You Don’t Need a Big Audience to Launch Creator Merch

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You don’t need 50k followers to launch creator merch. Screen printing expert Joe from Tee Vision breaks down how to start small, spend smart, and sell to the audience you already have.

The following is a guest post from my bloggy friend Joe with Tee Vision. Interested in having a guest post on my website? Click here for my guest post submission form.

Why 500 Loyal Fans Beat 50,000 Followers When It Comes to Creator Merch

One of the most common things I hear from content creators and bloggers is some version of this: “I’ll think about merch once I hit 50k followers.” And, every time I hear it, I want to tell them the same thing – That’s the wrong way to think about it.

I’ve been working with creators, nonprofits, and small businesses at Tee Vision Printing since 2014. And, the number that matters far more than your follower count is trust.

A blogger with 500 die-hard readers who buys everything they recommend will outsell an influencer with 50,000 followers who scrolls past everything.

Start way smaller than you think you need to

The number one mistake creators make is overcommitting before they know what their audience actually wants. Spending months on a complicated four-color design, ordering 200 units, and then realizing their readers would have loved a tote bag instead. It happens all the time.

My advice? Start with one product, one design, one colorway. Get a quote for 48 units. That’s the sweet spot where the per-unit cost becomes reasonable without needing to sell to every person you’ve ever met on the internet.

Before you spend a single dollar, ask your audience directly. Send an email, post a poll, put it in your Instagram stories. “Would you buy a hoodie with this design?” It costs you nothing and tells you everything.

Screen printing vs. print-on-demand: what you actually need to know

Print-on-demand services are a genuinely great option in certain situations. No upfront costs, no inventory, no risk. But here’s what most creators don’t think about: the real cost difference at volume.

A hoodie that costs $18 to produce through screen printing at 48 units can run $35 to $40 through POD. That difference either eats your margin or gets passed to your audience at a higher price.

The quality difference is real too. Screen printed ink is pressed into the fabric and lasts after washing. DTG and POD prints sit on top of the fabric and tend to fade faster. If you want your audience wearing your merch years from now and telling other people about it, that matters.

Screen printing makes more sense when:

  • You’re launching merch around a specific event, podcast milestone, or brand moment and you have a rough sense of how many units you need
  • You want to give your audience something premium and lasting instead of something that looks like it came from a generic print store
  • You’ve done the math and the per-unit savings at 48 or more pieces make screen printing cheaper than POD

POD is still the right call when you genuinely have no idea how many units you’ll move and you’re not ready to commit to a minimum order. Both tools are valid. The key is knowing which situation you’re actually in.

The real secret to merch that actually sells

The merch that sells isn’t always the most elaborate design. It’s the design that means something to your specific community.

Think about the inside jokes from your content, the phrases your listeners repeat back to you, the things only your most loyal followers would recognize. A shirt that a stranger wouldn’t understand but your biggest fans would immediately love? That’s the shirt that gets worn outside, photographed, and shared.

People don’t buy creator merch because the design is objectively gorgeous. They buy it because wearing it feels like belonging to something. That’s what you’re really selling.

How to actually get started

Here’s the practical breakdown for getting started even with a smaller audience:

  1. Pick one product your audience actually uses. Hoodies and totes travel the most. Mugs and hats have their loyal fans too.
  2. Design for recognition, not beauty. Simple and meaningful beats complex and generic every time.
  3. Order 48 units and pre-sell first. If you sell out in pre-orders, you know exactly how many to reorder and you cover your costs before the shirts even ship.
  4. Find a printer who asks questions before taking your money. The best print shops ask more questions than you’d expect about your goals, your audience, and your event. That’s always a good sign.

Your audience doesn’t need to be huge. It just needs to be yours.

If you’re curious about working with our team, you can check out our screen printing services in Philadelphia, and see if you feel like we’re a good fit for what you’re building.

About the Author

Joe Carpentero has worked with Tee Vision Printing, a Philadelphia-based custom screen printing shop serving creators, nonprofits, businesses, and community organizations since 2014.

🎉 Happy 6th Birthday to the Bloggy Friends Show

Six years ago today, I did something that terrified me. I hit publish on the very first episode of the Bloggy Friends Show. And I did it on April 1st on purpose, because I figured if it was a total disaster, I could just tell everyone it was an April Fool’s joke. Yes, really. 😅

What I didn’t know then was that one scared little publish button click would change the entire course of my career.

The Idea That Sat on the Shelf for Four Years

I first thought about starting a podcast back in 2016. I had the idea. I had the drive. What I didn’t have was the courage. So the idea just sat there, collecting dust, while I talked myself out of it over and over again.

Then, in 2019, the GoDaddy team assigned me a post about podcasting for their resources page. I figured if I was going to write it, I needed to actually know what I was talking about. So I headed to Podcast Movement 2019 and spent a week absorbing everything I possibly could about how to start a podcast.

I came home and wrote that post with one quiet thought in the back of my mind: maybe one day I’ll actually do this myself.

Spoiler alert. I did.

The People Who Made It Happen

Writing that post led me to the team at RSS.com. And meeting them changed everything.

With the encouragement of co-founders Alberto Betella and Ben Richardson, and their incredibly supportive Marketing Director Brian Jensen, I finally stopped waiting and started doing.

On April 1, 2020, I released the first episode of the Bloggy Friends Show. Mid-pandemic. On April Fool’s Day. With absolutely zero certainty that anyone would care. 🙃

They cared. And I was hooked from the very first episode.

What Six Years of Podcasting Has Actually Looked Like

I started as a print journalist back in 2007. Blogging came into my life in 2009 when I saw that the world of media was shifting fast, and I knew I had to keep up. Podcasting felt like the next natural step in that same direction.

But I had no idea how far it would actually take me.

Since that first episode, I’ve interviewed dozens of incredible people. I’ve written about podcasting for some really cool companies, both under my own byline and as a ghostwriter. 👻 I had the privilege of hosting Podcasting 101 for RSS.com for two full years.

Last year, I launched my second show, a fitness podcast called More Movement Please. It just hit 50 episodes. That one has opened doors I genuinely didn’t see coming, and I’m so proud of what it’s becoming.

What’s Coming Next (the Stuff I CAN Tell You)

Later this year, I’ll be hard-launching a brand new show. If you’re a good investigator, you might be able to find the two test episodes that are already out there. 🤣

There are more audio projects in the works too. But those are still under wraps for now. 🤫

What I can tell you is that it feels like every single thing I’ve done in my career up to this point has been leading somewhere. I’m more excited about what’s ahead than I’ve ever been.

What I Want You to Take Away From This

Most podcasters don’t even make it to six episodes. I want that to sink in for a second. Six. Episodes. And I’m six years in with zero plans to slow down. Heck, if anything, I will be revving this engine all the way up!

If you’ve been sitting on a podcast idea the way I sat on mine for four years, I want you to know something. The gear doesn’t have to be perfect. The timing doesn’t have to be perfect. You just have to start.

