one, you park farther away from the store. Week two, you add a daily walk. Week three, you start doing bodyweight exercises during TV time.

Each change builds on the last. Each one becomes a habit before you add the next. This is how real transformation happens.

Start Right Now

I don’t care what day it is right now. I don’t care what time it is right now.

If you want to start losing weight, if you want a healthier lifestyle, start right now. Today. This hour.

Don’t wait for January 1st. Don’t wait for Monday. Don’t wait for after the holidays. Don’t wait for any arbitrary date that feels “right.”

Start now. Move your body. Drink water instead of soda. Eat something healthy. Make one small choice that aligns with the person you want to become.

Small Changes, Big Results

Instead of “I’m going to work out every day,” start with “I’m going to move my body for ten minutes today.”

Instead of “I’m cutting out all sugar,” try “I’m going to drink water with this meal instead of soda.”

Instead of “I’m joining a gym and going every day,” begin with “I’m going to take a walk three times this week.”

These changes don’t sound impressive. They don’t make for dramatic before-and-after posts. But they work. They stick. They become who you are.

The Truth About New Year’s Resolutions

Most New Year’s resolutions fail. Not because people don’t want to change. But because they try to change too much too fast with no plan for sustainability.

If you’re serious about changing your life, don’t wait for a special date. Don’t make it a temporary challenge. Make it a permanent lifestyle adjustment.

Action Items

  • Pick one small healthy change you can make today
  • Stop saying “I’ll start on Monday” or “I’ll start January 1st”
  • Focus on building one habit at a time
  • Think lifestyle change, not temporary challenge
  • Remember that the best time to start was yesterday, the second best time is now

Fitness Gifts That Actually Get Used: 17 Expert Recommendations

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I asked folks to share their favorite fitness related product that they think someone should purchase for a fitness enthusiast this holiday season, and why.

Here is what 17 thought leaders had to say.

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Pick Polar Loop for Subscription-Free Data

For a fitness gift, I really like the Polar Loop. It’s a simple band that tracks steps, activity, calories, and sleep, but the big difference for me is that, unlike some other devices like Whoop, you don’t need a monthly subscription to see your own data. You pay once and get long-term use. The Loop gives you a clear picture of how much you actually move in a day. I see it as a very comfortable band, with solid battery life, basic but reliable metrics, and an app that shows if you’re really as active as you think. 

Julio Baute, Medical Doctor, Invigor Medical

Give SoleMate Kit to Build Stronger Feet

The best fitness gift I can recommend this season is the SoleMate Kit from The Foot Collective. Foot strength and mobility get ignored, but they influence everything: how you stand, how you lift, how you walk, and how your body manages force. The SoleMate is simple, effective, and fits right into a daily routine. It helps you wake up the small muscles in your feet and improve balance and control, which most people desperately need.

Heidi from That Barefoot Coach introduced it to me, and it’s been a game-changer in my own training. If you want to give a fitness enthusiast something that actually improves how they move and feel, this is it.

Brian Murray, Founder, Motive Training

Opt for a Compact Massage Gun for Recovery

I suggest a small percussive therapy device to people who want to improve their recovery and performance because it works like a mini massage gun. Our team has observed that consistent recovery practices lead to decreased muscle pain and better long-term commitment to fitness programs among athletes. The compact design of these devices makes them easy to carry, so users can perform recovery sessions anywhere without disrupting their daily routines.

The device works effectively for improving mobility and circulation when athletes and physical therapists use it according to established protocols. It’s best for people to use these tools under the guidance of qualified trainers or clinicians, since proper targeting of muscle groups and attention to injury-prone areas require expertise. Recovery methods that are thoughtfully planned lead to lasting results rather than short-term fixes.

Hans Graubard, COO & Cofounder, Happy V

Capture Workouts and Form with a 360 Camera

A 360-degree sports camera changes how you record your workouts. I’ve seen creators use it to film entire training sessions, so you can check your form and cut cool clips for TikTok or Instagram. If you’re tracking your progress and making content, this thing will probably end up being your most-used gift.

Nick Rogers, CEO, ReelRecall.ai

Upgrade Sleep with Recovery Sleepwear

The fitness-related product I’m most excited to give this holiday season is recovery sleepwear, the kind made from infrared or moisture-regulating material that also works to help your body recover from long days of training.

I found a Tencel sleepwear set while in Japan last year, and not only was I surprised at how cozy it felt, but also at how much deeper my sleep seemed after ultimate strength sessions. People invest in gadgets (trackers, massagers, supplements) and overlook the one thing that actually makes a difference over time: quality recovery. Good sleepwear regulates your temperature and minimizes that “toss and turn” cycle to ensure you wake up without that familiar stiffness in the neck.

Chad Lipka, President | Marketing Director, North Shore Sauna

Gift a Soft Foam Roller for Recovery

One of my favorite fitness related products is the soft foam roller I got from OPTP. You can opt to buy from other brands depending on the kind of fitness activity the individual you’ll be giving it to does, but this particularly works well for me since I use it when I do pilates, warm-ups before running, and yoga. 

I initially thought of suggesting massage gift certificates but I find it can be more convenient in the long run to purchase a foam roller they can use either at home, on the go, or at the gym. Both provide the same benefits of aiding in muscle recovery and improving blood circulation. With a foam roller though, you can create your own kind of muscle care, like how I would typically target my lower body after a high intensity workout or use it to massage my calves for a better running performance.

Mimi Nguyen, Founder, Cafely

Boost Skill and Content with 360 Sports Camera

If you’re into fitness and making content, the 360 sports camera is your best tool. My work at Magic Hour showed me how capturing a move from every angle helps athletes spot small details they’d otherwise miss. It also lets you create videos that get your community excited and wanting to join in. It’s not just about improving your skills, it’s about sharing the full picture.

Runbo Li, CEO, Magic Hour

Go with Fitbit Charge 6 for Health Insight

I gave a client the Fitbit Charge 6 over the holidays, and it got them thinking differently about their health. The EDA sensor doesn’t just count steps, it shows how your body reacts to stress. That one feature started some new habits for them. It’s sleek enough for everyday wear, not some bulky sports watch. If you’re looking for something that handles both fitness and stress, this one actually does the job.

Josiah Lipsmeyer, Founder, Plasthetix Plastic Surgery Marketing

Give an Osprey Backpack for Outdoor Fitness

I don’t want to be too on the nose here, but honestly, an Osprey backpack is the ultimate gift for any fitness lover who enjoys the outdoors too. Whether their favorite activity is hiking, trail running, or a weekend spent out in nature, a properly fitted backpack will make the entire experience a world of difference for them. It will distribute the weight evenly in their backpack and will make it easier for them to stay hydrated and prepared while out in the wild. 

If the outdoors and staying active are important to the recipient and you’re looking for a gift to help them in those regards, a quality backpack that will last them a lifetime is a great choice that a ton of people tend to forget about when focusing solely on gym equipment.

Rob BonDurant, VP of Marketing, Osprey

Equip Hikers with a Reliable Hydration Pack

I run a campsite by the GR 34 trail, and I see it constantly. Our guests with hydration packs have a much better time hiking the Breton coastline. They can pull out their camera for a photo without stopping to dig for a water bottle. It just keeps the day flowing. If you’re looking for a gift for a hiker, this is one of those things they’ll actually use every single time.

Yann Duschenay, Manager, Camping Les Saules

Make Apple Watch Ultra Your Fitness Companion

I’ve tested tech for years and the Apple Watch Ultra is the one I’d actually buy for myself. It tracks my heart rate and sleep, plus I can see texts without pulling out my phone. The setup was a bit of a headache, but now it works so well with my iPhone that I don’t even take my phone on runs anymore. If you want to get serious about fitness without going off the grid, this is the watch to get.

Branden Shortt, Founder & Consumer Advocate, Cellphones.ca

Trust Garmin Watches for Workouts and Privacy

A Garmin fitness watch is my top pick for a holiday gift. I use Garmin wearables and find their health insights valuable for tracking training and recovery. I also feel confident in their data handling as a regulated company, which matters when you wear it every day.

Andrei Blaj, Co-founder, Medicai

Spark a Stretch Habit with a Quality Mat

If you’re looking for a gift for someone into fitness, just get them a good yoga mat. I’ve seen it happen so many times, someone gets a new mat and suddenly they’re actually doing morning stretches at home. It really helps them unwind. I work in mental health so I see this stuff all the time. Just find one that’s comfy and your feet won’t slip on. That simple tool does more than just stretch you out.

Amy Mosset, CEO, Interactive Counselling

Transform Your Runs with Garmin Forerunner

My favorite fitness gift for any runner is a Garmin Forerunner. It’s the one tool that actually changed how I train. The GPS accuracy, heart-rate tracking, and recovery insights make every run more intentional, not just “go out and hope it felt good.” When I travel or switch routes, the Forerunner keeps my pacing honest and helps me stay consistent even on low-motivation days.

As a NASM Certified Nutrition Coach and ISSA Nutritionist, I love gear that supports long-term habits, and this does exactly that. It gives runners real feedback: mileage, cadence, intensity zones all without overwhelming them. Plus, the battery life blows most smartwatches away, so you’re not charging before every run.