I recorded my first episodes with basic equipment and more fear than confidence. Today, I record my fitness podcast from my car. Seriously. And it sounds great. If you’re curious how I do that, I’ve got everything you need right here at famousashleygrant.com/car.

Check out this video “How I Started a Podcast … From My Car…” to see how I do it:

A Big Thank You

To every person who let me interview them. To everyone who has shared the show, told a friend, or sent a kind message. To Alberto, Ben, and Brian for believing in this before I fully believed in it myself. And even to the people who tried to talk me out of some of my goals and plans: thank you too. Seriously. You kept me motivated in your own way. 😄

Do you need a podcast guest? Hit me up! I’d love to chat about podcasting, blogging, fitness, freelancing, and trying to get internet famous. 🤪

You can find the Bloggy Friends Show right here: rss.com/podcasts/bloggyfriendsshow

Here’s to the next six years and beyond. As I always say at the end of every episode: may your page views be high and your bounce rate be low! 🥳

Richmond, KY Podcaster Hits 50-Episode Milestone, Caps It Off with Three Charity Episodes for Global Podcasthon Initiative

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She Couldn’t Last 15 Minutes in Zumba. Now She’s 50 Episodes Deep, and Giving Back.

Richmond, KY content creator and fitness podcaster Famous Ashley Grant celebrates the 50-episode milestone of More Movement Please by capping it with a three-part charity series for Podcasthon, spotlighting the Humane Society Animal League for Life of Madison County, Kentucky.

RICHMOND, KY — March 2026 — When Ashley Grant walked into her first Zumba class in August 2023, she made it exactly 15 minutes before she had to leave. She was too winded to continue. She couldn’t do a jumping jack. She couldn’t hold a plank. She was lifting 5-pound dumbbells and calling them her “big weights.”

Today, she’s 500-plus group fitness classes in, 26 pounds lighter, and lifting 15 and 20-pound dumbbells regularly. And she has documented every step of that journey, recorded mostly from the front seat of her car, on the way to and from the gym, on her fitness podcast, More Movement Please.

This month, the show hit 50 episodes.

“I never planned to start a fitness podcast,” said Grant, a Richmond-based content creator, ghostwriter, and blogger who also hosts The Bloggy Friends Show

“Then, when I got serious about fitness I thought, I’ve got to document this. If I can do this and share my journey with others, maybe someone else will believe they can too.”

The timing of the episode 50 milestone carries extra weight. Episodes 48, 49, and 50 were recorded as part of Podcasthon, now in its fourth global edition. It’s an initiative where thousands of podcasters worldwide dedicate an entire week of episodes to raising awareness for a charity of their choice.

Grant chose to spotlight the Humane Society Animal League for Life of Madison County, Kentucky, and the way it was chosen is a story in itself. When Grant asked her community to nominate worthy organizations, one of the first voices to speak up was her own fitness instructor, Rhonda Goode, the woman Grant credits with changing her life.

“Rhonda has been teaching fitness classes for 14 years,” said Grant. “She’s the reason I love walking into the gym instead of running away from it. When her nomination came up in the random number generator, I took that as a sign from the universe.”

The three Podcasthon episodes feature Goode in an extended, candid interview series covering 14 years of teaching, what she sees in a room full of students in the first 60 seconds, and what she would say right now to the person sitting at the crossroads of change who hasn’t made the move yet. It is, by Grant’s own description, some of the most honest and compelling content she has ever put out.

More Movement Please releases mostly short-form episodes of 5–10 minutes, designed to be consumed exactly when Ashley records them: in the car, in motion, in the middle of real life. The show is equal parts accountability, education, and inspiration, and is aimed at anyone who has ever talked themselves out of a workout.

Grant’s own story has become the spine of the show. A former dancer whose passion for movement was interrupted by a car accident in her youth, she found her way back to fitness through Zumba at the Telford YMCA in Richmond, and hasn’t looked back. In the first 100 days of her serious commitment, she completed 200 fitness classes. She turned 41 during that stretch and celebrated with five classes that day alone.

“I want people to hear my story and realize that if I can do it, they can do it,” said Grant. “I couldn’t make it through 15 minutes of Zumba. Now I take up to 12 classes a week or more. This wasn’t about doing a fitness challenge. It was about changing my lifestyle. And, it’s forever changed my life.”

All three Podcasthon episodes of More Movement Please are available now, along with a direct link to donate to the Humane Society Animal League for Life of Madison County in the show notes.

More Movement Please is hosted on RSS.com where Ashley is a social media content strategist, and is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music and other platforms. More information about the show and Ashley Grant can be found at famousashleygrant.com/fitness.

To learn more about Podcasthon, visit podcasthon.org.

To learn more about Humane Society Animal League for Life of Madison County, Kentucky, visit https://www.humanesocietyall.com/ 


About Famous Ashley Grant: Ashley Grant is a content creator, ghostwriter, and podcaster based in Richmond, Kentucky. Originally from Tampa, Florida and a proud University of South Florida alumna, she hosts More Movement Please and The Bloggy Friends Show, and blogs about lifestyle, remote work, and more at FamousAshleyGrant.com. She can be found on Facebook and Instagram as @FamousAshleyGrant and X as @AshleyisFamous.

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This Fitness Instructor Can Tell in 60 Seconds If You’re Going to Quit

After 14 years teaching fitness, Rhonda Goode knows within 60 seconds if a new student will stick around. Here’s what she sees and what she’d say to you.

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She Knows Before You Even Start Moving

After fourteen years of teaching fitness classes, Rhonda Goode can read a room fast. And when a brand new student walks through the door, she usually knows within about sixty seconds whether they are going to stick with it or be gone by next week.

She is not judging. She is just paying attention.

This is the third and final episode of a special three-part series on More Movement Please, recorded as part of Podcasts On. This global initiative brings thousands of podcasters together in one week to raise awareness for a charity of their choice. Ashley has been highlighting the Humane Society Animal League for Life of Madison County, Kentucky throughout this series. Links to donate and learn more are in the show notes.

Now, here is what Rhonda actually sees when you walk in.

The Signs You Do Not Realize You Are Sending

When Rhonda introduces herself to a new student before class, she is already picking up signals. She tells them what to expect, reminds them to do what they can, and reassures them that even her longtime regulars cannot always keep up.

Some new students look her in the eye and nod. They are engaged. They are in.

Others look at the floor. Look away. Their whole body says, I am not really going to be here very long.

And then class starts, and some students just stop. Not because they are lost. Not because they need a break. They stop and stare with a look that says, I did not sign up for this.

Those are usually the ones who do not come back.

Does Seeing the Regulars Intimidate New People?

One of Rhonda’s long-time students sent Ashley a thoughtful message before this interview. She asked whether new people feel intimidated when they walk in and see the regulars, people who know all the moves and clearly have a rhythm with Rhonda.

Rhonda’s honest answer is that she does not think so. Not in her class.

Her students come in every body shape, every age, every background. New people tend to head to the back anyway, where they feel safer. And her regulars are welcoming. There is always someone in the room who will say something to a new face, whether out of genuine kindness or sheer nosiness, usually both.

She says gyms with cliques in the corner, where nobody acknowledges newcomers, those places exist. But her class is not that.

What Separates the People Who Transform From the Ones Who Stay Stuck

Ashley asked Rhonda the question a lot of people want the answer to. What actually separates the people who make big changes from the ones who come back year after year and stay exactly the same?

Rhonda’s answer is simple. The ones who stay stuck refuse to change anything. Not their workouts. Not their habits. Not their diet. Nothing.

She has watched people come in, have the same conversations with her repeatedly, complain about the same lack of progress, and then go home and do the exact same things they did before. If nothing changes, nothing changes.

The Lifestyle Habits That Derail People Outside the Gym

Most people focus on what they do in the gym. Rhonda says the bigger issue is everything that happens outside of it.

Diet is the obvious one. But just as damaging is sitting. A desk job five days a week is hard to outrun with a three-hour-a-week gym habit, especially if your genetics are working against you. It just does not math out.

Rhonda says you have to look for ways to move throughout your entire day. Take the stairs. Walk the dog. Actually walk the dog, not just let it into the backyard. Do the outside work. Keep asking yourself, what else can I do to be active today? She says that question is always running in the back of her mind.

The Netflix and binge cycle, she has never done it once in her life. She says it is fine if you are sick. Otherwise, it is just sitting when you could be moving.

Can You Out-Exercise a Bad Diet?

Short answer from Rhonda: it depends.

It depends on how bad the diet is and how much you are willing to work. She points out that if you are drinking half your daily calories in coffee drinks and sugary beverages, you have already used up a huge chunk of your allowance before you have eaten a single real meal.

She also makes the point that once you clean up your eating, your body starts to tell you when you have gone off track. You feel sluggish. You feel tired. You know. That feedback loop becomes its own motivation.

Can you eat junk and lose weight if you are willing to go to the gym five or six days a week and keep moving the rest of the time? Yes. Rhonda says you can. But you have to actually do all of that, not just pick one or the other.

What It Feels Like When a Student Hits a Big Goal

Rhonda admits that teaching is a job. She gets tired. Physically tired. Mentally tired. Tired of her students sometimes, and she says it with a laugh.

But then she gets a message. A student on vacation sends a photo from the top of a mountain and says that hiking felt easy for the first time in her life, and it is because of Rhonda’s class.

That is why she shows up. Even on the days she does not feel like it. People can take care of themselves. They can do the things they want to do without limitations. That is what matters to her.

What She Would Say to You Right Now

If you are listening to this and you are exactly at that crossroads, you know something needs to change but you have not made the move yet, Rhonda’s message has not changed in fourteen years. She says the same thing every time because it is always true.

Look at your future fifteen to twenty years from now. If you stay exactly where you are right now, which will actually get worse because that is how it works, what does your life look like? And if you have kids, what are you showing them? What are you leaving them with?

That is it. No fluff. No soft sell. Just a real question worth sitting with.

Action Items

  • Be honest with yourself about what you are broadcasting when you walk into a fitness class. Engagement and effort show. So does the opposite
  • Make one small change this week outside the gym. Walk more. Take the stairs. Spend less time sitting
  • Think about what your life looks like in fifteen to twenty years if nothing changes. Let that thought motivate you, not paralyze you
  • If you have been coming to class and staying stuck, look at your habits outside the gym. That is almost always where the real issue lives
  • Go back and listen to episodes 48 and 49 if you missed them. This three-part series with Rhonda is worth hearing from the beginning
  • Visit the Humane Society Animal League for Life of Madison County, Kentucky through the link in the show notes. Share the link. Donate if you can. Awareness is the goal and you sharing helps more than you know

Show Notes from this Episode:

This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not medical advice. Please consult a healthcare professional before starting any diet or exercise program.

Be sure to follow me online: https://famousashleygrant.com/fitness/

Learn more about Podcasthon: https://podcasthon.org/

Learn more about and donate to Humane Society Animal League for Life of Madison County: https://www.humanesocietyall.com/

Follow Rhonda online: https://www.facebook.com/fitnesswithRhondaGoode

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14 Years at the Front of the Room: What a Real Fitness Instructor Actually Sees

After 14 years teaching fitness, Rhonda Goode has strong opinions about what makes or breaks an instructor. Here’s what she actually sees.

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What Does a Great Fitness Instructor Actually Look Like From the Inside?

You have probably walked into a fitness class and wondered, is this instructor any good? Are they actually watching me? Do they even care?

Rhonda Goode has been teaching group fitness for fourteen years. She has seen instructors come and go. She has watched trends blow up and fizzle out. She has strong opinions about what separates the instructors who build real, lasting communities from the ones who disappear inside of a year.

This is episode two of a three-part series on More Movement Please, recorded as part of Podcasts On, a global initiative where thousands of podcasters highlight a charity of their choice. Ashley is spotlighting the Humane Society Animal League for Life of Madison County, Kentucky. Links to learn more and donate are in the show notes.

Now, here is what Rhonda actually sees when she stands at the front of the room.

The Number One Mistake Fitness Instructors Make

Rhonda does not hesitate on this one. The biggest mistake instructors make is not showing up.

Canceling class. Calling in. Sending a last-minute sub or just leaving a room full of people with nothing.

It sounds simple. But Rhonda says it is the single fastest way to lose your students’ trust and their loyalty. And she is not just saying it. In fourteen years, she has built a reputation on never canceling. Not once. If the room was being used somewhere else, she moved the class downstairs. She found a way.

That consistency is a big part of why her students keep coming back year after year.

Teaching a Class vs. Leading a Class

There is a real difference between someone who stands at the front and calls out moves and someone who actually leads.

Rhonda leads.

She does the work right alongside her students. She watches every person in the room. She knows every injury, every limitation, every body part that needs to be protected. If she calls a move and sees someone who should not be doing it, she makes eye contact and says, not you, without missing a beat.

She calls it knowing your folks. And she says it is the most important thing an instructor can do, because people come back to a class where they feel seen. Not managed. Not overlooked. Seen.

She also gives people the side eye when their form slips. The front rowers know exactly what that look means.

She Can Tell Immediately If You Are There to Work or Just Check a Box

Rhonda says this without any judgment attached to it. She just notices.

You can tell by the eye contact. By the way someone moves. By their body language. All of it together tells her within minutes whether someone is there to actually push themselves or just going through the motions.

She does not waste energy chasing people who are just checking a box. That is not harsh. It is honest. Her time and attention go to the people who want to be there.

Why She Arrives a Few Minutes Late on Purpose

This one surprised Ashley in the interview, and it will probably surprise you too.

Rhonda intentionally arrives five to seven minutes after people start gathering. On purpose.