Talib Ahmad, NASM Certified Nutrition Coach (CNC), Same Day Supplements

Gift an Insulated Bottle to Boost Hydration

At Equipoise Coffee, we see wellness as a key part of our community’s lifestyle, complementing the energy and focus our coffee provides. One of our favorite fitness-related products to give this holiday season is a durable, insulated water bottle with tracking markers for daily hydration goals. Staying properly hydrated supports energy, recovery, and overall performance, which is essential for anyone maintaining a fitness routine. 

For fitness enthusiasts, having a high-quality, portable water bottle encourages consistency and mindfulness throughout workouts, at the gym, or on the go. At Equipoise Coffee, we often pair hydration with mindful breaks for coffee or tea, reinforcing that energy and wellness go hand in hand. Gifting a tool that promotes healthy habits aligns with our philosophy of supporting a balanced lifestyle and shows thoughtfulness by helping recipients maintain both fitness and daily wellness routines.

Rory Keel, Owner, Equipoise Coffee

Start a Home Gym with Quality Resistance Bands

I rent resistance bands to schools and homes, and I can tell you, the good ones are a game changer. They’re what people use when they can’t get to the gym. We’ve had multiple customers tell us their home gym started with a sturdy set of bands and that’s all they’ve stuck with. You can use them anywhere and get a full-body workout. They’re a great starting point for anyone serious about working out at home.

Paul Healey, Managing Director, Hire Fitness

Keep Workouts Consistent with Adjustable Dumbbells

My top pick is a set of adjustable dumbbells like the Bowflex SelectTechs. Consistency usually breaks down when schedules tighten and the gym feels like a trek. But these weights instead bring an entire dumbbell rack into your home or office while occupying almost zero floor space. You get a full range of resistance without cluttering your living space, making it easy to get some quick reps in between calls or other tasks. They ensure that even if you can’t get to the gym, you’ll never miss at least a small workout.

Dan McElwee, Head of Retail, Tress Wellness

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Why Most New Year Fitness Goals Fail by February (and How to Make Yours Stick)

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Get fit in 2026 with expert tips from personal trainers, nutritionists, and doctors. Simple, practical advice for lasting results.

13 Tips to Get Fit in the New Year from Personal Trainers, Nutritionists, Nurses, Doctors, and Fitness Enthusiasts

New year, new you?

Hold on.

Before you sign up for that expensive gym membership or commit to a diet you’ll hate in two weeks, let’s talk strategy.

I asked 13 fitness professionals (personal trainers, nutritionists, doctors, and coaches) for their number one tip to help people actually get fit and stay that way. 

No gimmicks. No quick fixes. Just real advice from people who help others succeed every single day. What they shared might surprise you.

Spoiler alert: it’s not about going harder or faster. It’s about going smarter.

Here is what 13 thought leaders had to say.

But first! Don’t forget to check out my interview series with my fitness instructor Rhonda Goode! She’s got some amazing tips that will help you all year long:

Choose Consistency Over Intensity; Progress Gradually

Don’t go obsessively “all in” and go from “zero to hero”, sudden massive increases in stress on the body from training on the body can lead to burnout & increased risk of injury. Too many people start the new year with great intentions but are fatigued or injured 4-6 weeks in causing them to quickly relapse back to where they were before they started. Instead, focus on what you can sustain in the long term, gradually adding a little bit more after the body has adapted to a period of sustained effort at lower volumes. Consistency always beats Intensity.

Richard Bennett, Strength & Conditioning Coach / Personal Trainer, Calibre Performance Coaching

Set Specific, Time-Bound Goals for Success

Just like any other goal: unless it’s specific and time-bound, it won’t work. So, instead of saying “I’ll lose weight in 2026”, say “I’ll lose 20 pounds by March 1, 2026 using this combination of workout and diet”. The more specific you are, the easier it is to stick to your promises to yourself.

Daniel Kroytor, CEO, TailoredPay

Start with One Easy Daily Habit

The most effective advice I give to those looking to be healthier in the New Year is to commit to developing one small, easily manageable daily routine that will require minimal effort to develop into a consistent habit as opposed to making drastic changes to their entire lifestyle at once. Most people do have the motivation to begin a fitness regimen; however, they usually fail because the amount of change required to achieve their desired level of fitness is overwhelming for most people to adopt immediately.

A small number of consistent habits produce significantly less resistance to adopting and are therefore more likely to become an established part of your daily routine. When you elect to begin with something extremely easy—such as a 15-20 minute walk each day, or eating one additional meal that is well-balanced, or completing a quick mobility routine—you will find that this has become such an integral part of your day-to-day activities, that it will feel unnatural to stop (as opposed to a chore). 

Over time, establishing this one habit will become second nature to you, and the positive effects of developing this habit will compound. Establishing a strong base of one or two small, healthy habits will create a springboard for you to establish a larger number of healthy habits as needed without feeling overwhelmed. Fitness is not developed by working out perfectly or being on a restrictive diet; it is developed by consistently performing healthy habits within your own realm of reality.

Blen Tesfu, MD, Welzo

Hire a Coach to Beat Willpower Limits

I was a state champion quarterback, and back then I learned something that still shapes how I train today. I don’t rely on my own willpower anymore. Willpower’s like a battery that drains throughout the day as I make decisions for my real estate agency and radio show. By the time I need to train, that battery’s often empty.

So I hired a coach to call the plays. I refuse to think about the workout structure or intensity. I just show up and execute the plan. This removes the internal negotiation where I might talk myself out of a hard set.

Even though I lead a large team in business, I perform better physically when I answer to someone else. It turns fitness into a mandatory appointment rather than an optional task. If you have the means, there is no more reliable way to actually get in shape fast.

Brandon Rimes, Radio Host, Consumer Quarterback Show

Plan Daily Actions and Schedule Workouts

My #1 tip for people who want to improve their fitness in the new year is to spend some time deciding what they want their goal for their fitness to be, but don’t stop there and just hope for the best. 

In order to increase the chances of being successful with reaching a goal, we need to break it down into specific daily actions we can take to help us reach that goal step by step and plan out how we’ll fit those new daily actions or habits into our lives. 

For example, it isn’t enough to set a goal or new years resolution to exercise for 30 minutes per day, we need to get more specific. I recommend planning out not just what, but when we’ll fit in those workouts, and think through other adjustments we might need to make to our lives in order to be consistent. This might be going to bed early, blocking off lunch hour, or taking care of other obligations at different times of day so they don’t interfere with our exercise time. 

Stephanie Hnatiuk RD, Registered Dietitian, Certified Running Coach, Stephanie Hnatiuk Performance Nutrition

Track Steps and Sleep for Small Wins

If you want to get fit this year, try this. I started tracking my steps and sleep, and suddenly I could see what was actually holding me back. Tracking little things lets you see you’re making progress, which keeps you going better than staring at some huge goal. It’s about the small wins, not some big overhaul.

Max Marchione, Co-Founder, Superpower

Personalize Your Plan Around Health and Budget

My top tip is to build a fitness plan that is truly personal: consider your past medical history, current medications, and what you can realistically do each week. Make it practical by using household items for strength work and saving on fresh fruits and vegetables with coupons. This keeps your routine workable and aligned with your health needs.

Sirisha Vadali, Cardiologist/ Physician, Sirisha Vadali MD

Choose Self-Compassion and Celebrate Small Wins

The pressure to be perfect when you start something new is what makes people quit. I see it all the time. What works instead is being kind to yourself. Did you manage to do that one small thing? That’s a win. Real change takes time, so moving at your own pace isn’t just okay, it’s the whole point.

Amy Mosset, CEO, Interactive Counselling

Pick Enjoyable Activities and Build Up Slowly

You asked for one main tip for people who want to get fit in the new year, and for me it all comes back to being kind to yourself.

This one tip includes a few key ideas that all relate to long term success:

1. Pick an activity or sport that you actually like. If you do not enjoy the gym, there is no need to force it just because it feels popular. If you prefer walking, do that. If you enjoy running, do that. When you choose something you genuinely like, you are far more likely to stick with it.

2. Accept that it might feel hard or overwhelming at the start. If you have only been to the gym once in the past year, jumping straight to six sessions a week will be too much. Go two or three times and build up slowly. Something is always better than nothing.

3. Third, if you are adjusting your diet, try not to overly restrict your food. If you cut your calories too low or remove all the foods you enjoy in the hope that it will speed up your progress, you will only make the process harder and less enjoyable.

Taken together, these points all fit under the idea of being kind to yourself. When you avoid extremes, build up gradually, and choose things you genuinely enjoy, you give yourself the best chance of creating habits that last beyond January.

Simon Graham, Specialist Personal Trainer, Nutritionist & Coach, simongPT.co.uk

Work Out at Home for Consistency

Start with something you actually like doing at home. At Hire Fitness, we saw that people with a treadmill or exercise bike at home stuck with it way more than those who relied on a gym. When your equipment is just down the hall, it’s so much easier to squeeze in a workout on a busy day.

Paul Healey, Managing Director, Hire Fitness

Ditch Grand Goals; Stack Small Daily Wins

Here’s my advice: forget those huge, overwhelming goals. They just don’t work. Focus on something small instead, like walking every day or just prepping one healthy meal. I’ve seen people who track these little wins actually stick with their new habits. It’s the small stuff, piled up over time, that makes the real changes happen.