Why? Because people come to the gym to socialize. She knows that. She accepts it. So she gives everyone time to get the chit chat out before class starts, then she turns on the music and that is the signal. Talking is over. Time to move.

She says it is exactly like church. Get it all out before it starts.

What She Thinks About the State of the Fitness Industry

The fitness world is packed right now. Social media instructors. Online certifications. People with almost no experience standing in front of a class.

Rhonda actually thinks things have gotten better, not worse. She says the industry spent years chasing the next big trend, a new format every year, something shiny and specialized. She thinks people have largely moved away from that and back toward foundational fitness. The stuff that just works.

She is not impressed by certifications for their own sake. She has seen plenty of people get certified and never use it, or get certified and still not know how to lead a room. The piece of paper is not what makes you good.

The Advice She Wishes Someone Had Given Her on Day One

If she could sit down with a brand new instructor before their first class, she would say this. Be yourself. Let the chips fall where they may. Not everyone is going to like you, and that is fine.

You need thick skin in this industry. People will walk out of your class. They will tell you they do not like what you do. They will comment on your body. They will say things to your face that they would never say anywhere else.

Rhonda’s first sub at the Y, a woman came up to her after class and said the workout was good but that she was surprised because Rhonda was, quote, kind of big. Rhonda’s internal response was essentially, just wait. Then she kept coming back and eventually became one of Rhonda’s regulars.

If you cannot handle that kind of feedback without falling apart, the front of the room is not the place for you. That is not an insult. It is just the truth.

She Builds Her Own Choreography

One more thing worth knowing. Rhonda does not just follow a preset playlist or curriculum. She builds her own choreography. She will watch six YouTube videos of a song, pull one section she likes, and build the rest herself. She has been doing this long enough that she can create a workout on the fly from almost anything.

That is fourteen years of daily investment in her craft. And it shows.

Action Items

  • If you are looking for a fitness class, watch how the instructor interacts with the room. Do they know people’s names? Do they watch for form? That is a good instructor
  • Try not to walk in and immediately go to the back to hide. Introduce yourself. A good instructor will remember you
  • If you have been coming to class and just going through the motions, ask yourself why. Boredom? Wrong format? Time for a change?
  • Give your instructor some grace. Showing up every single time takes more than people realize
  • If you are in the Richmond, Kentucky area and want to find Rhonda, check the show notes for how to connect
  • Visit the Humane Society Animal League for Life of Madison County, Kentucky through the link in the show notes

Show Notes from this Episode:

This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not medical advice. Please consult a healthcare professional before starting any diet or exercise program.

Be sure to follow me online: https://famousashleygrant.com/fitness/

Learn more about Podcasthon: https://podcasthon.org/

Learn more about and donate to Humane Society Animal League for Life of Madison County: https://www.humanesocietyall.com/

Follow Rhonda online: https://www.facebook.com/fitnesswithRhondaGoode

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– Check out my Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/theashleygrant?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsfshop_4EEZX1HN7ZCWEBZ33TK3

– Start a podcast today here: https://rss.com/?via=moremovementplease

– Create content from your own voice with Castmagic’s Suite of AI Tools: https://get.castmagic.io/dcjy15cirnts

– Want to help support our show? Buy a girl a drink perhaps? https://ko-fi.com/famousashleygrant

– Need content for your podcast or blog? Check out Tools for Motivation!

The links above are affiliate links. This means my podcast will receive a small commission if you order through any of them at no additional cost to you. Affiliate commissions are one of the ways my podcast makes money so that I can create episodes free of charge. If you do purchase anything from my links, I sincerely would like to thank you for your support!

She Never Planned to Teach. Then the Room Filled Up and the Mirrors Fogged Over

Rhonda Goode never planned to become a fitness instructor. Here’s how one packed room and two quitting instructors changed everything.

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She Never Planned Any of This

Rhonda Goode has been teaching fitness classes for fourteen years. Thousands of people have sweated, struggled, and kept coming back because of her. But here is the thing. She never set out to be an instructor.

Not even a little bit.

This episode of More Movement Please is the origin story. It is part one of a three-episode series recorded as part of Podcasts On, a global event where thousands of podcasters shine a spotlight on a charity of their choice. The charity Ashley is highlighting this week is the Humane Society Animal League for Life of Madison County, Kentucky. Links to donate and learn more are in the show notes.

Now, back to Rhonda.

Two Instructors Quit at the Same Time

Rhonda started working out in 2011 at age 35. She was just a student showing up for herself. But the only two instructors she actually liked, the ones who pushed her hard enough to make it worth her time, both decided to quit at the same time.

She refused to let that be the end of her workouts.

A few people from her gym went and got licensed in Zumba. Rhonda was one of them. Before she even finished her certification, she had already stepped in to lead a class when the room was full and there was no one else to do it. No plan. No prep. Just someone had to do it, and she did.

That is how legends actually start. Not with a big announcement. With someone stepping up when no one else would.

Starting Small on Purpose

After getting licensed in August of 2012, Rhonda did not go looking for the biggest stage. She went the opposite direction. She walked into Eastern Kentucky University’s community education program and asked if she could teach a Zumba class there. Small group. Low pressure. Time to figure things out.

She had two students at the start. Sometimes just one or two showed up.

She kept showing up anyway.

The Class That Fogged the Mirrors

Not long after, another instructor reached out and said she was leaving her classes at Berea College. She wanted Rhonda to take over. With almost no notice, Rhonda walked into that room and led the class.

It started slow. A handful of people. A few loyal regulars who told her they would never miss. They meant it.

Then something happened. Word spread. Students told their friends. Community members joined. What started as three or four people turned into sixty or sixty-five students packed into one room. Rhonda was teaching with six inches between herself and the front mirror. The room got so full, so warm, so alive that the mirrors fogged over completely.

That is not just a fitness class. That is a community that built itself around someone who refused to quit.

She Carried Her Own Equipment Up the Stairs Every Single Night

Here is something most people do not know. The sound system at Berea College would overheat from the bass in her music. So Rhonda bought her own PA system. Every class, she carried a mixer and two speakers up the stairs, taught the class, and carried everything back down to her car.

Every single time.

No shortcuts. No complaints. Just the work.

How She Ended Up at the YMCA in Richmond

Rhonda started picking up more and more classes. She was teaching at Berea, at EKU, and at another gym when the YMCA in Richmond called and asked her to sub. Two instructors were pregnant at the same time. They needed coverage.

She said yes.

Then she kept saying yes. She covered every format, sometimes with just a few hours notice. Boot camp. Aqua fitness. Low impact cardio. Formats she had never formally trained in. She figured it out each time. The suggestion box at the Y started filling up with her name. And eventually, the Y became her home base.

By the time everything settled, she was teaching twenty-three hours a week. Sometimes more.

What She Learned From Starting Over and Over Again

Rhonda says the same thing has happened to her in every job she has ever had. Someone throws her into something new with no training, and she figures it out. Fitness was no different.