Dr. Tomer Avraham, Board-Certified Plastic Surgeon, Avraham Plastic Surgery

Record Meals and Review Weekly for Honesty

My suggestion for getting fit in the new year is simple, efficient: Record what you eat, and then review it weekly. Not to judge yourself, but to notice. I have been doing this for a few years now, and what has been most startling is not how much I eat, but how often I eat without realizing it. The act of writing something down, or logging it some way, makes you honest; and honesty is where real change begins.

Chad Lipka, President | Marketing Director, North Shore Sauna

Skip the Wagon; Start Ridiculously Small for Consistency

There’s a passage in Stephen King’s The Shining where Jack Torrance, fighting his demons, describes sobriety as climbing aboard “the Wagon.” At first, it looks magnificent from the gutter spotless draped in bunting, pulled by brass bands and majorettes.

“You’re away from all the people who throw you nasty looks and tell you to clean up your act or go put it on in another town. From the gutter, that’s the finest-looking Wagon you ever saw, Lloyd my boy. “

But the deeper idea is that you are now part of a community that deems you “worthy” of their time. But once you’re on the wagon you see it is made up of : bare pine boards that give you splinters, hard pews instead of seats, and blank faces singing the praises of the wagon while someone demands you sing louder. Jack realizes the Wagon isn’t freedom, it’s a church with bars on the windows, and a prison for you.

This is exactly what happens every January with fitness. 

People see the fitness wagon rolling by. The parade of exercise programs and gym specials. Influencers at the head of the parade handing out the supplements and insisting you climb on up and sing the songs  of “no days off” and “no excuses,” demanding you push harder, restrict more, suffer better. 

What looks like freedom becomes its own kind of prison, and by February, most have jumped, fallen, or been kicked off and landed right back where we started.

The Alternative? Start so small that you feel ridiculous. You want to add cardio to your life? Put on your jam dance to it.  3:48 seconds of your day just became cardio. Nothing big, nothing planned. After that week, maybe add a second song. In your pajamas if you want.  

Don’t think it’s enough? Not enough for what? Who decided what “enough” is? The fitness industry? The people selling you programs and supplements? The wagon that thinks transformation requires suffering and wants your sweet sweet money?

The Wagon promises redemption through suffering if you’re not pushing yourself to the limit, you’re not really trying. It makes fitness into a moral issue. You’re either on the Wagon singing with the righteous, or you’re in the gutter with the failures.  But research is clear: consistency beats intensity every single time. Have a good time with low investment, you will keep doing it. While the person who treats it like an all or nothing punishment will eventually stop punishing themselves.   

King, Stephen. The Shining. Doubleday, 1977.

Christopher Yeoman, Owner/ Operator, MyoBio Fitness

Your Fitness Plan Starts Right Now (Yes, Really)

Here’s the truth that all 13 experts agree on: getting fit doesn’t require suffering, perfection, or a complete life overhaul. It requires showing up consistently with something you can actually sustain.

Start small. Like, embarrassingly small. One song. One walk. One healthy meal. Track it. Schedule it. Find something you genuinely enjoy, not something that looks good on Instagram.

Hire a coach if you can afford it. Work out at home if that’s easier. Be kind to yourself when you miss a day. The people who succeed aren’t the ones who go all-in on January 1st and burn out by February. They’re the ones who pick one tiny habit and stick with it until it becomes automatic.

You don’t need to climb aboard some perfect fitness wagon. You just need to take the first step. Then another. Then another. 

What will your first small win be?

How to Get Fit Without Spending a Dime

How to Get Fit Without Spending a Dime

Think you can’t afford to get fit? Wrong. Here’s how to start working out without spending a single dollar on equipment or memberships.

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The “I Can’t Afford a Gym” Excuse Stops Today

Let’s talk about money. Specifically, the myth that you need a lot of it to get fit.

Gym memberships, boutique fitness classes, personal trainers, fancy equipment, CrossFit. Sure, these things can help. But are they necessary?

Absolutely not.

The Fitness Industry’s Big Lie

The fitness industry wants you to believe you need all the things. The memberships. The gear. The supplements. The special shoes. The tracking devices.

They make money when you think fitness is complicated and expensive. When you believe you can’t do it without their products.

But here’s the truth. Some of the fittest, healthiest people I know don’t have gym memberships. They move their bodies consistently using free and low-cost methods.

What You Actually Need

You need consistency. You need effort. You need the willingness to move your body.

That’s it. Everything else is optional.

You don’t need a gym to do squats. You don’t need equipment to do push-ups. You don’t need a mat to stretch. You can do all of these things in your living room, bedroom, or backyard.

Free Workouts Are Everywhere

YouTube has thousands of free workout videos. Walking is free. Running is free. Bodyweight exercises are free. Dancing in your living room is free.

I’ll leave links in the show notes to free workout resources. Full workout plans that cost zero dollars.

Parks often have outdoor fitness equipment. Some communities have free fitness classes. Libraries sometimes offer fitness DVDs you can borrow.

The resources are out there if you look for them.

Low-Cost Investments That Help

If you do have a small budget, here’s where I’d spend it.

A yoga mat runs ten to twenty dollars. It makes floor exercises more comfortable. You can also use a towel if you don’t want to buy one.

Resistance bands cost ten to fifteen dollars. They’re versatile and great for strength training. You can do dozens of exercises with one set of bands.

A jump rope costs less than ten bucks. Great for cardio. Not my personal favorite, but lots of people love them.

Good sneakers are worth the investment if you can afford them. They protect your feet and joints. But even these are optional. I’ve seen people work out barefoot.

Your Body Is the Best Equipment

Bodyweight exercises build real strength. Push-ups, squats, lunges, planks, burpees. You can create an incredible workout with nothing but your own body weight.

Start with the basics. Ten squats. Five push-ups. Hold a plank for twenty seconds. Work your way up from there.

No gym membership required. No fancy equipment needed. Just you and gravity.

Find Free Accountability

You don’t need to pay for a trainer to stay accountable. Find a friend who wants to get fit too. Text each other after workouts. Celebrate each other’s wins.

Join free online communities. Post about your workouts on social media if that motivates you. There are countless free Facebook groups and Reddit communities dedicated to fitness.

Accountability doesn’t have to cost money.

The Walking Solution

Walking is free. It’s simple. It’s incredibly effective.

You don’t need special gear. You don’t need to go anywhere specific. Just step outside and move.

Walking burns calories. It’s easy on your joints. It clears your mind. It’s something you can do for the rest of your life.

Some people act like walking doesn’t count as real exercise. Those people are wrong.

Stop Using Money as an Excuse

I hear it all the time. “I can’t afford to work out.”

Yes, you can. You absolutely can.

Movement doesn’t require money. It requires commitment. And commitment is free.

The next time you think you can’t afford to work out, remember this episode. Remember that you have everything you need right now to start moving your body.

Action Items

  • Do a free YouTube workout this week
  • Take a 20-minute walk every day for a week
  • Learn five bodyweight exercises and create a simple routine
  • Find one free fitness community to join online
  • Stop letting money be an excuse

How to Keep Showing Up: Avoiding Gym Burnout While Staying Consistent

How to Keep Showing Up: Avoiding Gym Burnout While Staying Consistent

Feeling burnt out from working out? Your body is trying to tell you something. Here’s how to listen and what to do about it.

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Why Your Workouts Feel Harder Than They Should (And How to Fix It)

Burnout is real. And it sneaks up on you when you’re not paying attention.

I’ve been working out consistently for months now. Most days I feel great. But lately, I’ve noticed something. Some workouts feel harder than they should. My energy is off. I’m dragging myself to the gym when it used to excite me.

This is your body talking. You need to listen.

The Signs of Burnout

Burnout doesn’t announce itself with a big dramatic moment. It shows up in small ways that are easy to ignore.

You’re more tired than usual. Your muscles feel heavy. Workouts that used to feel manageable now feel impossible. You start dreading exercise instead of looking forward to it.

Maybe you’re getting sick more often. Maybe you’re sleeping worse. Maybe you’re just cranky all the time.

These are signals. Your body is waving red flags, hoping you’ll notice.

Why Rest Matters

Here’s what I’ve learned. Rest isn’t weakness. It’s not giving up. It’s not an excuse.

Rest is part of the process. Your muscles don’t grow during workouts. They grow during recovery. If you never give them time to recover, you’re spinning your wheels.

I used to think rest days meant doing nothing. Lying on the couch. Being lazy.

That’s not what I’m talking about. I’m talking about active recovery. Gentle movement that keeps your body mobile without adding stress.

Active Recovery Done Right

On my recovery days, I walk. I stretch. Sometimes I do gentle yoga. The key is keeping the intensity low.

This isn’t about pushing through. This isn’t about getting your heart rate up. This is about moving in a way that helps your body heal.

Walking is underrated. It gets blood flowing to your muscles without beating them up. Stretching feels amazing when you’ve been working hard. Yoga connects your mind and body in ways that regular workouts don’t.