She doubted herself in the beginning. She says that clearly. But she never felt like an imposter. She just did the work and got better.

That is actually one of the most useful things you can take away from this episode if you are trying to start or restart your own fitness habits. You do not need to feel ready. You just need to start. The confidence comes after the action, not before it.

What the Fogged-Up Mirrors Actually Mean

A room so packed that the mirrors fog over is not about Zumba. It is not about one instructor. It is about what happens when someone refuses to cancel, refuses to quit, and refuses to let a room full of people down.

It creates something people want to be part of.

If you are sitting on the fence about starting a fitness routine, this episode is worth a listen. Not because it will tell you which workout to do. But because it shows you what is possible when someone just keeps showing up, even when the class has two people in it.

Action Items

  • Listen to the full episode to hear Rhonda’s complete origin story
  • Think about one small, low-pressure way you could start moving your body this week, not the biggest version, just the smallest one you will actually do
  • Remember that Rhonda started with two students and built from there. You do not have to start big
  • If you have been wanting to try a fitness class, go introduce yourself to the instructor before it starts. That one step makes it easier to come back
  • Check the show notes below for the link to the Humane Society Animal League for Life of Madison County, Kentucky and consider donating or sharing

Show Notes from this Episode:

This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not medical advice. Please consult a healthcare professional before starting any diet or exercise program.

Be sure to follow me online: https://famousashleygrant.com/fitness/

Learn more about Podcasthon: https://podcasthon.org/

Learn more about and donate to Humane Society Animal League for Life of Madison County: https://www.humanesocietyall.com/

Follow Rhonda online: https://www.facebook.com/fitnesswithRhondaGoode

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Is Your Workout Actually Working Against You? A Nurse Practitioner’s Take on Strength, Recovery, and Training Smarter

More isn’t always better when it comes to exercise. Nurse practitioner Stephanie Baubie explains why overtraining can work against you, what women in their 40s specifically need to know, and what a smarter approach to fitness actually looks like.

Listen to the episode here…

A Medical Professional Just Called Strength Training Medicine

Not helpful. Not a nice bonus. Medicine.

That’s how Stephanie Baubie, a nurse practitioner specializing in integrative medicine, describes strength training in this episode. And hearing it stated that plainly by a medical professional is worth paying attention to.

But this episode isn’t just about why strength training matters. It’s also about what happens when you do too much of it, and why that conversation doesn’t get nearly enough attention.

Why Muscle Mass Is One of the Strongest Predictors of Healthy Aging

When most people think about longevity, they think about supplements, clean eating, or the latest health trend. But Stephanie points to something much more straightforward.

Muscle mass is one of the strongest predictors of how well we age.

Muscle is metabolically active tissue. It supports blood sugar regulation, hormone balance, bone density, and joint stability. Higher muscle mass is connected to lower cardiovascular risk, reduced frailty, and better long-term health outcomes overall.

The way we build and maintain muscle is through strength training. That makes strength training one of the most valuable things you can do for your long-term health, full stop.

You Don’t Have to Live in the Gym

Good news for anyone who doesn’t want to spend their life at the gym.

Stephanie is clear that you don’t need to. Even 30 to 45 minutes of intentional strength training three days a week is enough to stimulate muscle growth, support bone health, and improve insulin sensitivity.

That’s it. Three days a week. Less than two hours total, depending on the session. You can protect your joints, improve your posture, reduce your fall risk as you age, and build a body that serves you well for decades. And you don’t have to make fitness your entire life to do it.

The Problem With the “More Is Always Better” Mindset

Here’s where this episode gets really interesting, and really honest.

In a culture that rewards pushing harder and doing more, a lot of high-achieving people equate progress with intensity. They add more workouts. They chase exhaustion. They assume that if something is good, more of it must be better.

Stephanie says that mindset can quietly sabotage your results.

When you overtrain, your body releases more cortisol, which is your primary stress hormone. When cortisol stays elevated, it can impair muscle recovery, disrupt sleep, increase inflammation, and actually make it harder to build strength.

Here’s the key point. Your body doesn’t get stronger during the workout. It gets stronger during recovery.

If you’re not protecting your recovery as fiercely as you’re protecting your workout schedule, you could be working against yourself.

Why Mobility Work Matters Too

Strength training without mobility work is a setup for stiffness and injury.

Mobility work improves flexibility, joint integrity, and range of motion. Without it, you can build strength on top of physical restriction, which often leads to problems down the road.

The good news is that mobility doesn’t have to be complicated or time-consuming. Stephanie recommends just 10 intentional minutes after your workout, focusing on your hips, shoulders, and spine. That’s a small investment that pays off significantly over time.

Rest Days Are Not Optional

Sleep matters. Rest days matter. Light walking counts as recovery.

These aren’t just nice ideas. They’re necessary parts of a training plan that actually works.

Strength builds resilience. Mobility preserves fluidity. Recovery allows adaptation. All three work together. You can’t just focus on the strength part and expect everything else to fall into place.

What Women in Their 40s Specifically Need to Know

Stephanie gives special attention to women in perimenopause in this episode, and it’s worth highlighting.

Starting in your 40s, hormonal shifts begin to affect muscle mass, bone density, and your body’s ability to recover. We naturally lose muscle every decade after our 30s unless we intentionally work to maintain it.

That makes strength training even more essential in your 40s. Not for how you look, but for your metabolic health, your bone protection, and your long-term vitality.

At the same time, your recovery capacity may not be what it was in your 20s. This season of life calls for intelligent balance, not constant intensity. Stimulate the muscle, then give your body time to recover.

If cortisol is already elevated from life stress, poor sleep, or other pressures, layering on excessive training can leave you feeling constantly depleted. That chronic depletion is a sign worth paying attention to.

Ashley’s Honest Reflection

Ashley gets real in this episode. She’s currently working out somewhere between 10 and 16 hours per week. She’s acknowledged before that she sometimes overdoes it.

Hearing Stephanie explain exactly what happens physiologically when you push too hard for too long, elevated cortisol, impaired recovery, disrupted sleep, more inflammation, hit close to home.

Ashley doesn’t commit to dramatically cutting back, but she does commit to looking at her schedule with fresh eyes. And she encourages anyone else who might be overtraining to do the same. If you feel constantly depleted despite doing everything “right,” this episode might explain why.

A Simple Framework for Anyone Who Feels Overwhelmed

If all of this feels like a lot, Stephanie ends with the most practical possible advice.

Three days a week of strength training. A few minutes of mobility before or after each session. At least one true rest day. Protect your sleep.

No extremes. Just consistency.

That’s the whole plan. And it’s more than enough to build the strength and health that support a long, capable life.