Mix It Up

Doing the same workout every single day will burn you out fast. Your body adapts. Your mind gets bored. You hit a wall.

I rotate between Zumba, Tabata, strength training, and recovery days. Some days are high intensity. Some days are low impact. The variety keeps things interesting and gives different muscle groups time to recover.

Find Your Joy Again

Burnout happens when exercise becomes a chore. When you forget why you started. When movement stops being something you want to do and becomes something you have to do.

If that’s where you are, it’s time to shake things up.

Try a new class. Work out with a friend. Change your music playlist. Go outside instead of staying in the gym. Do something that makes you smile while you’re moving.

Movement should feel good. Not every second of every workout, but overall. If it doesn’t, something needs to change.

Check In With Yourself

Ask yourself these questions regularly:

Am I looking forward to my workouts or dreading them? Am I recovering between sessions or always sore? Am I sleeping well? Am I enjoying this process?

If the answers worry you, adjust. Take an extra rest day. Lower the intensity. Try something completely different.

The Long Game

Fitness isn’t a sprint. It’s not even a marathon. It’s the rest of your life.

You don’t need to go hard every single day. You need to find a rhythm that you can sustain. That means listening when your body asks for rest. That means being okay with backing off sometimes.

The goal is to still be moving ten years from now. Twenty years from now. That doesn’t happen if you burn out in six months because you refused to rest.

Action Items

  • Schedule at least one active recovery day per week
  • Notice how you feel before, during, and after workouts
  • Try a completely different type of movement this week
  • Give yourself permission to take a real rest day when needed
  • Remember that rest is part of training, not a break from it

150 Days In – From Avoiding Stairs to Crushing Zumba

150 Days In - From Avoiding Stairs to Crushing Zumba

From winded walking up stairs to crushing multiple workouts a day. What 150 days of consistent movement actually looks like.

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I Avoided Stairs a Year Ago. Here’s What Changed in 150 Days

I hit 150 days of serious fitness training, and I didn’t even realize it until I looked at my calendar. That’s wild to me.

Where I Started

This time last year, I was avoiding stairs. Walking from the back of the parking lot to the store entrance would leave me winded. I knew I needed to change, but I wasn’t doing enough about it.

Sure, I’d go to the gym sometimes. I’d take walks with my husband. But I wasn’t consistent. I wasn’t committed. And deep down, I knew it.

The Wake-Up Call

What if I had never gotten serious? What if I’d kept making excuses and putting it off?

I don’t want to think about that version of my life. The version where I kept struggling with basic physical tasks. Where my health kept declining. Where I stayed stuck.

What 150 Days Changed

I can walk up stairs now without getting winded. I can do multiple fitness classes in one day. I’m using 15-pound dumbbells when I used to struggle with 5-pound weights.

My back doesn’t hurt when I get out of bed. I carry groceries without thinking twice about it. I stand differently. I feel stronger.

These aren’t small things. They’re everything.

The Mental Shift

The physical changes are obvious. But the mental ones matter just as much.

I don’t dread movement anymore. I look forward to my workouts. I feel proud of myself for showing up, even on the hard days. Especially on the hard days.

There’s this quote from Aristotle that sticks with me: “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is not an act, but a habit.”

That’s what these 150 days taught me. It’s not about having one perfect workout. It’s about showing up over and over until it becomes who you are.

What Actually Works

Mix up your workouts. Your muscles need variety, and so does your mind. Don’t do the same thing every day or you’ll burn out.

Find your people. Whether it’s a class, a workout buddy, or an online group, having support matters. On the days you don’t feel like going, knowing someone’s expecting you makes a difference.

Listen to your body. Rest when you need to. Use lighter weights when you need to. Fuel properly. Hydrate constantly.

Remember why you started. For me, it’s about moving my body every day in some way. Even on rest days, I do something. Walking, stretching, gentle movement. It counts.

Progress Over Perfection

Some days you’ll crush your workout. Other days you’ll barely get through it. Both count. Both matter. Just showing up is a win.

The Real Transformation

Fitness isn’t just about looking different or hitting certain numbers. It’s about feeling capable in your own body. It’s about not having to avoid activities because you’re worried you can’t handle them.

It’s about living your life fully instead of being limited by what your body can’t do.

Action Items

  • Pick three different types of workouts to rotate through
  • Find at least one person to share your fitness goals with
  • Write down why you’re starting (or restarting) this
  • Celebrate small wins along the way
  • Remember that rest days are part of the process

Make That Ass Hydrate – Are You Drinking Enough Water?

Stop making your workouts harder than they need to be. This simple hydration fix will change how you feel during and after exercise.

Stop making your workouts harder than they need to be. This simple hydration fix will change how you feel during and after exercise.

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The One Thing You’re Ignoring That’s Sabotaging Your Workouts

Water. It sounds simple, doesn’t it? Yet it’s one of the most important things you can do for your workouts. I’m talking about H2O, that thing you probably aren’t drinking enough of right now.

Why Water Matters When You’re Moving

When you work out, you sweat. Your body loses fluids. If you don’t replace them, you’re setting yourself up for problems. We’re talking fatigue, cramps, dizziness, and workouts that feel way harder than they need to be.

I learned this the hard way. There were days I’d show up to class feeling sluggish, wondering why I couldn’t push through. Turns out I was dehydrated before I even started.

How Much Water Do You Actually Need?

The old “eight glasses a day” rule is a starting point. But if you’re working out, you need more. A lot more.

Think about it this way. If you’re sweating for an hour, you need to replace that fluid. Before your workout, during, and after. Make it a habit.

I keep a water bottle with me all the time now. It’s not fancy. It doesn’t have motivational quotes on it. It just holds water, and I drink from it constantly.

Signs You’re Not Drinking Enough

Your body will tell you when you need water. Listen to it.

Dark urine? You need more water. Headache after a workout? Water. Feeling exhausted when you shouldn’t be? Probably water.

The crazy thing is, by the time you feel thirsty, you’re already dehydrated. Don’t wait until you’re desperate.

Make It Easy on Yourself

Keep water where you can see it. In your car. On your desk. Next to your bed. The easier it is to grab, the more you’ll drink.

Some people like adding flavor to their water. Lemon, cucumber, whatever works. I’m a plain water person, but you do you. The point is to drink it.

Water and Weight Loss

Here’s something interesting. Drinking water before meals can help you eat less. Your body sometimes confuses thirst for hunger. When you think you want a snack, try drinking a full glass of water first. Wait ten minutes. You might be surprised.

I’m not saying water is some magic solution for weight loss. It’s not. But it helps. Your body works better when it’s hydrated. Period.

The Bottom Line

You can have the perfect workout plan, the best gym equipment, and all the motivation in the world. But if you’re not drinking enough water, you’re making everything harder than it needs to be.

Start today. Grab your water bottle. Fill it up. Drink it. Repeat.

Action Items

  • Get a water bottle you actually like using
  • Drink a full glass of water as soon as you wake up
  • Keep water with you during workouts
  • Check your urine color (yes, really)
  • Drink water before you feel thirsty

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Full Transcript – Make That Ass Hydrate – Are You Drinking Enough Water?

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What’s up, you guys? Welcome to More Movement,
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Please. I’m famous Ashley Grant, and this is
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the podcast that inspires you to move your body
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more. So today we’re talking about something
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that sounds super basic, but it’s critical for
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your workouts, and it’s water. Yep. Good old
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H2O. And I know, I know what you’re probably
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thinking. Really? We’re dedicating a whole episode
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to drinking water? But stick with me here because
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I promise you, a lot of us are getting this wrong,
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and it could be sabotaging your workouts without
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you even realizing it. So let’s dive in. And
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pun was absolutely intended here. So here’s the
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deal. Your body is basically a fancy meat sack
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that’s filled with about 60 % of water. Your
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muscles, they’re about 75 % water. So when you’re
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working out and you’re sweating like you’re in
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a sauna competition, you’re losing the very thing
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that your muscles need to function. It’s kind
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of like you’re trying to run a car without oil.
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Technically, sure, it’s possible for a little
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bit. But is it smart? Absolutely not. And here’s
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where things get really wild, right? You don’t
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even have to be dripping in sweat to be dehydrated.
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By the time you actually feel thirsty, you’re
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already about 2 % dehydrated. And at just 2 %
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dehydration, research shows that your performance
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can drop by around 10%. 10 %! And according to
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the American College of Sports Medicine, this
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effect is even worse when you’re exercising in
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the heat. That’s the difference between crushing
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your personal record and feeling like you’re
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moving through peanut butter. So how do you know
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if you’re dehydrated during a workout? Well,
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let me paint you a picture. Maybe you’re feeling
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sluggish or a little dizzy, or your heart’s racing
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faster than usual for the effort that you’re
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putting in. You might even have a headache creeping
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in. Or your mouth feels like the Sahara Desert.
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And here’s a fun one. You stop sweating, even
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though you’re going as hard as you normally do.
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And that’s not because you suddenly became superhuman.
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That’s actually your body waving a red flag.
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Oh, and that muscle cramp that just won’t quit?
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Yep. Dehydration could be the culprit there too.
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So what do we do about this? And the solution
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is so freaking simple, but the execution is what
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takes a little planning. So let’s give you a
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hydration game plan that’s backed by experts.
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First up is pre -hydration. Start your workout
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already hydrated. And I got to tell you guys,
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I’m so bad at this. This is so hard for me. But
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according to the National Athletic Trainers Association,
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you should be drinking about 17 to 20 ounces
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of water. or a sports drink two or three hours
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before you start to exercise. Then you want to
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knock it back to 7 to 10 ounces about 10 to 20
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minutes before you start. It’s kind of like you’re
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putting gas in your tank before a road trip.
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And then during your workout, the American College
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of Sports Medicine recommends drinking at a rate
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of about 400 to 800 milliliters per hour during
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exercise. Now, I get it. That probably sounds
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like a lot of math for someone who’s just trying
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to get their squats in. So here’s the simple
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version. Just take a few sips every time you
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transition between exercise or during your rest
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periods. Just make it part of your routine. So
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aim for about 7 to 10 ounces every 10 to 20 minutes
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if you can. Now, if you’re going longer than
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an hour or if you’re doing something really intense,
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you might want to bring in electrolytes as well.
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This is where we’re talking about sports drinks
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or even those electrolyte tablets or powders.
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When you sweat, you’re not just losing water,
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you’re losing sodium, potassium. and other minerals
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that your body needs. The research shows that
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for exercises that are lasting more than an hour,
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adding carbohydrates and electrolytes to your
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drink can actually enhance your performance.
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But for shorter workouts, water is totally fine.
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Don’t let that sports drink industry convince
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you that you need that neon -colored beverage
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for your 30 -minute jog or 30 -minute workout.
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But I will tell you this. If you’re going to
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get a sports drink or an electrolyte drink, I
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highly recommend the Gatorade. organic strawberry
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flavor. Oh my goodness. My instructor turned
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me on to this. It is so good. I’ll leave a link
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in the show notes. So what do you do after your
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workout? Well, this is your recovery time, baby.
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According to Sports Nutrition Research, you need
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to drink about 150 % of the fluid that you lost
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during your exercise in order to fully rehydrate
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your body. So what does this mean? Practically
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speaking, it means chugging about 20 to 24 ounces
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of water for every pound you lost during your
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workout. And I can probably hear you asking,
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how do I know how much I lost? Well, you could
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weigh yourself before and after your workout,
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but honestly, just drink when you’re thirsty
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and keep an eye on your pee. Yep, I totally went
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there. This brings us to the next point. Your
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urine, I’m sorry, your urine is like a hydration
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report card. And the National Athletic Trainers
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Association actually recommends this as one of
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the best ways to check your hydration status.
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Now, it’s going to get gross, so if you want
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to skip it, I totally understand, but we’re being
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honest here, right? Full transparency. When it’s
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pale yellow or clear, that means you’re crushing
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it. But if it’s dark yellow, girl, you better
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start drinking up. And if it’s the color of apple
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juice, well, you’re definitely behind on your
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water intake. This is the easiest and most reliable
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way to check your hydration status, and it requires
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zero special equipment or math. So let’s take
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a quick moment to bust some myths. But I heard
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you can drink too much water. Well, yeah, that’s
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true. It’s a real thing where you dilate your
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sodium levels by drinking excessive amounts of
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water without replacing electrolytes. Research
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from endurance events shows that this happens
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when people drink more than about 700 to 800
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milliliters per hour and actually gain weight
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during exercise. But this is really only a concern
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for endurance athletes doing ultra marathons
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or Ironman competitions. Your average gym session
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or run. you’re probably not going to accidentally
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drink too much water. So don’t use this as your
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excuse to skip hydration. And here’s another
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myth. Coffee and tea dehydrate you. Okay, look,
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caffeine does have a mild diuretic effect. The
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water in your coffee or your tea, well, it more
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than makes up for it. So your morning coffee
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counts toward your hydration. You’re welcome.
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And here’s the thing that nobody’s really talking
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about enough. Proper hydration, it’s not just
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about performance. It’s about safety. Severe
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dehydration can lead to heat exhaustion, heat
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stroke, all kinds of awful things. And this is
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especially true if you’re working out in hot
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conditions. Your body, it regulates your temperature
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through sweating. And if you don’t have enough
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liquid to sweat, things can go south fast. Plus,
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when you’re properly hydrated, your workouts
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are just going to feel better. You’re going to
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notice that you have more energy, better focus,
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and you’ll recover faster. And research consistently
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shows that even mild dehydration, I’m seriously
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talking just 2 % of your body weight, it can
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really start to mess with your endurance, your
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strength, and your overall performance. It’s
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literally the easiest performance enhancer available.
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And if you get it from, you know, your tap, it’s
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technically free. And most gyms are going to
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have water fountains too. So don’t give me the
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excuse that you can’t get water. So here’s what
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I want you to do after this episode. Get yourself
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a water bottle you actually like. And yes, I’m
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serious. It doesn’t have to be cute. It doesn’t
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have to be motivational. But I want you to be
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excited about the water bottle that you have
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so that you will actually use it and keep it
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with you during your workouts. For me, I actually
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keep one that’s black and pink because anybody
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who knows me knows that I’m obsessed with the
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K -pop group Blackpink. So that’s why I have
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blackpink as my colors. Set reminders on your
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phone if you need to. Make drinking water as
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much a part of your workout routine as your warm
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-up and your cool -down. And keep in mind that
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hydration starts way before you lace up your
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sneakers, and it continues long after you finish
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that last rep. It’s an all -day thing, people.
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All right, that’s all I’ve got for you today.
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I hope this was helpful. Onwards and upwards,
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my friends. Have you worked out today?

If It’s Not in the Calendar, It Doesn’t Exist

If It's Not in the Calendar, It Doesn't Exist

Want to know the secret to never missing a workout? Put it in your calendar. Here’s why treating exercise like an appointment transforms everything.

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My Cousin Laughs at My Calendar Obsession. But It’s Why I Never Miss the Gym.

My cousin makes fun of me constantly. She thinks my calendar obsession is ridiculous.

But you know what? It’s the reason I show up to the gym every single day.

If it’s not in my calendar, it doesn’t exist. That’s my rule. And maybe it should be yours too.

Why Calendars Actually Work

Every single thing I do goes in my calendar. Doctor’s appointments. Meetings. Phone calls. And yes, every single workout.

Maybe you’re like me. Maybe you need that visual reminder. Maybe you need to see it written down to make it real.

Or maybe you think this sounds excessive. Either way, hear me out.

Sunday Night Planning

Every Sunday night, I sit down and look at my week. And I add every single gym class I plan to attend.

Monday mornings? Zumba and low-impact cardio. Tuesday? Low-impact cardio and toning, plus cardio drumming with the stability ball. Thursday? Tabata and stretch.

If there’s not a class I’m attending but I still want to work out, that goes in too. A walk. A home workout. Something.

Because if it’s not scheduled, it’s not happening.

My Weekly Schedule

Here’s what my typical week looks like:

Monday: Zumba and low-impact cardio
Tuesday: Low-impact cardio and toning, plus cardio drumming
Wednesday: Active recovery day – stretch and walk
Thursday: Tabata and stretch
Friday: Zumba and low-impact cardio and toning
Saturday: Zumba and low-impact cardio and toning
Sunday: Active recovery day – stretch and walk

Do I stick to this perfectly every week? Not always. But having it scheduled means I’m way more likely to show up than if I just wing it.

The Power of Stretch Classes

Can we talk about stretching for a second? Because y’all, I’m obsessed.

Second to Zumba, stretching might be my favorite thing. There’s something about it that makes me feel like I can do more with my body. Like I’m taking care of myself in a way that matters.

If you’re not stretching every day, or at least every few days, you’re missing out. I’ll link my favorite YouTube stretching playlist in the show notes because I cannot state enough how much I love stretches.

The “I Work From Home” Excuse

I work from home. And I get it. Some of you are thinking, “Well, it’s easy for you. You have time because you work from home.”

But here’s the thing. Working from home makes it EASIER to skip workouts, not harder. It’s incredibly easy to fill my day with everything except exercise.

That’s exactly why the calendar matters. I’ve actively chosen to put these workouts in my schedule. They’re appointments. They’re non-negotiable.

You Have Options

Most of the classes I take are taught by one instructor. But she also teaches evening classes. And there are other instructors too.

If you’re in Richmond, Kentucky like me, there are classes you can take. If you’re in Walla Walla, Washington or anywhere else, there are classes you can take too. Online or in-person. With equipment or without.

Pilates classes. Bodyweight classes. Weightlifting classes. Spin classes. Dance fitness classes. Zumba-inspired classes.

The options are everywhere. You just have to look.

Make It an Appointment

Here’s what I need you to understand. There’s something powerful about knowing a workout is an appointment. Not a “maybe if I feel like it.” Not a “we’ll see how the day goes.”

An appointment. Something non-negotiable. Something you have to show up for.

When you put it in your mindset that “I have this upcoming workout that I intend to do,” you make the plan to do it. And plans are more likely to happen than vague intentions.

Your Action Step

Get yourself a calendar. Or if you already use one, start using it differently.

Add specific dates and times when you will commit to yourself. When you will do the workouts. When you will start moving your body more.