Action Items

  • Aim for three strength training sessions per week, 30 to 45 minutes each
  • Add 10 minutes of mobility work focusing on hips, shoulders, and spine after each session
  • Schedule at least one true rest day every week
  • Prioritize sleep as part of your training plan, not separate from it
  • If you feel constantly tired or depleted despite regular exercise, consider whether you might be overtraining
  • Women in perimenopause: focus on intelligent balance over constant intensity

My First Time at Shaking Seafood and Wings of Lexington: A Review

If you’ve been looking for a seafood spot in Lexington, Kentucky, you may have already come across Shaking Seafood and Wings of Lexington. My husband and I recently paid them a visit for the first time, and I’m here to give you a review of our experience.

TLDR: Would eat there again!

How We Ended Up There (It Wasn’t Exactly Planned)

Honestly, this was one of those spontaneous dinners that just kind of happens. We were out in Lexington on Saturday, February 21st, hunting for a new office chair for me and running errands. Before we knew it, it was getting late, and cooking dinner at home was completely off the table.

If you know me, you know how much I prefer eating at home. But, with hanger pains rearing their ugly head – it was time to eat! And, we were craving seafood…

We knew there were some seafood options in the area, and after a little debate about what was closest we picked Shaking Seafood and Wings of Lexington and decided to give it a shot.

We walked in around 9:15 PM. The restaurant closes at 11 PM on Saturdays, and there were still people there, so we figured why not? We stayed until closing along with several other folks that were glued to whatever sporting event was on at the bar. To be honest, I didn’t pay much attention so I couldn’t tell you what sport it was or who was winning.

Shell Yeah, Here’s What We Ordered

Once we sat down and got our menus, I asked our waitress for her recommendation. She pointed me straight to the fried catfish shaking tacos, and I went with it. They come with three warm tortillas filled with lettuce and coleslaw, topped with ranch, spicy mayo, and cheese.

They were genuinely impressive, and not too terribly expensive. I was surprised by how spicy they were, and the flavor was really well developed. Catfish can sometimes taste pretty bland to me, but that was not the case here at all thanks to the yummy sauce. The coleslaw on top was also really good, which I was not expecting to be a highlight but here we are.

My husband ordered a pound of snow crab from their seafood market menu, which came with two pieces of potato, one piece of corn, and one egg. For his sauce, he went with the Shaking Special, which is a combination of all three of their house sauces: Cajun (a blend of Cajun spices including cayenne pepper and paprika), lemon pepper (lemon zest with black pepper and light Cajun seasoning), and garlic butter (roasted garlic, melted butter, and light Cajun seasoning). The waitress recommended the medium spice level for the snow crab, and he took her advice on that too.

The Verdict on the Food

The snow crab at medium spice was no joke. It was the kind of heat that builds as you eat, so by the end of the meal you are really feeling it. My husband said he loved the snow crab legs and would absolutely order them again. I tried a little and thought it was delicious too.

The potatoes that came with his combo were perfectly seasoned (thanks to all the Shaking Special sauce all over the plate!) and really good. He also said the corn was fantastic. The egg, though? Neither of us were fans of that. It felt a little out of place to be honest, and we could have done without it entirely.

I let him try my catfish tacos and he agreed the catfish was cooked perfectly and the sauce was great. So basically we both enjoyed our dinner.

The Staff Didn’t Flounder Either

The waitstaff was lovely and very attentive. Any time we were running low on drinks, they were right there with refills. That kind of service matters, especially when you’re sitting down for a full meal close to closing time.

What I’m Reeling In Next Time

There were a couple of things on the menu that caught my eye that I didn’t get to try this time around. The crab cakes are at the top of my list. They’re made with lump crab meat and served with sweet butter corn and bell pepper, plus a choice of spicy mayo or tartar sauce. I love to make my own crab cakes at home, but I’m always curious to try them elsewhere.

I also want to go back for the catfish basket, which comes with four pieces of catfish plus fries and all the dipping sauces. If the catfish in my tacos was any indication, the basket is going to be really good.

My husband already has his next order picked out too. He’s going back for another seafood combo.

Is It Worth It? Let’s Talk Claws and Dollars

I will say that Shaking Seafood is a little pricey, but that’s pretty standard right now, and seafood especially tends to run higher due to market pricing. If you’re going in for crab, just know the price can vary depending on availability and the season. Going in with that expectation makes it easier to enjoy the experience without any sticker shock.

Our total with tax and tip came it at under $75, but considering what we ordered, we weren’t too crabby about the cost.

The Bottom Line

Shaking Seafood and Wings of Lexington is a Cajun style seafood restaurant with homemade sauces, solid food, and good service. For a first visit, we both came away happy and ready to go back. If you’re in Lexington and looking for a seafood dinner, it’s worth checking out.

You can find them at 3110 Mapleleaf Drive in Lexington, KY 40509. Their website is shakingseafoodlexington.com, here’s their Facebook page, or you can reach them by phone at (859) 264-8888.

Have you been to Shaking Seafood and Wings of Lexington? Drop your thoughts in the comments below!

Professional Presence: How Small Behaviors Shape Big Career Outcomes

Discover how small daily behaviors shape your professional presence and career growth. Learn key habits, nonverbal techniques, and personal branding strategies to build lasting credibility.

The following is a guest post from my bloggy friend Ellie Williams. Interested in having a guest post on my website? Click here for my guest post submission form.

How to Build Professional Presence: Habits, Body Language & Personal Branding

In today’s fast-paced workplace, your reputation is built one moment at a time. A quick email, a brief chat, or even your online profile can tilt the scales between a promotion and an overlooked opportunity. Professional presence is the art of aligning your actions, words, and digital footprint so others see you as reliable, capable, and credible.

In this article, you will discover the professional presence definition, and you will learn how tiny habits add up to major career impact. You will learn how to:

•             Define professional presence and separate it from simple office etiquette

•             Build trust and demonstrate capability through everyday actions

•             Harness nonverbal cues, vocal tone, and personal branding to stand out

•             Maintain energy and resilience so your best self shines through

Ready to upgrade your personal brand by focusing on small but powerful behaviors? Let’s begin by defining exactly what professional presence means and why it matters for your career growth.

Defining Professional Presence

What Is Professional Presence?

If you seek a professional presence definition, here it is: how others perceive you when they view your name, read your work, or interact with you online and offline. It combines three core elements: a clear professional identity, composed communication, and a consistent digital footprint across platforms.

Debunking the Misconception

Professional presence is not self-promotion or embellishment but an honest, transparent reflection of your expertise and values.

Professional Presence vs. Professional Setting

What is a professional setting? It refers to the workplace environment, whether in-person offices or virtual platforms. Professional presence, on the other hand, centers on your personal brand and messaging. It requires honesty, transparency, and consistency in how you present yourself, not just following office norms.

Why It Matters for Career Growth

•             Manages reputation: Active guidance prevents outdated or inaccurate information from defining you.

•             Builds credibility: A clear, consistent narrative makes your competence visible.

•             Supports advancement: Employers and peers recognize and promote those with a strong presence.

Key Elements of Professional Presence

Trustworthiness

Trustworthiness hinges on consistency and integrity. Meeting deadlines and honoring commitments show reliability. Clear communication about progress or setbacks prevents surprises. Practicing transparency in decisions and admitting mistakes promptly maintains credibility. Maintaining punctuality for meetings and responses signals respect for others.

Capability

Demonstrating capability involves more than technical know-how.

Initiative

Volunteer for tasks and propose improvements proactively.

Attention to Detail

Proofread documents and verify data before sharing. Small checks demonstrate competence and care.

Caring and Empathy

Cultivating empathy strengthens connections. Active listening and open questions reveal genuine interest. A warm greeting and timely follow-up foster teamwork. Recognizing contributions with a sincere compliment builds morale. Offer support when colleagues face challenges to show you value their success.

Confidence Without Arrogance

Balanced confidence comes from humility and clarity. Speak with conviction about your expertise, but welcome feedback. Acknowledge collaborators and share credit. Composure under pressure and transparent decision-making reinforce credibility. Show gratitude for mentorship and share lessons learned.

Small Behavioral Habits That Shape Perception

Punctuality as Respect

Arriving on time shows respect for colleagues and projects. It also prevents delays and signals reliability. Treat each deadline and meeting start as a chance to reinforce trust. Simple habits like setting alerts or planning commutes reduce stress and keep you present from the first moment.

Demonstrating Initiative

Take small steps to solve issues before they grow. Offer ideas in calls, volunteer for follow-up tasks, or share a resource that could help the team. Proactive gestures show you care about outcomes and drive projects forward. Over time, these micro-efforts set you apart as a dependable problem solver.

Showcasing Attention to Detail

Monitoring small errors and refining work improves quality. Proofread emails, verify data, and review deliverables before sharing. This habit minimizes mistakes and highlights your commitment to excellence. Peers and leaders notice the extra care, which builds a reputation for thoroughness and precision.

Nonverbal and Vocal Communication Techniques

Nonverbal cues and voice modulation send fast signals about confidence and intent. Body alignment, gestures, and vocal control influence how colleagues assess competence and credibility. Studies show body language accounts for 65% of interpersonal communication, making these techniques vital for career growth.

Power Poses and Posture

Holding expansive poses for two minutes can cut cortisol by about 25% and raise testosterone by 19%. Simple actions like placing hands on your hips or stretching your arms open your posture trigger neuroendocrine shifts and boost feelings of power. Use these poses before high-stakes meetings to center yourself and project confidence.

Open and Grounded Stance

Adopt an open stance with uncrossed arms, visible palms, and a slight forward lean. Keep feet hip-width apart to stay grounded. This posture signals approachability and authority. In contrast, slouching or crossing limbs can imply defensiveness or disengagement and may undermine credibility.

Vocal Variety: Pitch, Pace, and Resonance

Varying pitch, pacing, and resonance makes speech more engaging and clear.

Pitch and Emphasis

Adjust your pitch to highlight key points. A moderate range prevents a monotone delivery and keeps listeners alert.

Pace and Pauses

Balance speaking speed with deliberate pauses. Pauses give audiences time to process ideas and signal transitions.

Resonance and Breath

Use deep breathing to support a rich, resonant tone. Proper breath control sustains volume, enhances clarity, and reduces vocal strain.

Combining these nonverbal and vocal techniques strengthens your professional presence and fosters better engagement in any setting.

Appearance and Personal Branding

Dress for Your Role

Align your attire with both your industry and your career objectives. For midlevel professionals, a mix of crisp button-downs, tailored blazers, and polished shoes projects competence.

Focus on proper fit and comfortable fabrics; ill-fitting clothes can distract from your message. Invest in versatile tops and other pieces that pair easily and reinforce a consistent look without overhauling your entire wardrobe.

Grooming Essentials

A reliable grooming routine sets the stage for a polished presence. Keep hair neatly trimmed and styled to suit your workplace standards. Maintain clear skin with a simple cleanse-and-moisturize regimen. Trim nails regularly and choose neutral polish if desired. Select minimal accessories, such as a classic watch or subtle cufflinks, to avoid visual clutter and underline attention to detail.

Building Your Online Brand

A cohesive digital footprint extends your professional image beyond the office.

Profile Optimization

•             Craft a clear, keyword-rich headline on LinkedIn.

•             Use a high-quality, approachable headshot.

•             Write a concise summary that highlights your expertise and values.

Consistent Visuals and Content

•             Choose a banner image and profile palette that align with your field.

•             Share articles, insights, and project highlights regularly.

•             Engage thoughtfully with peers and industry groups to reinforce your personal brand.

Self-Care and Energy Management

Sustaining a strong presence relies on more than skills and style. When you feel healthy and balanced, your energy, focus, and confidence shine through. Integrating regular self-care helps maintain your professional rhythm over long projects.

Prioritizing Well-Being

Plan regular sleep, exercise, and nutrition to keep stress low. Block short breaks in your calendar for stretching or a quick walk—document daily moments of gratitude to boost mindset and guide healthier choices.

Stress Management Techniques

Prepare an action plan before tackling tasks to reduce anxiety and confusion, and leverage business software like Your Aspire to streamline and track your workflow. Use mindfulness pauses to question if your thoughts help or harm you. This cognitive reframing supports clarity under pressure.

Task Planning

•             Outline clear desired outcomes before starting each task.

•             Schedule brief breathing breaks to reset focus.

Building Emotional Resilience

Emotional Regulation

Replace negative language with problem-solving questions to maintain calm self-belief. Focus on factors you can change and let go of what you cannot control. Cultivate presence by actively listening and engaging in conversations.

Leveraging Neuroscience and Habit Blueprints

This framework bridges the gap between intention and habit by leveraging the brain’s plasticity. Subtle behavior shifts accumulate into lasting changes in how colleagues and leaders perceive you.

The Science of Micro-Behaviors

Neuroscience shows that tiny cues shape social perception. Facial micro-expressions lasting 1/25th of a second alter trust judgments and boost your approachability by up to 40%. Breaking presence skills into discrete micro-goals focuses brain resources. Deliberate practice of one confident opening line can accelerate neural remodeling two to three times faster than passive repetition.

66-Day Habit Integration Plan

Research reveals that consistently practicing presence-enhancing micro-behaviors for about 66 days rewires neural circuits until the new actions feel automatic. Structure your plan with daily habit stacks and 30 to 45-minute focused practice sessions to tap peak neuroplastic windows.

Tracking Progress with Biofeedback

Use a multi-channel feedback loop: self-assessments, coach reviews, objective engagement metrics, peer observations, and recorded session playback to catch inefficiencies early. Biofeedback ensures real-time course corrections and cements efficient micro-habit adoption.

Common Pitfalls to Avoid

Oversharing Personal Details

Sharing too many personal stories or opinions can blur professional boundaries and dilute your authority.

Lack of Preparation

Thinking out loud or prefacing remarks with uncertainty shows a lack of readiness. Review agendas and key facts before meetings.

Workplace Gossip

Rumor and idle talk undermine trust and hurt team dynamics. Focus on constructive feedback and positive dialogue.