Figure out what your week looks like and start adding in classes. It doesn’t matter where you live. It doesn’t matter if you go to a gym or work out at home. It doesn’t matter if you take classes or just walk.

What matters is that you schedule it. You make dates with yourself.

You Can Do This

Only you can do this for yourself. Nobody else can work out for you.

So make the commitment to yourself. Embrace the power of the calendar. Make these dates with yourself non-negotiable.

You deserve this. You must commit to yourself. Please just take care of yourself.

Get it drilled into your head: Make these dates with yourself. Make the commitments.

You can do this. I believe in you.


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Full Transcript – If It’s Not in the Calendar, It Doesn’t Exist: Why Scheduling Your Workouts Changes Everything

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What’s up you guys, famous Ashley Grant here
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and welcome to More Movement Please, the podcast
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where I try to inspire you to move your body
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more. Today I wanna talk about the importance
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and the power of a calendar. Now, my cousin,
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if she hears this, she’s gonna be laughing at
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me because she is forever making fun of me for
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my obsession with my calendar. The truth is that
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whenever it comes to my calendar, I kind of get
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a little bit obsessive. Every single thing I
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do has to go on my calendar. And the reason why
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is because if it’s not in calendar, it doesn’t
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exist. Maybe you’re like me. Maybe you’re not.
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Maybe this will help you. Maybe it won’t. But
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just sharing with what I’m going through in hopes
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that maybe it can help somebody. So every single
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week at the beginning of the week on Sunday,
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I take a look at what’s going on for the week.
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And I add into my calendar all of the… gym
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classes that I want to attend for the week. And
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if there’s not a gym class that I’m going to
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attend, but I still want to do a workout, I put
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that in there too. And the reason why is because
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I know that if it’s not in the calendar, it’s
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not going to happen. So on Monday mornings, I
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know that I will be doing Zumba and low impact
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cardio. So every Sunday night, that’s what goes
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on my calendar for the week. On Tuesdays, I know
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that I will be doing low impact cardio and toning.
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And then I’ll be doing the cardio drumming with
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the stability ball. Wednesdays are typically
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going to be my active recovery day and on that
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day I will do a walk or I’ll do a stretch class.
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Most of the times lately I’ve been doing both.
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But I at least try to do the stretch class because
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the stretch class is gold, y ‘all. I’m obsessed
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with stretching because it just feels so good
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on my body. And if you’re not doing some sort
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of a stretch every day or at least every few
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days, I highly, highly, highly recommend it.
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I will include a link in the show notes to my
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favorite playlist on YouTube for stretching because,
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y ‘all, I cannot state enough just how much I
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love stretches. Second to Zumba, I think it might
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be my favorite thing. I do love Tabata, don’t
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get me wrong, but something about stretch just
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makes me feel like I can do more with my body.
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So I highly recommend that. So on Thursdays,
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I generally will do Tabata and guess what? Another
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stretch class because again, I love stretching.
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Fridays are usually Zumba and then low impact
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cardio and toning. And then Saturday, I repeat
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that with Zumba and low impact cardio and toning.
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Occasionally on Sundays, I will try to get into
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a Zumba class. But if nothing else, that’s another
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active recovery day where I make sure to do stretches.
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And I try to walk as often as I can. I mean,
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I do have two little doggies. And so I’m constantly
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trying to walk them. Their names are Bailey’s
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and Kalua. You should check them out on Instagram.
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They’re the Pampered Pomchies. But I try to make
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sure that I… walk them as much as possible
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as well. So every single day I’m moving my body
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like that is that is my goal. That is what I
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love to do. I move my body as much as I can.
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And the thing is, I work from home. And so I
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get it. Some of you may be listening to this
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going, well, it’s easy for you. You can do it
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because you work from home. But at the same time,
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it’s that I actively have chosen to put these
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things in my calendar because it’s very easy,
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especially working from home, to fill up my day
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with everything but working out. The thing is,
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the gal that teaches most of the classes that
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I take, I mean, like 95 % of the classes I take,
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she also does evening classes. And if you don’t
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like her style, there’s other people that teach
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gym classes as well. If you’re listening to this
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from Richmond, Kentucky, I mean, come on, you
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can still find some kind of a class to take.
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If you’re not taking classes in Richmond, Kentucky,
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maybe you’re listening to this in, I don’t know,
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Walla Walla, Washington, you can find classes
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to do as well. I’ll leave some links in the show
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notes to some of my favorite online classes.
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There’s so many different classes you can take
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from no equipment classes to Pilates to body
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weight classes to weightlifting classes. I’ve
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even found ones for spin. I’ve found some that
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are pretty awesome for dance fitness. They’re
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not necessarily Zumba, but some of them are Zumba
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inspired. So there’s so many different classes
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that you can take online. I just recommend that
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you figure out what works for you and start moving
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your body more. Like that’s obviously the whole
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theme of this podcast, right? It’s what I keep
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drilling in and saying. But what I will definitely
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say is if you are thinking about doing this,
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put it in your calendar. Like if you’re the type
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of person that has to write down doctor’s appointments
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or if you write down meetings that you have with
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people or anything that you add into your calendar
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as a commitment. add in your workouts there is
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something so powerful about knowing that it is
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an appointment it is something that is not negotiable
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it is something that you have to show up for
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so just putting that in your mindset that hey
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i have this upcoming workout that i intend to
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do and so you make the plan to do it so what
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i want you to do seriously Get yourself a calendar.
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And if you already use a calendar, start adding
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in dates and times that you will commit to yourself.
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You will do the workouts. You will start moving
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your body more because y ‘all only you can do
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this for yourself, right? You can’t have anybody
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else work out for you. So make the commitment
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to yourself. Embrace the power of the calendar.
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Make these dates with yourself. Figure out what
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your week looks like and start adding in classes.
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I don’t care where you live. in the world whether
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it is richmond kentucky like me and you have
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a local gym that you can go to or if you live
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in walla walla washington and you only can take
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classes online i i don’t care where you live
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there are classes available that you can take
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and if you don’t want to take classes then you
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can at least do something where you’re moving
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your body you could be walking you could be doing
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squats you could be um doing wall push -ups or
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or or wall sits or I mean, there’s so many different
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things that you can be doing to be moving your
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body. Bottom line, just get out there, move your
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body, make the dates with yourself. You deserve
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this. You must commit to yourself. Please just
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take care of yourself. I know I keep saying this
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and I’m going to keep saying this every single
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time you guys tune in. That’s what you’re going
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to hear. So just get it drilled into your head.
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Make these dates with yourself. Make the commitments.
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You can do this. I believe in you. Onwards and
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upwards, my friends. Have you worked out today?
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Thank you.


Stop Dieting and Start Listening to Your Body

Stop Dieting and Start Listening to Your Body

I don’t diet. Ever. Here’s why listening to your body beats restrictive eating plans every single time for sustainable results.

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Why I’ll Never Diet Again (And Why You Shouldn’t Either)

Today, I want to talk about diet. Yep, that four-letter word that I can’t stand.

Maybe you’re like me. Maybe you can relate. I can’t stand the idea of dieting. I don’t like the idea of restricting myself from anything. And that’s not to say that I’m the type of person that just wants to binge all the time. I don’t want to just eat a bunch of crap.

Why Diets Don’t Work for Me

But here’s the thing about diets. They’re temporary. They’re restrictive. And they make you feel like you’re punishing yourself for wanting to be healthy.

That’s not sustainable. That’s not realistic. And that’s definitely not how I want to live my life.

Instead of dieting, I focus on making better choices. I focus on listening to my body. I focus on eating foods that make me feel good, not foods that make me feel guilty.

What This Actually Looks Like

Does that mean I never eat pizza? No. Does that mean I never have dessert? Absolutely not.

What it means is that I pay attention to how food makes me feel. If I eat a huge greasy meal and then feel like garbage for the rest of the day, I remember that. And the next time I’m tempted by that same meal, I ask myself: is it worth feeling terrible later?

Sometimes the answer is yes. Sometimes I want the pizza and I don’t care that I’ll feel sluggish afterward. And that’s okay. Because I’m making a conscious choice, not following some arbitrary diet rules that someone else made up.

The Problem with Restriction

The problem with diets is that they’re all about restriction. Don’t eat this. Don’t eat that. Count your calories. Measure your portions. Track everything.

And for some people, that works. But for me? It just makes me want to rebel. It makes me want to eat all the things I’m not supposed to eat just because someone told me I can’t have them.

So instead, I give myself permission to eat whatever I want. But I also give myself the responsibility to pay attention to how it makes me feel.

Making Sustainable Changes

I focus on adding things to my diet rather than taking things away. I try to drink more water. I try to eat more vegetables. I try to make sure I’m getting enough protein to support my workouts.

But I don’t stress about it. I don’t beat myself up if I have a day where I eat like garbage. Because tomorrow is a new day, and I can make better choices then.

This isn’t a diet. This is a lifestyle change. And lifestyle changes are sustainable. Diets are not.

Food Is Fuel, But It’s Also Enjoyment

Food is fuel for your body. But it’s also something to be enjoyed. It’s a social experience. It’s comfort. It’s culture. It’s tradition.