Neglecting Follow-Up

Failing to send promised emails or updates erodes reliability. Close the loop promptly to reinforce your dependability.

Conclusion

Building a strong professional presence comes down to consistent, small actions that shape how others see you. By focusing on micro-behaviors, you lay the groundwork for lasting credibility and career growth.

Key takeaways:

•             Define and reinforce your personal brand through clear messaging, reliable follow-through, and a polished online profile

•             Demonstrate trustworthiness, capability, and empathy in daily interactions

•             Use intentional nonverbal cues and vocal variety to project confidence and engage colleagues

•             Dress and groom with purpose while sharing relevant insights on digital channels

•             Prioritize self-care and stress management to sustain energy and resilience

•             Leverage habit science and feedback loops to make presence skills automatic

•             Steer clear of oversharing, unprepared remarks, and workplace gossip to maintain authority

Every email, meeting, and social post is an opportunity to reinforce your professional presence. Commit to one new micro-habit today and track your progress over the next 66 days. Those small steps will accumulate into visible career momentum. Your reputation is built moment by moment. Start shaping yours now.

About the Author – Ellie Williams

Designing Landscapes for More Than the First Impression - Ellie Williams

Ellie Williams studied at Miami State University and majored in Marketing with a minor in creative writing. She enjoys doing freelance writing on general business, wellness, and lifestyle tips. During her free time, she enjoys catching up with friends and family or attending local events. 

The Truth About Fad Diets, Fitness Goals, and Why There’s No Finish Line

Have you ever talked yourself out of a workout before you even started? Ashley gets honest about the mindset traps that hold people back, and what she would tell her past self today.

Listen to the episode here…

What This Episode Is About

This is a Q&A episode. And it’s a good one.

Ashley answers listener questions that cover everything from the moment she walked out of her very first Zumba class to how fitness has changed her creativity, her work, and her relationships. She also tackles one of the most common questions in fitness: is there actually a finish line?

Short answer? Kind of. But the full answer is worth hearing.

Whether you are just starting out or trying to get back on track after falling off, this episode is full of real talk and practical takeaways.

What Would You Tell Your Past Self?

One listener asked Ashley what she would say to the version of herself who walked out of a Zumba class after just fifteen minutes back in August 2023.

Her answer was simple: listen to the instructor.

That day, her fitness instructor told her she could do more than she thought she could. Ashley didn’t believe her. She walked out. And looking back, that one moment represents something a lot of people experience. We talk ourselves into quitting before we even give ourselves a real chance.

If she could go back, she would also tell herself to stop believing every thought that popped into her head. At the time, she was convinced she needed to slash her calories dramatically. She thought she had to overhaul everything all at once. She thought the only path forward was a hardcore diet.

None of that was true.

What she actually needed was to start putting in the work. That’s it.

Why Fad Diets Set You Up to Fail

Fad diets and extreme calorie cutting have one big problem: they don’t last.

When you treat eating like a punishment, you set yourself up to quit. When you tell yourself you just won’t eat this week, you are setting up a cycle that leads nowhere good. You lose some weight. You go back to your old habits. You gain it back. Sometimes more.

The fix isn’t a stricter diet. The fix is showing up consistently, even imperfectly.

And if you walked out of a class after fifteen minutes? That’s okay. What matters is whether you come back.

How Fitness Changed More Than Just Ashley’s Body

Another listener asked how getting fit changed how Ashley shows up in other parts of her life, like work, relationships, and creativity.

The answer surprised even her a little bit.

Creativity and Work

Ashley does creative work for a living. And for a while, she was hitting a wall creatively. The ideas weren’t flowing. She felt stuck.

Once she started working out regularly, something shifted. Her mind started to clear. She started thinking more clearly. New content ideas started coming. She felt more confident pitching the kinds of assignments she actually wanted to do.

Movement does something for the brain that sitting still simply does not.

Relationships and Community

Ashley describes herself as an introverted extrovert. She loves being around people, but she also needs time to recharge. And for a stretch of time, she was becoming a bit of a hermit. She works from home. She wasn’t seeing anyone. She felt isolated.

Fitness classes changed that.

Showing up to class meant showing up for a community. It gave her people to see, a place to belong, and the energy that comes from being around others who are working toward something.

She even joined a pool league since committing to fitness. It opened her back up in ways she didn’t expect.

She also got more intentional about staying connected to the people she cares about. She now puts calendar reminders to check in with friends, whether they have an appointment coming up, a surgery, or something they were nervous about. It sounds small. But it’s made a real difference.

Is There a Finish Line in Fitness?

This might be the most honest answer in the whole episode.

No. There isn’t one. Not really.

Ashley’s goal is to move her body every single day for the rest of her life. So technically, the finish line is whenever she stops breathing. Which she admits sounds a little morbid. But it’s the truth.

Goals Change. That’s a Good Thing.

When Ashley started, she had a goal weight in mind. She was chasing a number on the scale. Over time, she realized that wasn’t the right thing to chase. She shifted her focus to feeling better, feeling stronger, and getting her health markers under control.

One of her early goals was to get her blood pressure under control. She did that.

Her strength goals have changed too. She started with three-pound weights for her lighter work and fives for heavier. Then she worked up to fives and tens. Then sevens and fifteens. Now she’s using eights and fifteens and has her eye on tens and twenties.

Her clothing goals have changed as well. She hit the medium she was working toward. Now she’s curious about small.

The goalpost keeps moving. And she thinks that’s exactly how it should be.

Why Shifting Goals Keep You Going

Having something to work toward is what keeps motivation alive. If you hit a goal and then just stop, you stall out. But if every goal you hit opens the door to the next one, you stay in motion.

That’s the whole point.

Key Takeaways From This Episode

Here are the highlights worth remembering:

On getting started: If you walk out of your first class after fifteen minutes, that’s not failure. That’s a beginning. Go back.

On fad diets: Extreme restriction doesn’t work long term. Sustainable movement and real lifestyle habits are what actually stick.

On fitness and mental health: Working out regularly can clear mental fog, spark creativity, and help you feel more connected to people around you.

On community: Fitness classes, leagues, and group activities can crack you out of isolation in ways you might not expect.

On goals: Stop chasing a number. Focus on how you feel, how you perform, and how your health is improving. Let the goals grow with you.

On the finish line: There isn’t one. Movement is for life.

Action Items

If you’re just starting out or getting back to it, here’s where to begin:

  • Pick one class, one walk, or one workout and commit to it this week. Just one.
  • If you quit partway through something, go back. Don’t let that be the last time.
  • Stop waiting for the perfect plan. Start with what you have right now.
  • Write down one fitness goal that has nothing to do with the scale.
  • Put one check-in reminder on your calendar for someone you care about. Moving your body tends to make you a better friend too.

Final Thought

There is no magic diet. There is no perfect starting point. There is no finish line.

There’s just today. And whether or not you moved your body in it.

Have you worked out today?