And I refuse to give all of that up just to fit into someone else’s idea of what healthy eating should look like.

So no, I’m not on a diet. And I’m never going to be on a diet. But I am making better choices. I am listening to my body. And I am living my life in a way that feels sustainable and healthy for me.

That’s what matters.


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Full Transcript- Stop Dieting and Start Listening to Your Body

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What’s up, you guys? Famous Ashton Grant here,
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and welcome to More Movement, Please. Today,
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I want to talk about diet. Yep, that four -letter
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word that I can’t stand. Maybe you’re like me.
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Maybe you can relate. I can’t stand the idea
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of dieting. I don’t like the idea of restricting
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myself from anything. And that’s not to say that
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I’m the type of person that just wants to binge
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all the time. I don’t want to just eat a bunch
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of crap. But I don’t want to change what I’m
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eating. to the point that I start feeling like
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I’m restricted, which could lead me to binging.
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That said, whenever I started working out as
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much as I am now, I was unable to eat and drink
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the way that I was before getting serious. And
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that’s not because I was intentionally restricting
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myself. It’s because my body started craving
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certain things. And here’s what I mean by that.
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That first week that I was going from two or
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three hours of fitness a week to that first week
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of doing that 19 classes, I reached for water
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more than I ever have in my whole life. I needed
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all the water because I was sweating so much
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from all the working out. Makes sense, right?
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So I constantly was needing more water. As a
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result, I wasn’t wanting soda as much, not just
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because I wanted more hydration, but also because
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anytime I would drink soda, it felt bad. Like
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it just wasn’t enjoyable in the way that it used
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to be. So even though I’m a soda girly, I wasn’t
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enjoying the experience of drinking soda. The
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other interesting thing that happened is that
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when I started working out as much as I was,
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am. When I started working out more, I was unable
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to eat the same portions that I was eating previously.
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I was catching myself getting so full that I
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could not eat another bite. I don’t know if it
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was because my body was shocked from suddenly
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working out as much as I had been, or if it was
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because my body was going, hey, you’ve been eating
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too much and you should stop. So what naturally
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started to happen is that I was not finishing
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my meals. And as a result, I started changing
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the recipes that I was doing or that I had been
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making to have smaller portions. And this wasn’t
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like I was, again, I was not trying to restrict
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myself. It was simply the fact that I literally
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felt if I ate another bite of certain foods,
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I was going to be sick. And so we’re now. more
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than a hundred days in to this wild fitness journey.
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And I don’t want to say that it has leveled out
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because that’s simply not true. I’m still not
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able to eat the portion sizes that I was previously,
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but I am noticing that I am able to eat just
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a little bit more, but I’m choosing not to. And
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it’s not because I don’t want it. I mean, there
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are times I’m not going to lie. I will just sit
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there and eat the entire meal. even though I’m
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stuffed and even though I don’t want any more,
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because there is something to be said for if
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you really love a meal, go all in, right? But
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I don’t recommend that. And I’m sure any person
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that’s listening to this, if you’re a nutritionist
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or you’re a physical trainer, you’re probably
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like cringing at the fact that I literally just
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said there are some times that I will stuff myself.
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The thing is, though, it’s not that I’m… trying
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to advocate for it. I know when I make that decision
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what I’m doing. And yes, I pay for it. I feel
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the pain of the fact that I overstuffed myself.
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So in truth, no, I’ve not dieted per se, but
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I have naturally changed the way that I’m eating.
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And the funny thing is, not only am I changing
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the portion sizes, I am catching myself reaching
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for healthier options because I can feel a difference
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in my performance when I do. And this isn’t about
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again, I want to I just want to make this abundantly
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clear. It’s not about restriction. It’s about
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I am feeling that my body is craving different
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things now. And so I’m reaching for those. And
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to me, that’s a much healthier way of going about
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changing what you’re consuming than to sit there
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and say, oh, well, I have to be in a calorie
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deficit of 500 calories so I can’t have. X, Y,
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or Z. I feel like if you’re going to change what
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you’re eating or change your portions, then it
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should be because your body is telling you to,
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not because you’re telling your body to. Does
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that make sense? I hope that makes sense. Because
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I feel a difference whenever I’m reaching for
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certain things. So I’ve caught myself. going,
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no, I don’t want this cookie. What I actually
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want is a banana because if I eat the banana,
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I can feel the potassium. I can feel it’s better
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in my system than I would feel after eating that
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cookie. And so I guess what I want to do today
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is challenge you not to think of things as dieting.
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Think of it as what does your body need? Because
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if you actually start listening to your body,
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it’s kind of amazing how it will literally tell
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you what you do and do not want. The reality
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is that I can catch myself going, oh, I really
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want to have, you know, let’s just call it a
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candy bar or a bag of chips or something like
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that. My body literally will go absolutely not
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after like the first or second bite sometimes.
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And it’s not because I want to restrict myself,
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but it’s because I don’t feel good whenever I
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consume it. And why would you do something to
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yourself that you’re not enjoying? Right. Although
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then then again, some of you might be listening
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to this going, well, I hate squats. So I guess
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I should stop doing that. It doesn’t feel good,
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but it’s good for you. Right. So you should still
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do the squats. But maybe if you eat a candy bar
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and you feel like, wow, that candy bar did not
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make me feel good. How about don’t eat that candy
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bar? You know, that’s kind of how I’m feeling
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right now. I just wanted to share these thoughts.
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The big thing to me is if you are going to try
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to lose weight. Yes, of course. Doctors will
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probably tell you like, hey, you need to limit
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the amount of calories you’re consuming, need
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to be in a calorie deficit. I understand all
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that. If you really listen to your body, it will
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tell you what you need. And I think you’ll find
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that if you start doing that rather than trying
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to focus on the numbers of calories that you’re
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consuming. you might notice that your body is
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telling you that it wants something that’s healthier
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for you. That’s been my experience. It’s what
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I’ve been feeling and what I just wanted to share
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today. So today, as you’re consuming, you know,
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meals and drinks and whatever it is you normally
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consume, check in with yourself. See how you’re
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feeling as you are consuming these things. Is
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it really worth what you’re consuming? Because
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if you’re not enjoying it, What’s the point?
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I hope this tip helps somebody. I hope it makes
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sense. And onwards and upwards, my friends. Have
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you worked out today?

Two Futures, Same Person – The Real Cost of Skipping Your Workouts

Two Futures, Same Person - The Real Cost of Skipping Your Workouts

Two timelines. Same person. One choice repeated daily. Which future are you building? The one where you hurt now or hurt later?

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Two Versions of Your Future Self Are Waiting. Which One Are You Choosing Right Now?

Today, I want to talk about the movie Sliding Doors. Have you ever seen that movie? It has Gwyneth Paltrow in it, and it’s where her entire life splits into two completely different timelines based on whether she catches a train or misses it by just a few seconds.

And today, I kind of want to do my own version of this, where I talk to you guys about a decision you’re facing right now at this very moment. It’s a decision that seems small, but it can echo through your entire future.

The Question That Changes Everything

The question is simple: Would you rather hurt now or hurt later?

Would you rather feel the burn of a workout today or the pain of a doctor’s office visit years from now?

So let’s watch what happens. Same person, two completely different lives, all because of one choice.

Timeline A: You Show Up

Picture this. It’s a regular Tuesday morning and you’re standing in your living room at 6:30 in the morning. Your workout clothes are laid out. Your alarm just went off, but you’re tired. Like really, really tired.

This is where our timeline splits.

In Timeline A, you drag yourself up. You’re not thrilled about it. Your muscles protest as you start your warmup. Five minutes in, you’re wondering why you do this to yourself. Ten minutes in, you’re sweating. Fifteen minutes in, okay, you’re actually feeling pretty good. And 30 minutes later, you’re done. You’re sweaty. Your legs are shaky, but you feel alive.

Fast forward a month. You’re still going. You’re not every day, but you’re doing it most days. You’ve stopped needing three alarms. Your back doesn’t hurt as much when you get out of bed. Weird, right?

Now fast forward six months. You’re carrying groceries up the stairs and you realize you’re not even breathing that hard. When did that happen? You catch a reflection in a window and you do a double take. You stand differently now. You’re taller somehow. You feel taller. You feel stronger.

Twenty Years Later in Timeline A

Now let’s fast forward five years. You’re playing with your kids or your grandkids or maybe your dog and you’re running. You’re actually running. You’re laughing. You’re not thinking about your body at all. It just works.

Maybe you book a hiking trip. You say yes to that pickup basketball game. Or you lift your suitcase into the overhead bin without even a second thought.

Now let’s fast forward 20 years. You’re watching people your age struggling to get up from chairs. They’re popping pills for blood pressure, cholesterol. They’re taking insulin shots. They’re canceling plans because they’re too tired, or their back is out again.

But not you. You’re planning a backpacking trip. Your doctor keeps using words like “remarkable” at your checkups. You have some aches, sure. You’re human. But they’re normal. They’re the normal wear and tear of a life lived, not the breakdown of a body that’s been neglected.

Timeline B: You Hit Snooze

But let’s rewind. Back to that Tuesday morning. This time, in Timeline B, you hit snooze. Just five more minutes. Then ten. Then you’re rushing to get ready for work. “I’ll go tomorrow,” you tell yourself.

Tomorrow comes. You’re tired again. “Wednesday,” you promise. Wednesday you have plans. Thursday there’s that thing. Friday, well, it’s Friday. You’ll start fresh on Monday.

Monday never quite comes.

Fast forward a month. You’re the same weight. Actually, maybe a little heavier. You’re still getting winded on the stairs.

Six months later? You’re avoiding mirrors. Your clothes are getting tighter. You’re so much stiffer and you’re so much more tired.

Twenty Years Later in Timeline B

And now let’s fast forward 20 years. You’re on four medications. Your knees are shot. The doctor says you might need knee replacements. You can’t play with your dog the way you used to. Hell, you can’t even travel the way you dreamed.

You’re not living. You’re managing. You’re just surviving. You’re managing pain. You’re managing conditions. You’re managing limitations.

And then you think back to that Tuesday morning 20 years ago and you wonder: what if?

Both Timelines Involve Pain

Here’s the truth about these two timelines. They both hurt.

In Timeline A, you hurt for 30 minutes a day, maybe 45 minutes a day. Your muscles burn. You get sore. You feel uncomfortable. But then it’s over. It passes and it gets easier. Eventually, it doesn’t hurt as much, if at all. In fact, it feels good. When your workouts are complete, you feel better.

But in Timeline B, you hurt all the time. Your back hurts. Your knees hurt. Your joints hurt. Getting out of bed hurts. The hurt doesn’t pass. It accumulates. It compounds. It becomes your new normal.

Your Sliding Door Is Still Open

Same person, same genetics. The only difference? One choice made over and over and over again.

The beautiful thing about this story is unlike the movie, your sliding door isn’t closed yet. If you’re still breathing, you’re standing at that train station right now. You’re above ground.

You have the option to step into Timeline A today. Not tomorrow. Not Monday. Not after the holidays. Not January 1st. Today.

Will it be easy? No. Will it hurt a little? Yes.

But I’m going to tell you something, and it’s so important and I need you to hear it. The hurt is temporary. And it’s going to feel better over time. Sure, you’re going to be sore.

But like Rhonda said in the interview that we did, wouldn’t you rather hurt from working your body and let it break down from working than to let it break down from sitting in a chair?

Choose Your Hurt

The hurt of neglect, that hurt is forever.

So I’m asking you right now: would you rather hurt now or hurt later?

Your body is going to require something from you either way. It’s either going to require the effort of sweat and a little discomfort now, or it’s going to require medications and doctor visits and limitations later.

I want you to choose your hurt. Think about this. Think about the choices that you’re making every single day.

You have the choice every morning when you wake up to either go work out or just not. If you choose to not work out, you’re going to hurt later.

So choose your hurt. Choose your hard.


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Full Transcript – Two Futures, Same Person: The Real Cost of Skipping Your Workouts

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What’s up, you guys? Famous Ashley Grant here,
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and welcome to More Movement, Please, the podcast
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about inspiring people to move their bodies more.
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Today, I want to talk about the movie Sliding
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Doors. Have you ever seen that movie? It has
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Gwyneth Paltrow in it, and it’s where her entire
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life, it splits into two completely different
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timelines based on whether she catches a train
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or misses it by just a few seconds. And today,
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I kind of want to do my own version of this,
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where I talk to you guys about, instead of trains
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and relationships, a decision you’re facing right
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now at this very moment. And it’s a decision
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that seems small, but it can echo through your
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entire future. And so the question is simple.
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Would you rather hurt now or hurt later? Would
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you rather feel the burn of a workout today or
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the pain of a doctor’s office visit years from
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now? So let’s watch what happens. Same person,
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two completely different lives, all because of
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one choice. So picture this. It’s a regular Tuesday
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morning and you’re standing in your living room
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at 630 in the morning. Your workout clothes,
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they’re laid out. Your alarm just went off, but
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you’re tired, like really, really tired. And
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this is where our timeline splits. In timeline
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A. You drag yourself up. You’re not thrilled
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about it. Your muscles protest as you start your
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warmup. Five minutes in, you’re wondering why
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you do this to yourself. 10 minutes in, you’re
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sweating. 15 minutes in, okay, you’re actually
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feeling pretty good. And 30 minutes later, you’re
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done. You’re sweaty. Your legs are shaky, but
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you feel alive. Fast forward a month. You’re
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still going. You’re not every day, but you’re
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doing it most days. You’ve stopped needing three
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alarms. Your back doesn’t hurt as much when you
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get out of bed. Weird, right? Now fast forward
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six months. You’re carrying groceries up the
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stairs and you realize you’re not even breathing
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that hard. When did that happen? You catch a
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reflection in a window and you do a double take.
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You stand differently now. You’re taller somehow.
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You feel taller. You feel stronger. Now let’s
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fast forward five years. You’re playing with
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your kids or your grandkids or maybe your dog
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and you’re running. You’re actually running.
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You’re laughing. You’re not thinking about your
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body at all. It just works. Maybe you book a
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hiking trip, you say yes to that pickup basketball
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game, or you lift your suitcase into the overhead
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bin without even a second thought. Now let’s
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fast forward 20 years. You’re watching people
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your age, they’re struggling to get up from chairs,
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they’re popping pills for blood pressure, cholesterol,
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they’re taking insulin shots, they’re canceling
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plans because they’re too tired, or their back
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is out again. But not you, you’re planning backpack
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trip. Your doctor keeps using words like remarkable
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at your checkups. You have some aches, sure,
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you’re human. but they’re normal, and they’re
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the normal wear and tear of a life lived, not
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the breakdown of a body that’s been neglected.
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Now let’s look at timeline B, the snooze button,
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right? Let’s rewind back to that Tuesday, that
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6 .30 a .m. alarm goes off, and you hit snooze.
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Just this once, you’ll start tomorrow. You promise
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yourself you’ll start tomorrow. A month later,
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tomorrow never came. You meant to start, you
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really did. But work, it got busy. And you were
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tired. You’re always so tired. And you’re back.
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Well, it still hurts. And actually, you feel
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like it might be getting worse. Six months later,
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those stairs at work, you get winded going up
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them. You’re out of breath by the second floor.
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You avoid them anytime you can. You tell yourself,
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it’s no big deal. Everyone gets older, right?
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And you buy new pants. Well, because the old
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ones don’t fit. They just are too tight. And
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you tell yourself that you’ll deal with it later.
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Now let’s fast forward five years. Later has
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arrived. Your doctor’s using words like pre -diabetic
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and blood pressure concerns and we need to talk
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about your cholesterol. Maybe she’s recommending
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you start exercising. You nod and you agree.
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But the idea of starting now, well, it feels
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impossible. You’re so much heavier than you were
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five years ago. You’re so much stiffer and you’re
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so much more tired. And now let’s fast forward
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20 years. You’re on four medications. Your knees,
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they’re shot. The doctor, she says that you might
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need knee replacements. You can’t play with your
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dog the way you used to. Hell, you can’t even
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travel the way you dreamed. You’re not living.
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You’re managing. You’re just surviving. You’re
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managing pain. You’re managing conditions. You’re
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managing limitations. And then you think back
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to that Tuesday morning 20 years ago and you
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wonder, what if? Here’s the truth about these
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two timelines. They both hurt. In timeline A.
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You hurt for 30 minutes a day, maybe 45 minutes
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a day. Your muscles burn. You get sore. You feel
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uncomfortable. But then it’s over. It passes
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and it gets easier. Eventually, it doesn’t hurt
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as much, if at all. In fact, it feels good. When
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your workouts are complete, you feel better.
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But in timeline B, you hurt all the time. Your
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back hurts. Your knees hurt. Your joints hurt.
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Getting out of bed hurts. The hurt doesn’t pass.
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It accumulates. It compounds. It becomes your
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new normal. Same person, same genetics. The only
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difference? One choice made over and over and
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over again. The beautiful thing about this story
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is unlike the movie, your sliding door, it’s
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not closed yet. If you’re still breathing, you’re
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standing at that train station right now. You’re
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above ground. You have the option to step into
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Timeline A today. Not tomorrow. Not Monday. Not
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after the holidays. Not January 1st. Today. Will
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it be easy? No. Will it hurt a little? Yes. But
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I’m going to tell you something, and it’s so
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important and I need you to hear it. The hurt
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is temporary. And it’s going to feel better over
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time. Sure, you’re going to be sore. But… Like
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Rhonda said in the interview that we did, wouldn’t
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you rather hurt from working your body and let
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it break down from working than to let it break
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down to sitting in a chair? The hurt of neglect,
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that hurt is forever. So I’m asking you right
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now, would you rather hurt now or hurt later?
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Your body is going to require something from
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you either way. It’s either going to require
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the effort of sweat and a little discomfort now,
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or it’s going to require medications and doctor
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visits and limitations later. I want you to choose
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your heart. Think about this. Think about the
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choices that you’re making every single day.
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You have the choice every morning when you wake
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up to either go work out or just not. If you
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choose to not work out, you’re going to hurt
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later. So choose your hurt. Choose your hard.
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Onwards and upwards, my friends. Have you worked
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out today?